Hasdrubaal
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I understand that this has been the subject of a previous post posted a week or so ago but I wanted to gage your opinions on jestermaxxing in light of what I've seen and experienced.
A person I know managed to land a girlfriend by simply jestermaxxing (they've been dating for quite a while now), or so I think. He's not the best looking guy (probs a 5 if he gets enough sleep) and he's not too NT either. In fact, I see quite a lot of similarities between him and I in terms of personality, we are also the same height (around 172cm). The only difference being that he is much beefier than I am and looks quite intimidating. His whole personality (as well as mine, to some extent) revolves around jestermaxxing and making people around him laugh, even if it means laughing at him. The guy managed to jestermaxx his way into getting a gf and I have no idea how. She seems to be his looksmatch but I've heard others state that he could get with a much better looking one.
I've tried doing the same thing he did but to no success. Yes, I do make people around me laugh and all but not once have I been able to get a girl's number or even initiate a sustainable conversation with one. I am too non-NT and jestermaxxing is the only way for me to initiate any conversation/interaction with any person that's not a family member or a store clerk. Trying to be sincere and serious with people has only been met with people ignoring me or just giving me that polite smile you give to people when you didn't hear them the first time they spoke. It's quite weird but I'm still adament on jestermaxxing with the aim of achieving what this guy achieved. Perhaps I could lull a 4 into getting into a relationship with me on the pretext of me being a cool and outgoing guy and then she'd feel too sorry to leave me and then boom we're matched for life.
What do you think? Is jestermaxxing viable or is it just a cope to delay my inevitable isolation?
A person I know managed to land a girlfriend by simply jestermaxxing (they've been dating for quite a while now), or so I think. He's not the best looking guy (probs a 5 if he gets enough sleep) and he's not too NT either. In fact, I see quite a lot of similarities between him and I in terms of personality, we are also the same height (around 172cm). The only difference being that he is much beefier than I am and looks quite intimidating. His whole personality (as well as mine, to some extent) revolves around jestermaxxing and making people around him laugh, even if it means laughing at him. The guy managed to jestermaxx his way into getting a gf and I have no idea how. She seems to be his looksmatch but I've heard others state that he could get with a much better looking one.
I've tried doing the same thing he did but to no success. Yes, I do make people around me laugh and all but not once have I been able to get a girl's number or even initiate a sustainable conversation with one. I am too non-NT and jestermaxxing is the only way for me to initiate any conversation/interaction with any person that's not a family member or a store clerk. Trying to be sincere and serious with people has only been met with people ignoring me or just giving me that polite smile you give to people when you didn't hear them the first time they spoke. It's quite weird but I'm still adament on jestermaxxing with the aim of achieving what this guy achieved. Perhaps I could lull a 4 into getting into a relationship with me on the pretext of me being a cool and outgoing guy and then she'd feel too sorry to leave me and then boom we're matched for life.
What do you think? Is jestermaxxing viable or is it just a cope to delay my inevitable isolation?