Blackpill The five stages of grief for incels

[GmeOvr]

1. Denial
You deny being an incel and believe in the Bluepill.

2. Anger
Your real life experiences disprove the Bluepill over and over again. You can't deny the truth anymore and this angers you.
You start to hate society.

3. Bargaining
You pray for some sort of miracle and think that there still is at least some chance.

4. Depression
You finally realize that it is over.

5. Acceptance
You accept your situation, and decide to play with the cards you were dealt with.

Reaching the acceptance stage is very hard, but it really provides relief.
I believe that ER was stuck in stage 2-3-4 and looping around within them.
I have reached level 5, but sometimes I fall back to stage 4.

Curious to know where you are right now.
It is also possible to skip one stage but I think it is best to go through all 5 stages to finally reach a durable enlightenment.

 

[needgirlfriend+tits]

4 me it was:
1.bluepill because of my retarded manipulating whore of a mom
2. realize everyone talk bullshit and lies (EVERYONE SOCIAL MEDIA WOMEN MEN CHILDREN FKN EVERYTHING)
3. Acceptance

 

[supersoldier]

if you have slutty or sick in the head mother or some female family members you're more likely to avoid being bluepilled. You just realise early on that women are cold hearted, sick in the head, whorish creatures.

 

[GmeOvr]

4 me it was:
1.bluepill because of my retarded manipulating whore of a mom
2. realize everyone talk bullshit and lies (EVERYONE SOCIAL MEDIA WOMEN MEN CHILDREN FKN EVERYTHING)
3. Acceptance

Lucky that you skipped the depression part and I hope you never fall into it like I did.
And yeah, people don't tell you the truth, but even when they do, if you are in Denial you might just ignore them.
Being stuck in Stage 1 is the worst possible situation, I believe it is best to stage 5 as soon as possible to avoid more damage and pain.
Most IT users are stuck in stage 1.

 

[Piratecel]

if you have slutty or sick in the head mother or some female family members you're more likely to avoid being bluepilled. You just realise early on that women are cold hearted, sick in the head, whorish creatures.

discovered in middle school that looks = popularity, this later evolved into looks = personality

i never had a chance

 

[Piratecel]

Lucky that you skipped the depression part and I hope you never fall into it like I did.

anger part was the most destrucive, and i don't think i'll ever be able to 'play' my cards

 

[GmeOvr]

anger part was the most destrucive, and i don't think i'll ever be able to 'play' my cards

Here are a few ways to play with your poor cards:
- Escortmax
- GEO/SEAmax if you can
- Move away from the people that bullied or abused you, learn to ignore them, they will be talking behind your back and make fun of you, but just ignore them.
- Find a good cope that is not destructive, something you like doing like a hobby, but a mindful hobby such as hiking in nature, reading books, Photography, painting, sports (Better something where there aren't chads and stacies to mog you), ..;

But there are more I think. Let me know.

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

I’m trapped between 2 and 4. Don’t think I’ll ever accept it.

 

[supersoldier]

- Escortmax
- GEO/SEAmax if you can

for folks who are high inhib it's not even an option unfortunately.

 

[GmeOvr]

I’m trapped between 2 and 4. Don’t think I’ll ever accept it.

2 and 4 are the worst.
I think it would be good if you could find a way to work on yourself to reach acceptance.
Acceptance is hard to reach but the relief it provides is great.

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

2 and 4 are the worst.
I think it would be good if you could find a way to work on yourself to reach acceptance.
Acceptance is hard to reach but the relief it provides is great.

What do you think you can do help reach acceptance as an incel? It’s really HARD to accept it man.

 

[GmeOvr]

for folks who are high inhib it's not even an option unfortunately.

I am high innib, it is very hard to do the first step.
You can take a little bit of Benzodiapine and alcohol it will disinhib you.

I think the best way is to go to a place like Pattaya or Sukhumvit in Bangkok.
Once you are there, you are already inside the brothel!
Just walk around and women will come talk to you, now you should be on your guard with these because freelancers can be dangerous they might rob you, drug you or do any sort of nasty things.
I would recommend going for a ladybar that has a reputable appearance because it is much safer, the girls are less likely to do you wrong because you could report them at the bar.
When you go to a ladybar or a strip club don't be surprised that an old woman comes to your table and starts talking to you.
I first thought, shit, it is truly over for me, only the oldest and ugliest lady of the bar comes to talk to me.
But actually she usually is the Mama-san, talk to her and buy her a drink or give her a tip, you can tell her which girls you like in the bar and she will go over to tell them that you are interested in them.

You can and probably should start slowly, no need to have sex right away with the first whore you meet.
But never ever forget the rule number 1: Never fall in love with a bar girl, she will be your demise!

 

[late20scel]

I used to be in denial of blackpill because I saw average looking guys with a gf. Now I realize it's survival bias and these guys probably dont get to fuck all that much. I used to somewhat believe in the redpill game theory but now Im in peace with the blackpill truths.

 

[GmeOvr]

What do you think you can do help reach acceptance as an incel? It’s really HARD to accept it man.

Being on .is and watching incelTV a/k/a Rehabroom really helps!
When what you watch or read here is hurting you, that means it is working.
Now there is a risk that it makes you depressed and sad, but depression is already stage 4 so you are very close.

 

[GmeOvr]

I used to be in denial of blackpill because I saw average looking guys with a gf. Now I realize it's survival bias and these guys probably dont get to fuck all that much. I used to somewhat believe in the redpill game theory but now Im in peace with the blackpill truths.

Embracing the black pill is stage 5: Acceptance.
Congratulation

 

[Nihilistic Lowlife]

If you are a truecel It's never began anyways.

 

[Piratecel]

Here are a few ways to play with your poor cards:
- Escortmax
- GEO/SEAmax if you can
- Move away from the people that bullied or abused you, learn to ignore them, they will be talking behind your back and make fun of you, but just ignore them.
- Find a good cope that is not destructive, something you like doing like a hobby, but a mindful hobby such as hiking in nature, reading books, Photography, painting, sports (Better something where there aren't chads and stacies to mog you), ..;

But there are more I think. Let me know.

-Escortmax
no validation + damped physical stiumlation, and i'll feel worse knowing chads gets this for free. Most escortmaxxers i know are miserable
- GEO/SEAmax if you can
i am east-african so i cant just bbcmaxx lol and SEA girls dont want nigs
- Move away from the people that bullied or abused you, learn to ignore them, they will be talking behind your back and make fun of you, but just ignore them.
you can ignore them sure but the pain is still there years later
- Find a good cope that is not destructive, something you like doing like a hobby, but a mindful hobby such as hiking in nature, reading books, Photography, painting, sports (Better something where there aren't chads and stacies to mog you), ..;
bookmaxxing rn

 

[GmeOvr]

i am east-african so i cant just bbcmaxx lol and SEA girls dont want nigs

Not true, almost everyone can SEAmax, but I would say that it is difficult if you are Curry as they have a bad reputation in SEA.
If you are from SEA, you might attempt to GEOmax to another country in SEA, for example from Thailand to Cambodia, or Vietnam to the Philippines. In SEA you can also GEOmax from the city to the country side.

you can ignore them sure but the pain is still there years later

The pain fades over time, it may take decades.

 

[Piratecel]

Not true, almost everyone can SEAmax, but I would say that it is difficult if you are Curry as they have a bad reputation in SEA.
If you are from SEA, you might attempt to GEOmax to another country in SEA, for example from Thailand to Cambodia, or Vietnam to the Philippines. In SEA you can also GEOmax from the city to the country side.


The pain fades over time, it may take decades.

lifefuel

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

Here are a few ways to play with your poor cards:
- Escortmax
- GEO/SEAmax if you can
- Move away from the people that bullied or abused you, learn to ignore them, they will be talking behind your back and make fun of you, but just ignore them.
- Find a good cope that is not destructive, something you like doing like a hobby, but a mindful hobby such as hiking in nature, reading books, Photography, painting, sports (Better something where there aren't chads and stacies to mog you), ..;

But there are more I think. Let me know.

The last part is the key to the whole game, finding a good cope THAT IS NOT DESTRUCTIVE, THIS IS THE HARDEST TO ACHIEVE, AS A LOT OF INCELS FILL THE FREE TIME WITH DRUGS, DRINK OR PORN, BOTH COMPLETELY DESTRUCTIVE TO THE MIND.

 

[Skoga]

I went through the first 4 phases rly fast, like 1-2 months. I gave up rly fast

 

[incel god]

just kill foids in video game

 

[EnviadoVerde]

3. Bargaining

 

[SnakeCel]

1. Denial
You deny being an incel and believe in the Bluepill.

2. Anger
Your real life experiences disprove the Bluepill over and over again. You can't deny the truth anymore and this angers you.
You start to hate society.

3. Bargaining
You pray for some sort of miracle and think that there still is at least some chance.

4. Depression
You finally realize that it is over.

5. Acceptance
You accept your situation, and decide to play with the cards you were dealt with.

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Reaching the acceptance stage is very hard, but it really provides relief.
I believe that ER was stuck in stage 2-3-4 and looping around within them.
I have reached level 5, but sometimes I fall back to stage 4.

Curious to know where you are right now.
It is also possible to skip one stage but I think it is best to go through all 5 stages to finally reach a durable enlightenment.

I have been in Stage 4 (Depression) for most of the time. I think occasionally I go to Stage 3 (Bargaining) because my upbringing has unfairly conditioned me to be optimistic about certain things in life no matter how dire the situation is. I belive that I fully accept the blackpill, an have for a long time now, but I am not sure that I will ever reach Stage 5 (Acceptance) because it is hard to fully and truly accept your situation without ever going back on your acceptance and trying to succeed again. It is also hard to "play the cards you are dealt" when you have very few to no cards at all in the first place.

 

[Evangelioncel]

Accepted inceldom lol. I have a lot of copes and I am a natural loner I don't mind not having a foid. Just need a toilet I can fuck lmao.

 

[Internalizzz]

anger part was the most destrucive, and i don't think i'll ever be able to 'play' my cards

what are your cards?

 

[tehgymcel420]

I never left 4

 

[VideoGameCoper]

I’m trapped between 2 and 4. Don’t think I’ll ever accept it.

Just accept it and fully swallow the blackpill bro. It will save you from the pain of blaming yourself. I used to always blame myself for ending up as an incel with no real friends in over 5 years. No matter how much I tried to socialize, I failed to even make one friend my whole time in high school. I always thought that I should have done something different or tried harder, but that is a lie. Normies don't need to put in a fuck ton of effort just to make friends. I have 4/10 looks and autism. Back in middle school, my looks were really bad like 3/10 plus insanely skinny, so I was bullied constantly and didn't stand a chance to succeed socially. A Rehab Room video was the first blackpill video I watched, and then everything clicked. The cards were stacked against me and there wasn't anything I could have done better. He emphasizes that it isn't your fault you ended up this way. Hearing that from someone else helps you feel better knowing that it isn't your fault. In case nobody told you this yet, it isn't your fault. Stop blaming yourself for things that were always out of your control.

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

Just accept it and fully swallow the blackpill bro. It will save you from the pain of blaming yourself. I used to always blame myself for ending up as an incel with no real friends in over 5 years. No matter how much I tried to socialize, I failed to even make one friend my whole time in high school. I always thought that I should have done something different or tried harder, but that is a lie. Normies don't need to put in a fuck ton of effort just to make friends. I have 4/10 looks and autism. Back in middle school, my looks were really bad like 3/10 plus insanely skinny, so I was bullied constantly and didn't stand a chance to succeed socially. A Rehab Room video was the first blackpill video I watched, and then everything clicked. The cards were stacked against me and there wasn't anything I could have done better. He emphasizes that it isn't your fault you ended up this way. Hearing that from someone else helps you feel better knowing that it isn't your fault. In case nobody told you this yet, it isn't your fault. Stop blaming yourself for things that were always out of your control.

Read every word. I’ve accepted it now, I’m quite numb to it all now.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Read every word. I’ve accepted it now, I’m quite numb to it all now.

Good. Acceptance is the best thing we can do for ourselves.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

Denial: and

Anger: Fedposting

Bargaining: Looksmaxxing

Depression: LDAR

Acceptance:

I'm currently in stage 4. I haven't been able to get to stage 5.

 

[benzocel]

I think the worst possible thing you can have is looping between 2-3-4. That instability is much worse than being stuck at say depression.

 

[lifesucksandyoudie]

Step 6: make an account on incels.is

 

[GmeOvr]

I always thought that I should have done something different or tried harder, but that is a lie

I have 4/10 looks and autism

my looks were really bad like 3/10 plus insanely skinny, so I was bullied constantly and didn't stand a chance to succeed socially

A Rehab Room video was the first blackpill video I watched, and then everything clicked

Rehab is a true legend

it isn't your fault

It is our parents fault

 

[Clavicus Vile]

Stage 6: [REDACTED]

 

[GmeOvr]

Stage 6: [REDACTED]

Stage 6

The rope is the ultimate way to accept that it is indeed ovER

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Rehab is a true legend

It is our parents fault

Yeah, Rehab is truly a legend. So was his old channel Incel TV before YouTube shut it down. Luckily another YouTuber reuploaded them and I screen recorded them in case they get taken down again. Our parent's genetics are definitely to blame for the most part. Even though my parents gave me shitty genetics, at least they are good to me. I really wish I didn't look so weak and ugly during middle school though. The damage from that level of bullying and ostracism is irreparable.

 

[The Abyss]

Stage 6 - Day of retribution

 

[GmeOvr]

Yeah, Rehab is truly a legend. So was his old channel Incel TV before YouTube shut it down. Luckily another YouTuber reuploaded them and I screen recorded them in case they get taken down again. Our parent's genetics are definitely to blame for the most part. Even though my parents gave me shitty genetics, at least they are good to me. I really wish I didn't look so weak and ugly during middle school though. The damage from that level of bullying and ostracism is irreparable.

They have to be nice to you, they are the reason for your suffering

Stage 6 - Day of retribution

Retribution and suicide by cops (in video game)

 

[Sigma]

Reached number 5 a long time ago
But I can't "play" with the cards I'm dealt

 

[nystagmuscel]

if you have slutty or sick in the head mother or some female family members you're more likely to avoid being bluepilled. You just realise early on that women are cold hearted, sick in the head, whorish creatures.

 

[Repulsive123]

Endless loop