Venting Found a new cope called mountaineering

[Linesnap99]

I didnt have any interest in mountaineering nor did i live near any mountains, but I like hikes. read a few books on it, seems like a good cope. I was fascinated with the gears and eqipments they used to climb mountains. all the knots they used seemed complex which they are. going on treks should be satisfying.
there are only a few risk like wild animal attacks and rockfalls.

 

[BlkPillPres]

I didnt have any interest in mountaineering nor did i live near any mountains, but I like hikes. read a few books on it, seems like a good cope. I was fascinated with the gears and eqipments they used to climb mountains. all the knots they used seemed complex which they are. going on treks should be satisfying.
there are only a few risk like wild animal attacks and rockfalls.

I think you just have a death wish and you are looking for some convoluted means to achieve it lol.

You are reminding me of the delusions I spoke about in a thread of mines:

The 5 S's (All A Man Really Needs For A Satisfying Life)

1. Sustenance (food, water, etc) 2. Shelter (home that protects you from "the elements") 3. Security (safe acquisition, ownership and usage of assets and resources) 4. Sex (sex and/or reproduction) 5. Spectacles (entertainment) I just want to create a life where I have access to these 5 things...

incels.is

See that guy who went bungee jumping or climbed mount everest, you are going to look at images of him smiling and grinning having a good time, and see that shit on facebook and instagram, and probably yourself into thinking - "maybe if I "go out and live life to the fullest" like this I'll be happy"

Not realizing that all that shit is supplementary, guys who do stuff like that for fun ALREADY HAVE THEIR BASE NEEDS MET, after he's done with that extra bit of fun he's going home to ream the fuck out of stacys ass and creampie her. If he had to choose between that, and going bungee jumping, and could never have both, do you think he would choose bungee jumping or climbing mount everest?, I doubt it, if he had to choose between those things and having a home and stable income do you think he would choose those "exciting cool activities", of course not, having a home and resources are way more important

The 5 Base Needs (The 5 S's) are all that really matter, everything else is supplementary.

You're the person I talked about here that see's people "being adventurous" and thinking that "this will make me happy", but what you don't realize is that all of those experiences are supplementary and only enjoyable because these people HAVE THEIR BASE NEEDS SATISFIED.

You are putting the car before the horse.

What you are going to do is end up hiking alone and feeling lonely, or hiking as a group and feeling distant to everyone else as you see people bond, form groups, socialize, talk about their sex lives, etc, and you won't be able to relate or participate.

The guy who goes "bungee jumping" and does all these exciting adventurous things only enjoys it because his base needs are met. Without that he wouldn't care for it.

 

[verzetn]

I think you just have a death wish and you are looking for some convoluted means to achieve it lol.

You are reminding me of the delusions I spoke about in a thread of mines:

The 5 S's (All A Man Really Needs For A Satisfying Life)

1. Sustenance (food, water, etc) 2. Shelter (home that protects you from "the elements") 3. Security (safe acquisition, ownership and usage of assets and resources) 4. Sex (sex and/or reproduction) 5. Spectacles (entertainment) I just want to create a life where I have access to these 5 things...

incels.is

You're the person I talked about here that see's people "being adventurous" and thinking that "this will make me happy", but what you don't realize is that all of those experiences are supplementary and only enjoyable because these people HAVE THEIR BASE NEEDS SATISFIED.

You are putting the car before the horse.

What you are going to do is end up hiking alone and feeling lonely, or hiking as a group and feeling distant to everyone else as you see people bond, form groups, socialize, talk about their sex lives, etc, and you won't be able to relate or participate.

The guy who goes "bungee jumping" and does all these exciting adventurous things only enjoys it because his base needs are met. Without that he wouldn't care for it.

giga

and brutal

 

[Linesnap99]

What you are going to do is end up hiking alone and feeling lonely, or hiking as a group and feeling distant to everyone else as you see people bond, form groups, socialize, talk about their sex lives, etc, and you won't be able to relate or participate.

absolutely, i agree with you, but I believe i would do it as a solitary activity, at least its better than going to gym and getting mogged by normies and foids left and right.

 

[BlkPillPres]

at least its better than going to gym and getting mogged by normies and foids left and right.

Is it better though? I don't see much of a difference. If you had said you were going bungee jumping or climbing mount Everest I'd look at it the same.

It's just another distraction from the problems you have in your life. It's just more pointless escapism.

I find it weird when people don't realize that a lot of the things we do is because of the things were missing in life.

I played a lot of video games, if I had cute girls fawning all over me during my teen years, do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

Obviously no.

In the same way that women monkey branch from cock to cock, incels like to monkey branch from cope to cope .

Until you admit to yourself that's what you're doing, you're going to keep wasting more and more years of your life, until you sadly wake up one day and there isn't another branch for you to grab onto. There will be no more copes that will keep "the bad thoughts" at bay, and then you will fall.

The solution to the problems incels face in their lives isn't "cope", the solution is to actually solve whatever problems you actually have that are within your power to solve.


Now if you are a six figure earner and finances aren't a problem for you, then you can forget everything I've said. In that case you'd just be one of those guys who likes misery (like the guy from this thread):

I'm Living Proof that Money Doesn't Attract Women

I currently have about $600,000 saved, and will likely become a millionaire in the next 2-4 years. Doesn't mean shit, though, because women don't get wet for Benjamin Franklin, they get wet for Chad. Chad has 3 critical qualities that every man must possess in order to have a normal sex life...

incels.is

But if your finances are a problem, maybe you should spend less time coping and planning to walk aimlessly in the wilderness, and more time trying to solve that problem.

If you can solve that problem, more opportunities in life will open up, and you'll have more time to do the things you actually enjoy, and you'll stop treating these things as "copes" and instead as "things I enjoy doing".

 

[wei#3959]

Is it better though? I don't see much of a difference. If you had said you were going bungee jumping or climbing mount Everest I'd look at it the same.

It's just another distraction from the problems you have in your life. It's just more pointless escapism.

I find it weird when people don't realize that a lot of the things we do is because of the things were missing in life.

I played a lot of video games, if I had cute girls fawning all over me during my teen years, do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

Obviously no.

In the same way that women monkey branch from cock to cock, incels like to monkey branch from cope to cope .

Until you admit to yourself that's what you're doing, you're going to keep wasting more and more years of your life, until you sadly wake up one day and there isn't another branch for you to grab onto. There will be no more copes that will keep "the bad thoughts" at bay, and then you will fall.

The solution to the problems incels face in their lives isn't "cope", the solution is to actually solve whatever problems you actually have that are within your power to solve.


Now if you are a six figure earner and finances aren't a problem for you, then you can forget everything I've said. In that case you'd just be one of those guys who likes misery (like the guy from this thread):

I'm Living Proof that Money Doesn't Attract Women

I currently have about $600,000 saved, and will likely become a millionaire in the next 2-4 years. Doesn't mean shit, though, because women don't get wet for Benjamin Franklin, they get wet for Chad. Chad has 3 critical qualities that every man must possess in order to have a normal sex life...

incels.is

But if your finances are a problem, maybe you should spend less time coping and planning to walk aimlessly in the wilderness, and more time trying to solve that problem.

If you can solve that problem, more opportunities in life will open up, and you'll have more time to do the things you actually enjoy, and you'll stop treating these things as "copes" and instead as "things I enjoy doing".

isn't jumping to escortcelling still a cope too though

 

[BlkPillPres]

isn't jumping to escortcelling still a cope too though

What do you mean by cope?

Because I notice a lot of you have personal definitions and it's never consistent. It never aligns with the original definition and context.

Usually when you say someone is coping, it implies that they are doing something as a form of "escapism" (trying to avoid reality/"the truth").

A common example is drugs, in fact drugs are the best example. Most people use drugs to temporarily escape their troubles in life and not think about their problems.

An example more related to inceldom is someone say sex dolls > sex with a stacey (a thread was made like this recently lol). That is a huge cope.

Simply put, coping is not just an action, it's an action that is tied to a belief that defies or ignores reality. It's someone living in denial, that's what makes it a "cope".


If a guy is escortcelling and paying for "the girl friend experience", and then acting like they are a ladies man, I'd say they are coping.

If a guy is simply meeting up with an escort, fucking her as he pleases, and then going about his business like it was just "an appointment", I wouldn't call that coping. He has no delusions about the arrangement, he knows he's paying for sex, he doesn't trying to convince himself otherwise with "GF experience" mental gymnastics bullshit either.

I think what you're doing is classifying the act of doing anything you enjoy as "coping" and at that point the word becomes useless as it no longer has any meaning. You might as well say breathing is coping, and at that point what's even the purpose of the word anymore lol.

 

[wei#3959]

What do you mean by cope?

Because I notice a lot of you have personal definitions and it's never consistent. It never aligns with the original definition and context.

Usually when you say someone is coping, it implies that they are doing something as a form of "escapism" (trying to avoid reality/"the truth").

A common example is drugs, in fact drugs are the best example. Most people use drugs to temporarily escape their troubles in life and not think about their problems.

An example more related to inceldom is someone say sex dolls > sex with a stacey (a thread was made like this recently lol). That is a huge cope.

Simply put, coping is not just an action, it's an action that is tied to a belief that defies or ignores reality. It's someone living in denial, that's what makes it a "cope".


If a guy is escortcelling and paying for "the girl friend experience", and then acting like they are a ladies man, I'd say they are coping.

If a guy is simply meeting up with an escort, fucking her as he pleases, and then going about his business like it was just "an appointment", I wouldn't call that coping. He has no delusions about the arrangement, he knows he's paying for sex, he doesn't trying to convince himself otherwise with "GF experience" mental gymnastics bullshit either.

I think what you're doing is classifying the act of doing anything you enjoy as "coping" and at that point the word becomes useless as it no longer has any meaning. You might as well say breathing is coping, and at that point what's even the purpose of the word anymore lol.

ah yea the word cope is quite diluted


my definition of cope i said though is saying you're using it as a means to cope with not having a gf/romantic relationship