K9Otaku
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Any man who thinks he needs "Female Validation" is a slave forever to foids
We do need Male Approval (for practical and psychological reasons). See this thread, and this one, for more details
We also need General Validation ("sense of self worth", "I have a place in the universe", etc) That is religion but it is ok. We do need it.
As young kids (below 6) both of the above are provided by our mothers. This is the origin of the idea that we need "Female Validation".
After 6, ideally, we should be cut off from our mothers in order to learn to survive on Male Approval and General Validation (religion) alone. Many old civilizations did just that. The Spartans, in particular.
Chad does not receive Female Validation. He does receive something from foids but it is wrong to call it "female validation" because it confuses us. What Chad receives is gratification of his alpha male instinct. Yes, obviously, foids play a role in that but it has nothing to do with the kind of validation we receive from our mothers in childhood. This latter form of emotional support should be called "motherly validation", for the sake of clarity.
Most societies repress alpha male behavior, for good reasons. In ancient civilizations, it was tolerated only of the kings and a few nobles (which were often killed by the king, because they were rivals). In the modern era, let us say from the 1650s to the 1950s, western civilizations completely banned any kind of alpha male behavior. Leaders were sexually unattractive older men and any youth displaying the slightest form of alpha-style competitiveness was instantly labeled a "rowdy punk" and treated accordingly.
This example from the history of the West shows that it is possible for a male population to be entirely composed of beta males and yet enjoy both ascendancy over women and also every kind of success (military, economic, technological)
Western males from 1650 to 1950 entirely derived their psychological sustenance from male approval ("good job, son") and general metaphysical approval (Christianity in this case).
They had sex all right, but they did not count on their wives to "validate" them. They would have felt ashamed at the suggestion that any woman could provide them in their adulthood with what their mothers had done for them when they were kids. The person whom they counted on for general metaphysical validation was Jesus Christ, "the king" (i.e. the Chad in the sky, the only legitimate one).
I am not a Christian. I am just making an observation. These men did not need female validation and, as a result, were not slaves of the foids.
After Christianity imploded, people looked desperately for a replacement. For our greatest misfortune, they turned to the great foid goddess and started expecting "female validation" from her. This notion, as it exists today is a mix between the alpha male satisfaction that Chad gets and the motherly validation that foids everywhere try to keep us dependent on. This hybrid does not exist. Either you get alpha male satisfaction (only for Chad), which is not good anyway as it is antisocial (C.F. J. MEEKS) or you get motherly validation ("TeeHee, you are my good boy!") which is not good for anything and is actually harmful if you are beyond the age of 6.
This non-existent hybrid has a name. It is called LOVE. The biggest scam in the history of mankind.
We do need Male Approval (for practical and psychological reasons). See this thread, and this one, for more details
We also need General Validation ("sense of self worth", "I have a place in the universe", etc) That is religion but it is ok. We do need it.
As young kids (below 6) both of the above are provided by our mothers. This is the origin of the idea that we need "Female Validation".
After 6, ideally, we should be cut off from our mothers in order to learn to survive on Male Approval and General Validation (religion) alone. Many old civilizations did just that. The Spartans, in particular.
Chad does not receive Female Validation. He does receive something from foids but it is wrong to call it "female validation" because it confuses us. What Chad receives is gratification of his alpha male instinct. Yes, obviously, foids play a role in that but it has nothing to do with the kind of validation we receive from our mothers in childhood. This latter form of emotional support should be called "motherly validation", for the sake of clarity.
Most societies repress alpha male behavior, for good reasons. In ancient civilizations, it was tolerated only of the kings and a few nobles (which were often killed by the king, because they were rivals). In the modern era, let us say from the 1650s to the 1950s, western civilizations completely banned any kind of alpha male behavior. Leaders were sexually unattractive older men and any youth displaying the slightest form of alpha-style competitiveness was instantly labeled a "rowdy punk" and treated accordingly.
This example from the history of the West shows that it is possible for a male population to be entirely composed of beta males and yet enjoy both ascendancy over women and also every kind of success (military, economic, technological)
Western males from 1650 to 1950 entirely derived their psychological sustenance from male approval ("good job, son") and general metaphysical approval (Christianity in this case).
They had sex all right, but they did not count on their wives to "validate" them. They would have felt ashamed at the suggestion that any woman could provide them in their adulthood with what their mothers had done for them when they were kids. The person whom they counted on for general metaphysical validation was Jesus Christ, "the king" (i.e. the Chad in the sky, the only legitimate one).
I am not a Christian. I am just making an observation. These men did not need female validation and, as a result, were not slaves of the foids.
After Christianity imploded, people looked desperately for a replacement. For our greatest misfortune, they turned to the great foid goddess and started expecting "female validation" from her. This notion, as it exists today is a mix between the alpha male satisfaction that Chad gets and the motherly validation that foids everywhere try to keep us dependent on. This hybrid does not exist. Either you get alpha male satisfaction (only for Chad), which is not good anyway as it is antisocial (C.F. J. MEEKS) or you get motherly validation ("TeeHee, you are my good boy!") which is not good for anything and is actually harmful if you are beyond the age of 6.
This non-existent hybrid has a name. It is called LOVE. The biggest scam in the history of mankind.