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Who do you think it's more wrong/pointless?

Who do you think is more delusional and wasting his life?

  • Defeatist

    Votes: 17 58.6%
  • Improvers

    Votes: 12 41.4%

  • Total voters
    29
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I've seen these two types clash here often, first group consider second delusional copers, while second group consider first annoying self pity pathetic losers.

One that accept the role of a victim, that thinks he has been screwed over by everyone and everything, that cries over his destiny without doing anything to change it because he either don't believe he could change anything or he doesn't think it's worth it. One that hide from the world while wishing entire world burn in flames and disappear.

Other that acknowledge they are at disadvantage, that are pretty sure they won't ascend but that doesn't mean they should stop trying, still find life worth the effort. They seek having education and good job, they enjoy copes that are available, enjoy escorts, they don't think having friends and hanging out with other men is pointless. Don't think life outside of procreating and validation is meaningless.

I think second group has certainly better mindset, sadly I'm group one trough and trough.
 
Incel problems are technical, therefore potential solutions are technical. Make yourself more attractive using every trick in the book, more stylish and NT-passing, etc.
Although the #1 thing most guys here (me included) should improve is the number of foids they talk to.
Even if you ultimately fail, you always need to explore the limits of what you can achieve, therefore you don't waste your potential however little of it you have.

That's my pep talk for the day, now I'm off to the gym and it's leg day although no foid has seen my legs in 10 years.
 
Depends, honestly, on the age. Improving is for the younger folks, while defeatism is for those of us who have been - obviously - defeated by life. And since young people shouldn't be on this forum, then the improvement is more pointless in the context of this forum. :feelsjuice:
 
Depends on your age tbh
Depends, honestly, on the age. Improving is for the younger folks, while defeatism is for those of us who have been - obviously - defeated by life. And since young people shouldn't be on this forum, then the improvement is more pointless in the context of this forum. :feelsjuice:
:yes:
 
I try to strike a balance but I prefer more of the improver side
 
there are many ppl who like to bring you down and they get away with it by lying basically (they r either volcel who dont want to racemix bcuz they got retarded in /pol, or they larp as self hating ethnics but r white or they r straight up fakecels who r tight with the mods)

they get the same pleasure like the bullies in high school

and dont give a shit that they turn many into defatists

the purpose of this forum should always be to improve your situation and not to despair
 
there are many ppl who like to bring you down and they get away with it by lying basically (they r either volcel who dont want to racemix bcuz they got retarded in /pol, or they larp as self hating ethnics but r white or they r straight up fakecels who r tight with the mods)

they get the same pleasure like the bullies in high school

and dont give a shit that they turn many into defatists

the purpose of this forum should always be to improve your situation and not to despair
This may be true but anyone can see that being ethnic is a lower quality life. This simple fact is demotivating enough to me. I'm doomed to be inferior even if I do all the stuff like gymmax surgerymaxx moneymaxx because of how society values Indians. What's the point of playing a game with a handicap against you
 
This may be true but anyone can see that being ethnic is a lower quality life. This simple fact is demotivating enough to me. I'm doomed to be inferior even if I do all the stuff like gymmax surgerymaxx moneymaxx because of how society values Indians. What's the point of playing a game with a handicap against you
nevermind ascension it still sucks to be a laughing stock for the forum
 
there is no Hero without Tragedy
:feelsLSD:
 
Improvement is for :bluepill: npcs,:blackpill: renegades know it was over when they were born so they don't waste their time on futile things.
 
Improvement is a cope, however there is something admirable in fighting agianst the odds. it's reminds me of herioic struggle of Sisyphus, never giving up despite never reaching the goal. However, when you're beaten down by everybody, it's only natural to give up. I don't have will right now to improve myself.
 
I've seen these two types clash here often, first group consider second delusional copers, while second group consider first annoying self pity pathetic losers.

One that accept the role of a victim, that thinks he has been screwed over by everyone and everything, that cries over his destiny without doing anything to change it because he either don't believe he could change anything or he doesn't think it's worth it. One that hide from the world while wishing entire world burn in flames and disappear.

Other that acknowledge they are at disadvantage, that are pretty sure they won't ascend but that doesn't mean they should stop trying, still find life worth the effort. They seek having education and good job, they enjoy copes that are available, enjoy escorts, they don't think having friends and hanging out with other men is pointless. Don't think life outside of procreating and validation is meaningless.

I think second group has certainly better mindset, sadly I'm group one trough and trough.
We must be pragmatic. Not all incels can be NEETs. Therefore, moneymaxxing for copes is the most pragmatic way of life for them. Therefore LDARmaxxing won´t work. LDARmaxxing is legit advise for social leechers or people whose families are rich though.
 
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I am more into self-pity than delusional coping. Though I'd like to cope with code, I know my circumstances were ruined by having a oneitis.

Crying is only a partial solution.
 
Defeatists should fuck off, they think because you can't get pussy there is no point of doing anything in life
 
Too ADHD to read that
 
We must be pragmatic. Not all incels can´t be NEETs. Therefore, moneymaxxing for copes is the most pragmatic way of life for them. Therefore LDARmaxxing won´t work. LDARmaxxing is legit advise for social leechers or people whose families are rich though.
theres no neetbux in most thirdworld countriez like mine - neetbuxcelz only exist in 1st world countriez
 
Life is unfair , and Always running against a Wall and iMpRoVe is Not fun after a while.

I Just try to Leech and moneymax , the pandoras Box isnt Open yet but Eventually i will find it and finally have some Bliss in this shit
 

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