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Do you guys ever think about how you'd raise your son?

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Obviously most of us won't have kids, but do you ever think about having a son and how you'd raise him?

It's weird. Since I was ~16 I already knew I never wanted kids, I actually spent a lot of time thinking about how much I didn't want kids for many years. Because I hate work and I'm very frugal, the idea of working all day and being tired then coming home to and taking care of a kid seemed like slavery to me. And the cost of raising him too. And I guess since I wasn't getting any attention from girls and I had no friends also made me antisocial and loveless so of course raising a kid didn't seem like a good idea.

But lately, for the past 1 or 2 years, my mind keeps wondering. Probably cause this forum makes me dwell too much about sex and love and relationships, which I didn't care about as much before. But I keep imagining how I'd educate my son.

I think I'd be very kind and loving and I wouldn't pressure him at all about grades. AT ALL. I'd probably fight with his mother to not stress him out about grades, they don't matter. I was stressed about grades mostly because of mom and I ended up a loser anyway. Had good grades in uni, still didn't matter one bit (cause I picked meme social science degrees to get good grades but nvm).

One thing that I'd force upon him would be fighting lessons. I'd make him the opposite of me. I WOULD NOT let him be a weakling like me, your life as a boy is destroyed if you're weak. I'd send him to fighting lessons for like 2 hours every day as soon as possible. 5 or 6 years old. I'd make him a fighter. My dad made me kind and "intellectual". I'd rather have him be a brute than a weakling like me. I'd send him not to karate or some weak ass jap shit. No, mma or other hardcore shit. Preferably something where they teach you how to punch and take a punch, but with a little bit of takedowns and grappling and shit. I'd make my son strong, idc if he never goes to college and is a thug, I'd rather have him be that than an "intellectual" weakling like me.

Though I'll never have one, and that's probably for the best. I'm not fit for being a parent, I'm too lazy and anxious. And obviously I can't get any pussy.
 
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I've had an idea of how I would raise my son since I was a teenager.
 
I've decided that I have no idea how to parent and should probably never become one. Not that I have a choice in the matter anyway
 
I feel like giving my genetics is dooming some other poor soul, but if i did :

Max 2 hours of videogames per day.

Always going to bed early.

Block all sources of porn in all his devices.

Doing exercise with him everyday, teach him to be strong to defend from bullies.

Convince him to go to a school sport training.

Tell him clear that he is a genetic mess, that life is unfair and to not cope with fantasy and instead fight reality or die.
 

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I would give GH to him lol.
 
Obviously most of us won't have kids, but do you ever think about having a son and how you'd raise him?

It's weird. Since I was ~16 I already knew I never wanted kids, I actually spent a lot of time thinking about how much I didn't want kids for many years. Because I hate work and I'm very frugal, the idea of working all day and being tired then coming home to and taking care of a kid seemed like slavery to me. And the cost of raising him too. And I guess since I wasn't getting any attention from girls and I had no friends also made me antisocial and loveless so of course raising a kid didn't seem like a good idea.

But lately, for the past 1 or 2 years, my mind keeps wondering. Probably cause this forum makes me dwell too much about sex and love and relationships, which I didn't care about as much before. But I keep imagining how I'd educate my son.

I think I'd be very kind and loving and I wouldn't pressure him at all about grades. AT ALL. I'd probably fight with his mother to not stress him out about grades, they don't matter. I was stressed about grades mostly because of mom and I ended up a loser anyway. Had good grades in uni, still didn't matter one bit (cause I picked meme social science degrees to get good grades but nvm).

One thing that I'd force upon him would be fighting lessons. I'd make him the opposite of me. I WOULD NOT let him be a weakling like me, your life as a boy is destroyed if you're weak. I'd send him to fighting lessons for like 2 hours every day as soon as possible. 5 or 6 years old. I'd make him a fighter. My dad made me kind and "intellectual". I'd rather have him be a brute than a weakling like me. I'd send him not to karate or some weak ass jap shit. No, mma or other hardcore shit. Preferably something where they teach you how to punch and take a punch, but with a little bit of takedowns and grappling and shit. I'd make my son strong, idc if he never goes to college and is a thug, I'd rather have him be that than an "intellectual" weakling like me.

Though I'll never have one, and that's probably for the best. I'm not fit for being a parent, I'm too lazy and anxious. And obviously I can't get any pussy.

Yes. If I ever have the misfortune of raising a son I will raise him to be a blackpilled machine taking full advantage of blackpill. I will learn from mistakes of my parents.
 
First and foremost you'd need to maximize the prenatal testosterone since thats the biggest factor in attractiveness that you can actually change. After theyre born i'd get them testosterone injections and gh until the end of puberty. Do that and everything else will fall into place naturally.
 
I don’t want kids, so no
 
Just made a thread about this.
 
Never gonna have one. But if did would give HGH, Test. Force gymcelling during teen years. Have him live in slums for at least a month to know poor fag life.
 
I feel like giving my genetics is dooming some other poor soul, but if i did :

Max 2 hours of videogames per day.

Always going to bed early.

Block all sources of porn in all his devices.

Doing exercise with him everyday, teach him to be strong to defend from bullies.

Convince him to go to a school sport training.

Tell him clear that he is a genetic mess, that life is unfair and to not cope with fantasy and instead fight reality or die.
I wouldn't really want to be too strict. I'd like to be a loving presence. But the fighting thing would be mandatory - gotta make him strong. I'd rather him be the bully and the thug than the bullied.
Just made a thread about this.
Mine was first :p.
Yes. If I ever have the misfortune of raising a son I will raise him to be a blackpilled machine taking full advantage of blackpill. I will learn from mistakes of my parents.
That would be a complicated thing to do. You need to make sure he grows up neurotypical, but to blackpill him at the same time. Make him somewhat respectful and polite but cunning and knowing what pieces of shit women and humans in general are. WITHOUT making him an unhappy cynic.
Never gonna have one. But if did would give HGH, Test. Force gymcelling during teen years. Have him live in slums for at least a month to know poor fag life.
HGH and test can mess with your hormones and have serious side-effects and even stunt your growth. You'd need to be super careful and research stuff for years in order to not fuck it up. Tbh you need to be a doctor.
First and foremost you'd need to maximize the prenatal testosterone since thats the biggest factor in attractiveness that you can actually change. After theyre born i'd get them testosterone injections and gh until the end of puberty. Do that and everything else will fall into place naturally.
Same as I said to Transcended truecel.
 
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I'd teach him not to have expectations, not to fall for fear of missing out (which ruined my adolescence because I was so desperate to get a slit like all the chads), I'd get him into a slow but steady kinda hobby like weight lifting pretty early on, I would try not to impose any dogma (which only burden you and make you dumb), and most importantly, I'd try to get him to act in his own interest by his own volition.

How I'd accomplish all of this, especially as kids enter state indoctrination facilities at a very early age and as half of the equation would be a braindead foid who follows popular beliefs by design, I have no idea. A huge part of what terrifies me about the prospect of child raising is the existential dread caused by seeing your own flesh and blood being turnied into another useful idiot, and knowing the state can kidnap him at any time if you push back too much.
 
I'd teach him not to have expectations, not to fall for fear of missing out (which ruined my adolescence because I was so desperate to get a slit like all the chads), I'd get him into a slow but steady kinda hobby like weight lifting pretty early on, I would try not to impose any dogma (which only burden you and make you dumb), and most importantly, I'd try to get him to act in his own interest by his own volition.

How I'd accomplish all of this, especially as kids enter state indoctrination facilities at a very early age and as half of the equation would be a braindead foid who follows popular beliefs by design, I have no idea. A huge part of what terrifies me about the prospect of child raising is the existential dread caused by seeing your own flesh and blood being turnied into another useful idiot, and knowing the state can kidnap him at any time if you push back too much.
Very good post, you put a lot of thought into this. The real threat isn't that the state will indoctrinate him - at least in my experience (though I am very far from neurotypical), school doesn't imprint values in you, it doesn't really shape your worldview. The real threat is the internet, TV. Basically any form of entertainment, media, art. Social media, forums, tv shows, movies - these things are much more subtle but much better at indoctrination. And you can't keep him away from all that if you want him to be a functional human being because when you are locked away from things eventually it all backfires. Somehow you'd need to expose him to these things and show him for what wastes of time they are and how wrong they are.
 
I’d raise him to despise women more than anything else.
 
Obviously most of us won't have kids, but do you ever think about having a son and how you'd raise him?

It's weird. Since I was ~16 I already knew I never wanted kids, I actually spent a lot of time thinking about how much I didn't want kids for many years. Because I hate work and I'm very frugal, the idea of working all day and being tired then coming home to and taking care of a kid seemed like slavery to me. And the cost of raising him too. And I guess since I wasn't getting any attention from girls and I had no friends also made me antisocial and loveless so of course raising a kid didn't seem like a good idea.

But lately, for the past 1 or 2 years, my mind keeps wondering. Probably cause this forum makes me dwell too much about sex and love and relationships, which I didn't care about as much before. But I keep imagining how I'd educate my son.

I think I'd be very kind and loving and I wouldn't pressure him at all about grades. AT ALL. I'd probably fight with his mother to not stress him out about grades, they don't matter. I was stressed about grades mostly because of mom and I ended up a loser anyway. Had good grades in uni, still didn't matter one bit (cause I picked meme social science degrees to get good grades but nvm).

One thing that I'd force upon him would be fighting lessons. I'd make him the opposite of me. I WOULD NOT let him be a weakling like me, your life as a boy is destroyed if you're weak. I'd send him to fighting lessons for like 2 hours every day as soon as possible. 5 or 6 years old. I'd make him a fighter. My dad made me kind and "intellectual". I'd rather have him be a brute than a weakling like me. I'd send him not to karate or some weak ass jap shit. No, mma or other hardcore shit. Preferably something where they teach you how to punch and take a punch, but with a little bit of takedowns and grappling and shit. I'd make my son strong, idc if he never goes to college and is a thug, I'd rather have him be that than an "intellectual" weakling like me.

Though I'll never have one, and that's probably for the best. I'm not fit for being a parent, I'm too lazy and anxious. And obviously I can't get any pussy.
I'd be a terrible dad since I'm lazy and passive. I also don't think about this since it just reminds me of how I'll never be able to have kids or raise them in anything resembling a sane planet.
 
I'd be a terrible dad since I'm lazy and passive. I also don't think about this since it just reminds me of how I'll never be able to have kids or raise them in anything resembling a sane planet.
Yeah but you killed fiddy men so you're not that lazy.
 
Yeah but you killed fiddy men so you're not that lazy.
I ended fifty sons, imagine how cucked their Tojo parents must feel *laughs in Cotton*
 
I haven’t really thought about it at all, probably because it’s such a unrealistic scenario.
 

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