Brutal Which one hurts you the most mistreatment or ghosting

[InMemoriam]

Honestly I've had my fair share of both, but if were to choose one I'd say ghosting felt the worse tbh.
Its like I don't even exist!

The blackpill did help shift off the self associated guilt I used to develop subconsciously due to perceived social rejection, thankfully I don't have to deal with such misperception anymore.

 

[InMemoriam]

Maybe part of the reasons why I'd choose mistreatment over ghosting is linked to the abandonment issues caused by neglective childhood idk

 

[Deleted member 41988]

if you can be gHOSTed can you also be gSERVERed

anyway I voted ghosted

 

[Lycan]

i voted ghosted but both of them hurt. ive had both happen to me

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

My half-relatives would always go upstairs when I'd have to stay over.

As I recall, the reason was "disgust", despite me being an autistic male fidgeting near the door/kitchen of their apartment.

 

[wgod]

I voted for Mistreatment; when I was young, I did get punished for something that people lied to me about or lie about me. I got times when people who I don't know called me and insulted me to say I am ugly.
Though, I can see ghosting being painful; it hurt because it is like people denied your existence.

 

[InMemoriam]

I voted for Mistreatment; when I was young, I did get punished for something that people lied to me about or lie about me. I got times when people who I don't know called me and insulted me to I am ugly.
Though, I can see ghosting being painful; it hurt because it is like people denied your existence.

Sorry to hear that brocel, and yes ghosting hurt as hell
I tend to ghost others as coping mechanism

 

[InMemoriam]

My half-relatives would always go upstairs when I'd have to stay over.

As I recall, the reason was "disgust", despite me being an autistic male fidgeting near the door/kitchen of their apartment.

Brutal

 

[wgod]

Sorry to hear that brocel, and yes ghosting hurt as hell
I tend to ghost others as coping mechanism

Thanks, man.
I can empathize with the ghosting point. Though, the people are really good friends I would recommend trying a couple of times a month or year to contact them.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Brutal

Normies have no empathy for our kind..