Lv99_BixNood
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Obvious throwaway account but I swear this is real and just happened. I’m going to try to keep this as short as possible.
I just started seeing a guy about two months ago. Unfortunately we work together at a big box retailer but in different departments. Tonight we hung out after work, and had great sex. However what ended the sex was a horrific experience that has left me feeling physically ill. He was on top going pretty hard, and I felt what I thought at first were his balls hitting my butt, but after about a minute his pace wavered and slowed, but “his balls” didn’t. Suddenly I had a horrible gut feeling, put my foot between his legs and felt his massive pit bull between them. That’s when I realized the dog had been there for I don’t know how long. I won’t go further into detail.
I yelled at him (the man) out of shock and anger “Is he licking your balls?!” and pretty much threw him off of me. He claimed he hadn’t been and angrily shouted at the dog to get off the bed. I didn’t know what to do. I got dressed and he asked me if I was upset. UM YAH. I said I was trying to figure out how he couldn’t have felt the dog from the position we were in if I could. He asked if the dog had touched me and why I hadn’t said anything if he had and I tried to explain I thought it was his body
Long story short I couldn’t even look at him, said I needed to go, and he walked me out to my car, I said I would talk to him tomorrow, and he said something about getting rid of the dog as he shut my door. I drove home as fast as I could, crying the entire way home.
So, a question especially to the men, in this situation is there any way you could have not at least felt the dogs face there while having sex?
Needless to say I’m still in shock, disgusted not only at him, but just disgusted at myself that I didn’t realize it was the dog touching me but also disgusted that the dog was touching me.
This seriously isn’t a troll post or something fake for views, I’m a very active Reddit user with my real account. Please, PLEASE be kind because this is the only place I felt I could ask this, I’m certainly not going to talk to any of my friends about it male or female, and I really need some real, honest advice from strangers on the internet to figure out wtf I’m going to do in this situation. If the consensus is what I feel/fear that he could at very least feel the dog there if not licking his nuts I’m going to stop seeing him, period, hopefully obviously, and do everything in my power to completely avoid him at work. Thank you and I apologize that I’ve had to even post this.