Theory The Blackpill Spiders Web of Attractiveness

[BP_Renegade]

This is my theory of what makes an attractive male in the eyes of women. It doesn't apply to what makes an attractive female for obvious reasons.

Basically there are 6 main pillars to being attractive to women which are Looks, Social Circles, Social Skills, Social Media, Social Status and Money. They all link together, and without one of the 6 it will have an impact on some of the others, thus making the spider web much weaker. I added 2 more factors which are Good Health and Self Sufficient, but these two don't affect the main 6 pillars too much, but can still help to improve your attractiveness.

The stronger each of the 6 pillars are as well as the 2 extra pillars, the stronger your attractiveness will be. If you are lacking in multiple pillars, then your web will be too weak and it will completely fail and you are unattractive.

 

[Deleted member 21230]

Cope it's all looks

 

[metabuxx]

Cope. Holes will break down anti-social Chad's basement door to suck the soul out of his dick.

 

[Animecel2D]

 

[Neggr]

Cope it's all looks

 

[TheJoker]

Chad doesn't need social skills, social circles, he can even live with mom. Looks is literally everything. We have done loads of studies to prove it.

A lot of women don't actually want to believe that they are only attracted to looks. A study was conducted in which women were asked to rate the most attractive males before a speed dating event, the ones they selected beforehand, were the ones she picked to see again. Personality doesn't matter. With a good looking guy, women will create that connection and convince herself she likes his personality. We have done studies where chad treats her like trash, and it didn't matter, she still found that connection.

Studies conducted on Tinder have proven that Chad can be a child rapist, impregnate his own mother, kill babies, and still get massive amounts of attraction from women.

An incel could be a lawyer, own his own firm, give donations to charity, have big social circles, and he won't get any matches on Tinder.

 

[Deleted member 27495]

 

[Gymcelled]

If you have the looks you're much more likely to be healthy unless you just abuse drugs and do other harmful shit.

Social circle, status, money and almost everything else also comes from looks for the most part

i can still see u

 

[ihaveno1]

Almost spider, but still impressive

 

[TheBasedCel]

prob found it in ur house ngl spiders are nightmare fuel

 

[BP_Renegade]

Chad doesn't need social skills, social circles, he can even live with mom. Looks is literally everything. We have done loads of studies to prove it.

Can you explain why the PUA who was a member of this forum got arrested then? He was good looking but the women all felt harassed when he approached them?

 

[WarriorSkull]

Decent starting point, but I've always had an issue with the concept of "Social Skills". The term is to ambiguous and leads to difficulty analyzing social behaviors. How are we to judge social skill? Is not the heart of the blackpill that humans rationalize their feelings about looks as qualitative judgments of one's character? Are we even capable of objective analysis of a person's social skill?

This is why improving social skills is so difficult. First we've not proven it is even possible, but for us to prove that it is possible (much less improve it), we would need some standard to measure against.

 

[BP_Renegade]

Decent starting point, but I've always had an issue with the concept of "Social Skills". The term is to ambiguous and leads to difficulty analyzing social behaviors. How are we to judge social skill? Is not the heart of the blackpill that humans rationalize their feelings about looks as qualitative judgments of one's character? Are we even capable of objective analysis of a person's social skill?

This is why improving social skills is so difficult. First we've not proven it is even possible, but for us to prove that it is possible (much less improve it), we would need some standard to measure against.

Social skills are very complex to analyze, as there can be hundreds if not thousands of factors which can affect any particular social situation, but it is still something which should come naturally to someone who had a normal childhood and upbringing where they could fully develop their social ability right into adulthood. If you neglect anything, you become worse at it and if you neglect it for too long, it can be almost impossible to relearn when you get older. I would say you have decent social skills if you can hold a conversation with someone for over 5 minutes, make them laugh and get them to look interested in the conversation whether it is with a male or female. Otherwise you have poor social skills, and it depends on personal circumstance as to whether you can improve them to the decent standard.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Chad doesn't need social skills, social circles, he can even live with mom. Looks is literally everything. We have done loads of studies to prove it.

A lot of women don't actually want to believe that they are only attracted to looks. A study was conducted in which women were asked to rate the most attractive males before a speed dating event, the ones they selected beforehand, were the ones she picked to see again. Personality doesn't matter. With a good looking guy, women will create that connection and convince herself she likes his personality. We have done studies where chad treats her like trash, and it didn't matter, she still found that connection.

Studies conducted on Tinder have proven that Chad can be a child rapist, impregnate his own mother, kill babies, and still get massive amounts of attraction from women.

An incel could be a lawyer, own his own firm, give donations to charity, have big social circles, and he won't get any matches on Tinder.

Sadly this is true, the study also said that men are far more self aware at the type of things they find attractive, women either lie or lack self-awareness.

 

[TheJoker]

Can you explain why the PUA who was a member of this forum got arrested then? He was good looking but the women all felt harassed when he approached them?

For sure...

The guy in question is not Chad. He is an average guy. The reason the forum was shocked was because he isn't an incel. Unfortunately, average men do not have the super power anymore of being able to pull cold approaches off. It is a major reason why the pua movement declined and many of the forums I frequented are no more. The media have been attacking cold approachers for a long time.

And this brings us to the social attitude side of things. Things have changed since the pua movement was in its prime. In 2003-2014ish an average guy could run around approaching and get results, but attitudes have changed now in which women are more likely to take the harassment line of thinking, unless you're chad of course. The police also now take the harassment line of thinking.

In the past he wouldn't have been arrested (never seen a known case) but this arrest was political in order to curb cold approachers. The media were notified by the police so they wanted to push this narrative as a deterrent. It is community policing 101. He most likely got arrested for a section 5 public order of causing harassment, alarm and distress. This is highly subjective and since so many women came forward and said he was 'creepy' they used it.

OP, I totally get where you're coming from on this. Men with looks will benefit from these things of course. But looks is at least 95% weighting.

 

[BP_Renegade]

Chad doesn't need social skills, social circles, he can even live with mom. Looks is literally everything. We have done loads of studies to prove it.

A lot of women don't actually want to believe that they are only attracted to looks. A study was conducted in which women were asked to rate the most attractive males before a speed dating event, the ones they selected beforehand, were the ones she picked to see again. Personality doesn't matter. With a good looking guy, women will create that connection and convince herself she likes his personality. We have done studies where chad treats her like trash, and it didn't matter, she still found that connection.

Studies conducted on Tinder have proven that Chad can be a child rapist, impregnate his own mother, kill babies, and still get massive amounts of attraction from women.

An incel could be a lawyer, own his own firm, give donations to charity, have big social circles, and he won't get any matches on Tinder.

I think looks are only important for very short term attraction. She may get sick of him after only a few days once she gets beyond his looks, and it means many short term relationships rather than any long lasting relationships. The other factors are important if you want to have the long term success with a single relationship. If all you care about is short term, then fine good looks is enough, but this just causes a burden on the rest of society with STD's and abortions.

 

[TheJoker]

I think looks are only important for very short term attraction. She may get sick of him after only a few days once she gets beyond his looks, and it means many short term relationships rather than any long lasting relationships. The other factors are important if you want to have the long term success with a single relationship. If all you care about is short term, then fine good looks is enough, but this just causes a burden on the rest of society with STD's and abortions.

Women will tolerate Chad for living a low value lifestyle, since his looks offer value when she shows him off to her friends and society. You will constantly see women in abusive relationships with chad, and they usually stay put for a very long time. I used to be friends with a guy who is chad, and he literally just played video games all day long, women thought it was cute, rather than creepy, due to the halo effect.

Chad himself often gains social circles anyway from his looks. Studies conducted have found that good looking men benefit from more social opportunities, better work prospects (higher chance of promotions and often earn more) Science has also found that those with good looks are seen as more competent, but this is not true for female CEOs in which they are seen as less competent, however the basis is still the same.

Women will look past many negatives about someones personality, if it means she can be with chad. These guys are often low I.Q tracksuit wearing degenerates.