Serious GF necessary for mental health?

[nice_try]

I remember something Kevin Hart once said. I don't know the exact words, but he said something like:

Nothing can face me, nothing can bother me, because I know that when I come home, there's my wife and my kids waiting and they love me.

That shit fucks me up.
Maybe having a girlfriend and a family is a requirement for mental health.
I mean .... I always beat myself up about any minor mistake I make and I suffer, my self-esteem is below zero, I feel worthless, That wouldn't be the case if I had a girlfriend who loved me. At work, I could be the biggest loser, but it wouldn't matter if I just had a gf who is statisfied with who I am.

Fuck. I think not having a gf is really taking a toll on a male. You youngcels don't realize it yet, but I'm 31yo now and never felt the touch or attraction of a woman and I feel like an absolute worthless piece of shit, even though I probably objectively am not.

The joke is: the average sex-having gf-having male at my age probably has lower education, less money, less skills than me, but still I feel like human waste, while the real human waste feels like a king, just because he has a gf he fucks. Isn't that ridiculous?

 

[caninemane60]

Love and intimacy is a big part of life. I cant imagine living too long without experiencing that.

 

[lemon21]

Yes ofc, but we're fucked. How are we going to be not jealous as hell knowing the actual value women have on society? And that there will be a better male hitting up on her sooner or later. Even if we got a gf we would still be fucked, we had too much time of celibacy. For normies they change GF like the clothes they wear, we will treasure the first GF even if we know redpill/blackpill teachings.

There's no winning as an ugly male, even if we somehow found a gf we would fuck ourselves up and our relationship.

 

[FlyFace]

I remember watching a sermon on evolutionary psychology. The practitioner said that "marriage is as much of a mental health panacea for Men as you are going to get". I hate being smart.

 

[FlyFace]

There's no winning as an ugly male, even if we somehow found a gf we would fuck ourselves up and our relationship.

Because we have no prior experiences to call up as knowledge of the situation. Its over.

 

[lemon21]

Because we have no prior experiences to call up as knowledge of the situation. Its over.

Yeah, and it's not like we will have plenty of chances to try it out.

 

[Loner94]

Define love

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

Exactly, just having another person in your life that says "I choose to be with you" and then hold and kiss you, it enrages me every day that I don't have that.

 

[Asgard]

Breeding will help me stay away from roping, tbh ngl

 

[EstoniaPill]

The joke is: the average sex-having gf-having male at my age probably has lower education, less money, less skills than me, but still I feel like human waste, while the real human waste feels like a king, just because he has a gf he fucks. Isn't that ridiculous?

I agree with everything else, but this part is just bad cope. These man-made things don't define anything in this realm

 

[Loner94]

Because we have no prior experiences to call up as knowledge of the situation. Its over.

Yep it's massively detrimental.

 

[El Enemigo]

Incels moping again

 

[starcrapoo]

Yea because they are close loved ones. If you are an incel loser you don't have any of that shit which will eventually break you if you dont cope whichever way that you can.

 

[fast_curry]

Yea because they are close loved ones. If you are an incel loser you don't have any of that shit which will eventually break you if you dont cope whichever way that you can.

Surprised how oldcels are able to endure this shit for that long. I'm in my mid 20s but I can't imagine being alone for another 5 to 10 years.

 

[BornToLose]

No self-actualization for the likes of us.

 

[BrettyBoy]

To answer the topic title question, as long as the girlfriend isn’t cucking you, yeah.

 

[UglyandLoveless]

Yes, and the sight of couples is a eye burning sight.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Lonely men easily become irritable and neurotic,its a well known fact in psychology.

 

[Broken Myocardium]

I remember something Kevin Hart once said. I don't know the exact words, but he said something like:

Nothing can face me, nothing can bother me, because I know that when I come home, there's my wife and my kids waiting and they love me.

That shit fucks me up.
Maybe having a girlfriend and a family is a requirement for mental health.
I mean .... I always beat myself up about any minor mistake I make and I suffer, my self-esteem is below zero, I feel worthless, That wouldn't be the case if I had a girlfriend who loved me. At work, I could be the biggest loser, but it wouldn't matter if I just had a gf who is statisfied with who I am.

Fuck. I think not having a gf is really taking a toll on a male. You youngcels don't realize it yet, but I'm 31yo now and never felt the touch or attraction of a woman and I feel like an absolute worthless piece of shit, even though I probably objectively am not.

The joke is: the average sex-having gf-having male at my age probably has lower education, less money, less skills than me, but still I feel like human waste, while the real human waste feels like a king, just because he has a gf he fucks. Isn't that ridiculous?

You know I'm 31 year old black man and I'm still a vigin and despite every real attempt at getting a girl I've always failed either I was too short or too nice or too weird or some women hated me for all 3....I currently have a sexdoll now and I think of her as my Girlfriend and I take her out in public and everything and believe it or not some women are curious as to why I have a life sized doll with realistic skin and bouncy tits and ass...I tell them straight up I wasn't good enough for a real girl so I had to get the nest best thing....some women run in fear some actually feel sorry for me and we have become friends. But I woukd suggest getting a sex doll they will make your life tons better

 

[SoloAlex]

Being an Incel in your 30s is brutal. As a youngcel you can „hide“ that you are not having a sexlife. When you talk to people, they don’t immediately ask you about your sexlife.
But in your 30s, people you meet will legit ask you about your family, and they are not referring to your mom and your sister, they are referring about your wife/gf and your children. You will reply with not having any of these and they will know immediately: He’s an Incel.

 

[BlackPilledOverdose]

Having a girlfriend is great for your mental health. You have someone to support and help you.

 

[Nihilistic Lowlife]

Not having a gf is only one of the many problem of inceldom because since you born you are mentaly fucked in reality.

 

[Capable_Onion]

Imagine laying your head on her lap while she runs her fingers through your hair

Or waking up in the morning as she wears one of your t shirts

That would be heaven

 

[Deleted member 39864]

If you don't have a gf you need a good support system of good friends.

 

[totalcel]

I guess just re-frame it as we are monks living in a monastery practicing the austerities, prime of which is celibacy, without the robes of course.

 

[totalcel]

Yea because they are close loved ones. If you are an incel loser you don't have any of that shit which will eventually break you if you dont cope whichever way that you can.

any examples of people who broke?

 

[BlackPilledOverdose]

Imagine laying your head on her lap while she runs her fingers through your hair

Or waking up in the morning as she wears one of your t shirts

That would be heaven

That would be amazing. Just lying your head on Her lap if you had a bad day. Her running Her fingers though your hair would feel so good also. The perfect stress reliever.

 

[BlackPilledOverdose]

the differences between men with a gf and men without is so huge, it's like a completely alternate reality

Men with girlfriends are very lucky men...

 

[Deleted member 41540]

You know I'm 31 year old black man and I'm still a vigin and despite every real attempt at getting a girl I've always failed either I was too short or too nice or too weird or some women hated me for all 3....I currently have a sexdoll now and I think of her as my Girlfriend and I take her out in public and everything and believe it or not some women are curious as to why I have a life sized doll with realistic skin and bouncy tits and ass...I tell them straight up I wasn't good enough for a real girl so I had to get the nest best thing....some women run in fear some actually feel sorry for me and we have become friends. But I woukd suggest getting a sex doll they will make your life tons better

Bro..that's so sad,honestly,that is one of the most depressing things I've read here...Hope things get better

 

[Deleted member 41540]

If you don't have a gf you need a good support system of good friends.

True,I think that's what most of us need here .,more than sex,Good friends

 

[Broken Myocardium]

Bro..that's so sad,honestly,that is one of the most depressing things I've read here...Hope things get better

Thanks. it's ok I've accepted my fate as a permanent bachelor I'm not posting that to get people to feel sorry for me I just felt like letting people that are struggling to get a sex doll they REALLY help with loneliness

 

[Loner94]

Once again define love OP ?

 

[IncelWithHate]

Yes ofc, but we're fucked.

The problem is we're not being fucked.

At this point I just want sex. Foids can't love anyway.

 

[lemon21]

The problem is we're not being fucked.

At this point I just want sex. Foids can't love anyway.

True "love" dosn't exists, what you want is validation. Same as positive reinforcement, there's no better feeling than when your loved one sneaks up on you and kisses you on the cheek, robotical sex isn't going to fix that.

Sex without love is the same as masturbation, that's why my plan of whoremaxxing seems dumb now.

 

[Deleted member 41988]

Love and intimacy is a big part of life. I cant imagine living too long without experiencing that.

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

If you don't have a gf you need a good support system of good friends.

That is a lousy substitution.

 

[Nihilistic Lowlife]

Hmm well in my case i don't really need one i have a lot of mental issue with my emotion i just need money and i will be ok before the rope at 30 ( growing further is useless)

 

[Indari]

You think not having a GF is your only problem?

 

[IncelWithHate]

True "love" dosn't exists, what you want is validation. Same as positive reinforcement, there's no better feeling than when your loved one sneaks up on you and kisses you on the cheek, robotical sex isn't going to fix that.

Sex without love is the same as masturbation, that's why my plan of whoremaxxing seems dumb now.

Validation, affection. I can agree with those.

 

[lemon21]

Validation, affection. I can agree with those.

What's your plan? I thought paying for whores was the way to go, but i didn't account for the posibility that the whores may be unnresponsive and give me a shitty service

 

[Billowel]

True "love" dosn't exists, what you want is validation. Same as positive reinforcement, there's no better feeling than when your loved one sneaks up on you and kisses you on the cheek, robotical sex isn't going to fix that.

Sex without love is the same as masturbation, that's why my plan of whoremaxxing seems dumb now.

whoremaxxing is a sin obviously,but most men are cucked and as long as they whore treats them nice,they delude themselves easy into thinking she likes them a bit and even thinks her orgasms aren't fake and that they would be a sex god if they were decent looking kek.look at incelking(i thinks it's him) who literally fell in love with a whore and defends her with the ardour of an evengelical pastor,despite all the tough man talk.

most guys included blackpill are incredibly cucked and even if they are fully blackpilled,most of us are so devoid of positive and happy emotions that the tinniest look and touch of someone who doesn't absolutely hates us,makes us go crazy.there is a reason why many here escortmaxx like crazy and talk extremely positive about it despite the several whores that treated them like shit.if they get that one whore who treated them nice or have the hope of meeting one they get crazy for that high.and if they get one that treats them always nice?they go insane.look at incelking and that truck guy who literally got angry because his whore wasn't willing to give him free service because it was his birthday.

 

[MaxZM98]

I think having a partner is necessary for good mental health. it’s an emotional need. I feel so empty if im alone

 

[leaf]

You know I'm 31 year old black man and I'm still a vigin and despite every real attempt at getting a girl I've always failed either I was too short or too nice or too weird or some women hated me for all 3....I currently have a sexdoll now and I think of her as my Girlfriend and I take her out in public and everything and believe it or not some women are curious as to why I have a life sized doll with realistic skin and bouncy tits and ass...I tell them straight up I wasn't good enough for a real girl so I had to get the nest best thing....some women run in fear some actually feel sorry for me and we have become friends. But I woukd suggest getting a sex doll they will make your life tons better

No way you are bringing out a sex doll in public… bruh

 

[IncelWithHate]

What's your plan? I thought paying for whores was the way to go, but i didn't account for the posibility that the whores may be unnresponsive and give me a shitty service

I was outright rejected when I attempted to use escorts in Germany years ago. Either way, I would refuse to use sex workers on principle now anyway.

There is no longer any plan. I'm a wizard and have come to terms with the fact I'll keep my v-card until the day I die.

 

[subhuman]

yes. cucked if you think otherwise