RageFuel Doctor said I need a gf today

[slavcel11]

I mean it. Fuck, he says this every time I visit him! I have certain complaints regarding my prostate that probably won't go away on itself unless I drastically change my lifestyle: quit sitting before the pc 24/7, start doing actual sports (mere morning exercise won't help it, I need to take on serious physical activity like twice a week), etc, etc and (the most unattainable) thing: GET A REGULAR SEXUAL LIFE WITH A STABLE SEXUAL PARTNER (MASTURBATION WON'T CUT IT, ESCORTCELLING IS NOT AN OPTION AND ACTUALLY WILL ONLY MAKE IT WORSE)

Do you think he's making fool of me? Or just joking? Do you think that sex with a real woman is all that important for a man's health? Inceldom is literally killng me.

 

[incelerated]

Do you think that sex with a real woman is all that important for a man's health? Inceldom is literally killng me.

Yes

 

[Selinity]

I mean it. Fuck, he says this every time I visit him! I have certain complaints regarding my prostate that probably won't go away on itself unless I drastically change my lifestyle: quit sitting before the pc 24/7, start doing actual sports (mere morning exercise won't help it, I need to take on serious physical activity like twice a week), etc, etc and (the most unattainable) thing: GET A REGULAR SEXUAL LIFE WITH A STABLE SEXUAL PARTNER (MASTURBATION WON'T CUT IT, ESCORTCELLING IS NOT AN OPTION AND ACTUALLY WILL ONLY MAKE IT WORSE)

Do you think he's making fool of me? Or just joking? Do you think that sex with a real woman is all that important for a man's health? Inceldom is literally killng me.

Dr. Should've given you a note so you can force some foid into a relationship with you (for health purposes ofc)

 

[Neggr]

Yes

 

[Pengwin]

You should ask him for a prescription.

 

[AlexAnguish]

You should ask him for a prescription.

^
Tell him you're an incel and ask him "Okay and how exactly do I go about getting a girlfriend?"

 

[slavcel11]

Dr. Should've given you a note so you can force some foid into a relationship with you (for health purposes ofc)

Tell him you're an incel and ask him "Okay and how exactly do I go about getting a girlfriend?"

Actually I once jokingly suggested "well, you can't simply force a woman to have kids with you, can you?". He was like "well, no need to force anyone, just find a woman who has the same goals as you [=one that wants kids as well]".

 

[Selinity]

Actually I once jokingly suggested him "well, you can't simply force a woman to have kids with you, can you?". He was like "well, no need to force anyone, just find a woman that has the same goals as you [=one that wants kids as well]".

pretty sure any women who wants children want the best genes possible but okay

 

[Emba]

He is expecting a bribe for the prescription...

Be generous!

 

[Words2_live_bye]

He says it like it's something you can easily get

 

[Deleted member 27204]

^
Tell him you're an incel and ask him "Okay and how exactly do I go about getting a girlfriend?"

Actually I once jokingly suggested "well, you can't simply force a woman to have kids with you, can you?". He was like "well, no need to force anyone, just find a woman who has the same goals as you [=one that wants kids as well]".

Just tell him there isn't such a woman and has never been such a woman.
If he persists and says something like "well not with that attitude" just say that's never worked regardless of attitude and that you'd prefer not to keep talking about that subject.
If they persist even more then just pretend to agree with them and hope they move onto another topic.

 

[littlemanhikicel]

Yes

 

[slavcel11]

ust tell him there isn't such a woman and has never been such a woman.
If he persists and says something "not with that attitude" just say that's never worked regardless of attitude and that you'd prefer not to keep talking about that subject.
If they persist even more then just pretend to agree with them and hope they move onto another topic.

He's a 50 something boomer, probably won't understand. He looked at me like I'm crazy when I said I haven't had a female friend even once in my life.

 

[Deleted member 27204]

He's a 50 something boomer, probably won't understand.

If you want those kind of comments to stop it would be better to explain your stance about this to your doctor. It might work to get them to stop at least temporarily.
Yeah sometimes the doctor is taken aback that you asserted yourself like that but if it bothers you so much there's no reason not to say you just don't think it will happen.
Plus this doctor isn't a foid so they may understand more why you wouldn't want to discuss it.

He looked at me like I'm crazy when I said I haven't had a female friend even once in my life.

He can tell by your face. He might just be that clueless that he still thinks you can put yourself out there and get results.
And female friends don't count for anything. This is what having a female friend is like

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelsWithoutHate/comments/kh6gsd/over/

 

[slavcel11]

If you want those kind of comments to stop it would be better to explain your stance about this to your doctor. It might work to get them to stop at least temporarily.
Yeah sometimes the doctor is taken aback that you asserted yourself like that but if it bothers you so much there's no reason not to say you just don't think it will happen.
Plus this doctor isn't a foid so they may understand more why you wouldn't want to discuss it.

I don't mind it for the most part, he probably means well by saying it. It just goes to show that not having sex with a woman can get you legit chronic diseases, not only mental but also physical.

 

[Deleted member 27204]

I don't mind it for the most part, he probably means well by saying it.

Nah I don't think he means well or to spite you. He just said it carelessly and in a clueless way by how you described it.
Staying silent when the doctor said that to you will look weird too btw
Most guys in your situation will say something like no girls are interested in me or that they haven't found the right girl yet.

It just goes to show that not having sex with a woman can get you legit chronic deseases, not only mental but also physical.

Yeah you have to learn to cope somehow to lessen it. Which is really hard to do these days ngl

 

[Tenshi]

and he gets paid to say things like this jfl

 

[AnotherInsertCel1]

I have certain complaints regarding my prostate that probably won't go away on itself unless I drastically change my lifestyle

What problem is your prostate causing you?

 

[Deleted member 27204]

am I the only one who avoids the doctor I haven’t seen one since like 2017 I don’t want to be asked that question about being sexually active and I can’t vent to them or a therapist so what’s the point.

I really don't mean this in a bad way but such questions are at most annoyances and it's more detrimental to you to avoid seeing a doctor if that's your only concern about seeing one for a medical issue. Yeah I'd rather they not be asked either but I'm not passing up doctors appointments just so I don't get asked this question.

This post is more evidence of that

Don't jeopardize your health just to avoid embarrassment tbh that's not all doctors say at the appointments unless you are in there for a quick vaccine shot or health checkup.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

Go ER on him in gta v

 

[Mar]

ESCORTCELLING IS NOT AN OPTION

Sounds bullshit to me. In my theory, your doctor probably wants you to cum naturally and not via masturbation. Which makes escorts a good cure if done FREQUENTLY.

You either have a dump doctor or you larp about your doctor's words.

 

[Deleted member 19236]

He was able to sense your horrible personality, so he prescribed personality enhancing activities.

 

[NothinButAComedy]

Just KILL URSELF you can't be sick if ur ded kek

 

[Justdone]

I really don't mean this in a bad way but such questions are at most annoyances and it's more detrimental to you to avoid seeing a doctor if that's your only concern about seeing one for a medical issue. Yeah I'd rather they not be asked either but I'm not passing up doctors appointments just so I don't get asked this question.

Don't jeopardize your health just to avoid embarrassment tbh that's not all doctors say at the appointments unless you are in there for a quick vaccine shot or health checkup.

If they can’t interact with me beyond health questions just a little then they don’t really care for my existence and I’m not worth they’re time for some reason

 

[Deleted member 24297]

You should ask him for a prescription.

 

[Deleted member 27204]

If they can’t interact with me beyond health questions just a little then they don’t really care for my existence and I’m not worth they’re time for some reason

None of the professionals you see for health issues care about you though. That's not the point of going there. It would be nice but you aren't a child anymore and that kind of considerate treatment is reserved for good looking people and children.

It's an annoyance to be asked those kinds of personal questions but you have a health issue that needs to be looked at that's no reason to skip out on seeing the doctor. Chances are if the condition you want to see the doctor about gets worse then you'll eventually have to see a doctor anyway.

 

[Justdone]

None of the professionals you see for health issues care about you though. That's not the point of going there. It would be nice but you aren't a child anymore and that kind of considerate treatment is reserved for good looking people and children.

It's an annoyance to be asked those kinds of personal questions but you have a health issue that needs to be looked at that's no reason to skip out on seeing the doctor. Chances are if the condition you want to see the doctor about gets worse then you'll eventually have to see a doctor anyway.

It’s not even that I don’t feel entitled to that much of a conversation it but if ya can’t answer to a hi or goodbye and have a nice day while my insurance is used to fund your practice then I refuse to be a client of that doctor. Your really understanding and I hope you get to have people around ya that are like thankful for ya being around and actually like you

 

[Hector Barbossa]

Do you think that sex with a real woman is all that important for a man's health?

Indirectly, yes. Most men only work as hard as they do and make as much money as they do to provide for their wife and children - i.e., people who theoretically love them. They have something to live for. When you have something to live for, you have to make sure you're, well, alive to provide for that something. That means taking care of yourself. We don't have that "stable sexual partner", and therefore a meaningful relationship to live for, and therefore there's no reason to take care of ourselves. I'd encourage at least trying to take care of yourself, but it's hard to do so when it feels meaningless anyways.

ESCORTCELLING IS NOT AN OPTION AND ACTUALLY WILL ONLY MAKE IT WORSE

It's an option, just not a very good one that has great potential to make things worse. Even though it's possibly one of the only options realistically available to us. It can become very dangerous when one tries to use it as a replacement for a stable sexual partner. In recent months, I've kind of fallen into that trap, but I'm now starting to realize what escortceling really is - an addiction. It's also extremely unfair - I'm starting to resent the fact that I have to pay a significant amount of money to experience 1/400th of what a normie experiences for free, and what I get isn't even real.

I feel like I should quit escortceling in 2021 or at least cut back, but I also kind of have this logic where "if I don't have a meaningful relationship to live for and never will, then why should I save money or be responsible at all? Why not just escortcel/cope?". Either way, I still suffer.

 

[WØLF]

Actually I once jokingly suggested "well, you can't simply force a woman to have kids with you, can you?". He was like "well, no need to force anyone, just find a woman who has the same goals as you [=one that wants kids as well]".

It's that easy bro!

 

[Deleted member 27204]

It’s not even that I don’t feel entitled to that much of a conversation it but if ya can’t answer to a hi or goodbye and have a nice day while my insurance is used to fund your practice then I refuse to be a client of that doctor.

Okay suit yourself then. I just think it's expecting too much to refuse to see a doctor just because of that. Plus even if the doctor is courteous or it's more likely to be just out of politeness instead of actual niceness or caring about your well-being.

Your really understanding and I hope you get to have people around ya that are like thankful for ya being around and actually like you

Be sure to take care of your own health. One of the reasons a lot of men fall behind women in health (besides more spending going to women's health and biological reasons for women living longer than men) is because many men don't see doctors as often and end up missing out on any health problems that could have been spotted earlier.

 

[Justdone]

Okay suit yourself then. I just think it's expecting too much to refuse to see a doctor just because of that. Plus even if the doctor is courteous or it's more likely to be just out of politeness instead of actual niceness or caring about your well-being.

Be sure to take care of your own health. One of the reasons a lot of men fall behind women in health (besides more spending going to women's health and biological reasons for women living longer than men) is because many men don't see doctors as often and end up missing out on any health problems that could have been spotted earlier.

I refuse to be ignored anymore for no good reason. Ya sort of like convince me to put like effort towards finding a new doctor within that branch . If I find multiple reasons to avoid something ill avoid it unless I turn into my confrontational mode but I need to feel disrespected to go into that mode. You good in my book @your personality

 

[ReturnOfSaddam]

I'm surprised a Doctor would actually say that, surely it's a private thing. Not doubting you though. You could just ask him not to mention it again, just cite "personal reasons" and he'll assume you had a hard breakup or some other normie bs. People will usually not bother you again if you tell them like that

 

[Deleted member 27204]

I refuse to be ignored anymore for no good reason.

When you're incel interacting with anyone isn't going to be a fulfilling experience tbh
By contrast I'd think you'd want to be ignored and the doctor to just do their checkup or shots and leave it at that. OP didn't like how his doctor went out of their way to ask him why he didn't have a gf which imo doesn't sound like them being ignored.

Ya sort of like convince me to put like effort towards finding a new doctor within that branch . If I find multiple reasons to avoid something ill avoid it unless I turn into my confrontational mode but I need to feel disrespected to go into that mode.

It's like with if you have to go to psychologists tbh
Choose to see a male doctor and if possible a doctor older than you. That way any slights you get you'll be able to brush off more easily compared to a doctor that was younger or a foid.

But when you're young you don't usually need so a doctor that often. It's when you're a child and when you get older when it becomes really important. But even then such intrusive questions are going to be asked. It's part of the small talk process that incels get treated with and is no doubt irritating. But don't let it keep you from seeking medical treatment as is it is your right and in your interest if you aren't feeling well about some health issue.

 

[Deleted member 27161]

He says it like it's something you can easily get

Fuck I fucking despise when people like my parents say this liquid horse shit. "Get a girlfriend, it'd make you so much more happier!!"

NO FUCKING DOGSHIT YOU CUNTS DONT YOU MAYBE THINK FUCKING THAT'S WHY I'M SO DEPRESSED, BUT NO, BECAUSE YOU DON'T ACCEPT BASIC REALITY ON THE GROUND

 

[The Abyss]

I mean it. Fuck, he says this every time I visit him! I have certain complaints regarding my prostate that probably won't go away on itself unless I drastically change my lifestyle: quit sitting before the pc 24/7, start doing actual sports (mere morning exercise won't help it, I need to take on serious physical activity like twice a week), etc, etc and (the most unattainable) thing: GET A REGULAR SEXUAL LIFE WITH A STABLE SEXUAL PARTNER (MASTURBATION WON'T CUT IT, ESCORTCELLING IS NOT AN OPTION AND ACTUALLY WILL ONLY MAKE IT WORSE)

Do you think he's making fool of me? Or just joking? Do you think that sex with a real woman is all that important for a man's health? Inceldom is literally killng me.

He probably thinks you can just snap your fingers & find one.

 

[TallCelFag]

That’s unprofessional advice. Every man wants a gf more than anything else, those who don’t have it can’t get it. He’s just shaming you.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

wow thats pretty brutal, i havent been to the doctors in well over ten years so cant relate at all about akward questions.

"just get sex bro its that easy"

boomers are so so out of touch

 

[Insanitycel]

I mean it. Fuck, he says this every time I visit him! I have certain complaints regarding my prostate that probably won't go away on itself unless I drastically change my lifestyle: quit sitting before the pc 24/7, start doing actual sports (mere morning exercise won't help it, I need to take on serious physical activity like twice a week), etc, etc and (the most unattainable) thing: GET A REGULAR SEXUAL LIFE WITH A STABLE SEXUAL PARTNER (MASTURBATION WON'T CUT IT, ESCORTCELLING IS NOT AN OPTION AND ACTUALLY WILL ONLY MAKE IT WORSE)

Do you think he's making fool of me? Or just joking? Do you think that sex with a real woman is all that important for a man's health? Inceldom is literally killng me.

You should ask if he can prescribe a gf

 

[KingChemist]

Bruh no way your doctor actually said this.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

It’s not even that I don’t feel entitled to that much of a conversation it but if ya can’t answer to a hi or goodbye and have a nice day while my insurance is used to fund your practice then I refuse to be a client of that doctor. Your really understanding and I hope you get to have people around ya that are like thankful for ya being around and actually like you

based same here. I visited a foid curry doctor one for wrist pain, whore listens to my problem for maybe 2 minutes and then told me to leave. didn't let me explain in detail. and this type of shit is common amongst doctors. nowadays I don't go to doctors unless I absolutely have to because they make everything such a fucking pain and insurance always fucks up in USA. corona has made the situation even worse, since lockdown started I. have skipped all my yearly doctor visits cause I know fuckers will waste hours of my time. so I would rather just skip this year

 

[curryboy420]

He says it like it's something you can easily get

I mean he is a doctor after all, it is easy for him