Blackpill [Hard To Swallow Edition] The Same Way That Women Like To Monkey Branch From Cock To Cock, Incels Like To Monkey Branch From Cope To Cope

[BlkPillPres]

One thing I don't like about "incel culture" is how the term "cope" is treated like it's a good thing, when it stands for "coping mechanism" and it implies that you are doing something as a means of escapism from your actual problems.

How is that a good thing?

Coping is not a good thing, and it never will be. It's a waste of time, and endless cope chasing needs to stop at some point before you waste away all of your years.

It's just another distraction from the problems you have in your life. It's just more pointless escapism.

I find it weird when people don't realize that a lot of the things we do is because of the things were missing in life.

I played a lot of video games, wasted a lot of years:
If I had cute girls fawning all over me during my teen years, do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

OBVIOUSLY NO.

If my parents had conveyed to me the great importance of having wealth and resources in this world, and how much it can greatly improve a man's life (especially a short unattractive man), do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

OBVIOUSLY NO.

That's the thing that kinda annoys me about my parents. They saw that I was average looking at best, they saw how fucking short I was growing up, and they still thought nothing about trying to put me in the mindset of acquiring financial advantages to offset those shortcomings (pun intended ). I'm serious guys, it's a blessing that I even ended up being 5'7", I was always the shortest guy in class, I was short even for my age. I was probably supposed to be 5'5" or something and then some shit "kicked in" and gave me a little boost .

But I digress.



In the same way that women monkey branch from cock to cock, incels like to monkey branch from cope to cope.

Neither behavior is healthy.

When you are finished with one distraction you jump to the next one, and on and on it goes, as your life passes you by. Your one and only life.

Until you admit to yourself that's what you're doing, you're going to keep wasting more and more years of your life, until you sadly wake up one day and there isn't another branch for you to grab onto. There will be no more copes that will keep "the bad thoughts" at bay, you'll be tired of life and tired of copes, and then you will fall.

Depending on how late it life it takes for you to fall, you won't even have a chance to climb back up. If you are in your 40's when this happens, it's pretty much guaranteed that you are going to kill yourself , because it's only then you'll realized how much time you wasted:

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGL1x40p46s




The solution to the problems incels face in their lives isn't "cope", the solution is to actually solve whatever problems you actually have that are within your power to solve.

Now if you are a six figure earner and finances aren't a problem for you, then you can forget everything I've said in this thread. In that case you'd just be one of those guys who likes misery (like the guy from this thread):

I'm Living Proof that Money Doesn't Attract Women

I currently have about $600,000 saved, and will likely become a millionaire in the next 2-4 years. Doesn't mean shit, though, because women don't get wet for Benjamin Franklin, they get wet for Chad. Chad has 3 critical qualities that every man must possess in order to have a normal sex life...

incels.is

You can't force someone to use their money to enjoy life, if they want to wallow in misery that's their choice.

But if your finances are a problem, maybe you should spend less time coping and chasing distractions, and more time trying to solve that problem.

If you can solve that problem, you'll have the resources to solve other problems in your life, more opportunities in life will open up, and you'll have more free time to do the things you actually enjoy, and you'll stop treating these things as "copes" and instead as "things I enjoy doing" (hobbies, lifestyle, etc).

 

[Pillow City Pimp]

I'm rooting for you my man

 

[ezio6]

Agreed with bkppillpress as always.

Imo Problems in life are only based on 2 things , health and financial. Other than this youre just loves misery tbh

And Incels problem starts with escortcelling so you know pussy aint that special and starting to accept youre just ugly outside causing ugly on the inside. (Ugly feedback loop)

 

[currycel102]

I mean i hope that people who are below 30 years old aren't "coping" and are actually trying to looksmaxx, socialmaxx, or moneymaxx.

But cope is kind of a forced reality for a lot of us. You said it yourself:

"
I played a lot of video games, wasted a lot of years:
If I had cute girls fawning all over me during my teen years, do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

OBVIOUSLY NO.
"

Video games can be called a cope but what the fuck else am i supposed to do? First comes the social life and THEN comes stopping video games. Thats what all normies i know go through. They didnt just quit video games first and then found that their social lives came together

 

[Ika-Sama]

Yeah, it's a neverending cycle for me. Reality reminds me of my subhumanity and my shortcomings, so I cope hard to avoid those feelings, and then I realize how much time I wasted and cope again.

 

[HateCurry]

The solution to the problems incels face in their lives isn't "cope", the solution is to actually solve whatever problems you actually have that are within your power to solve.

I agree with this but I would say for men in general and people in horrible circumstances, there are problems often, that cost them something vital. I'll take a new risk, I'm thinking of, but it'll cost my reputation, probably some people who love me will start ignoring me, I mean teachers or coworkers in meetings etc. two things, closer than people like to admit.

 

[HateCurry]

Imo Problems in life are only based on 2 things , health and financial. Other than this youre just loves misery tbh

High IQ post Even the things that aren't related to money and health they can be solved by these.

 

[GhostedPhantom]

your life passes you by. Your one and only life.

This is the most brutal part and I've been thinking about it often. It's so depressing looking back on my life, especially the years during which I first became disillusioned and lost my desire to work on anything.

The solution to the problems incels face in their lives isn't "cope", the solution is to actually solve whatever problems you actually have that are within your power to solve.

That's true, and although we're slaves to the failo effect, we can still do our best to get the most out of our lives. We're too damn short on dopamine, but copes only make our dopamine levels/sensitivity even worse.

I wish we could help each other be more motivated by supporting each other, but there's no brotherhood. We don't have a common cause to fight for, so we're all on our own.

 

[BlkPillPres]

But cope is kind of a forced reality for a lot of us. You said it yourself:

I also said:

If my parents had conveyed to me the great importance of having wealth and resources in this world, and how much it can greatly improve a man's life (especially a short unattractive man), do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

OBVIOUSLY NO.

Once I was black pilled and I finally understood reality, I changed.

Once you've been exposed to the black pill you can no longer excuse yourself. I was ignorant because of my parents, now that I know the truth I don't get to use the same excuses as I could in the past as a young naive teen.

 

[BlkPillPres]

That's true, and although we're slaves to the failo effect

Oh no, that's not what I'm saying at all, I'm saying it's a choice, you aren't a slave to anything, you are actively choosing everyday to have a shitty life if you choose to do nothing about it.

We're too damn short on dopamine

More nonsense excuses. It has nothing to do with dopamine. Fear and anger are much great motivators than pleasure. If you aren't fearful enough about your future and/or angry enough about your present to try and change it, then you are really just on here larping about how bad your life is, and your life is actually great.

I'd say you're quite comfortable with your circumstances.

I wish we could help each other be more motivated by supporting each other, but there's no brotherhood.

We don't have a common cause to fight for, so we're all on our own.

Lol what are you even talking about bro, I'm tired of seeing shit like this lol, you are just making more excuses that don't even makes sense.

YOUR MOTIVATION IS THE FACT THAT YOUR LIFE IS SHIT.

You have it backwards. You don't need to find something to motivate you out of unfortunate circumstances.

THE UNFORTUNATE CIRCUMSTANCES ARE THE MOTIVATION.

If you don't see it that way then your life isn't as bad as you pretend it to be. This is why I say a lot of incels just come on here to "meme" about how bad their lives are, when really it's all just a circle jerk of attention whoring.

If someone was sawing your finger off you wouldn't be thinking - "Man, I need something to motivate me to fight them off" .

If someone was holding your head under water you wouldn't be thinking - "Man, I need something to motivate me not to drown"

If you don't look at your current life as something on that level that you need to desperately escape from, then your life isn't that bad, in fact it's great because it's so tolerable you feel no sense of panic or anger to push you to escape it one day.

[Hard To Swallow Edition] You Are Lying To Yourself By Saying You Need Something "Positive" To Motivate You (You Have A Martyr Complex)

I notice a lot of incels use this excuse of "I need something positive to motivate me" as to why they don't try to change ANY ASPECT of their lives Its complete bullshit really, first off the logic behind it is ridiculous, extremely flawed, its like saying you need to get a girl friend first...

incels.is

 

[foreveralone23]

You’re coping with wealth. Period. If you where attractive you wouldn’t need to gain wealth to find anything.

 

[GhostedPhantom]

YOUR MOTIVATION IS THE FACT THAT YOUR LIFE IS SHIT.

That's a motivation only if either you can see your life after your attempt to fix it as more worthwhile, or your life is so awful that you feel like you're in immediate danger or things are getting in your way. I'm not a brokecel so as you've said, this thread isn't for me in the first place.

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

and you'll stop treating these things as "copes" and instead as "things I enjoy doing" (hobbies, lifestyle, etc).

another way to refer to copes without saying the word "copes".

At the end of the day, all what matters when you are in your death bed is whether you followed the right path or not which in my case is Islam.
You are not taking any $ with you in your grave.

I do agree that incels need to moneymaxx, better to live rich than poor.

 

[Iranianoldcel]

One thing I don't like about "incel culture" is how the term "cope" is treated like it's a good thing, when it stands for "coping mechanism" and it implies that you are doing something as a means of escapism from your actual problems.

How is that a good thing?

Coping is not a good thing, and it never will be. It's a waste of time, and endless cope chasing needs to stop at some point before you waste away all of your years.

It's just another distraction from the problems you have in your life. It's just more pointless escapism.

I find it weird when people don't realize that a lot of the things we do is because of the things were missing in life.

I played a lot of video games, wasted a lot of years:
If I had cute girls fawning all over me during my teen years, do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

OBVIOUSLY NO.

If my parents had conveyed to me the great importance of having wealth and resources in this world, and how much it can greatly improve a man's life (especiaover.

a short unattractive man), do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

OBVIOUSLY NO.

That's the thing that kinda annoys me about my parents. They saw that I was average looking at best, they saw how fucking short I was growing up, and they still thought nothing about trying to put me in the mindset of acquiring financial advantages to offset those shortcomings (pun intended ). I'm serious guys, it's a blessing that I even ended up being 5'7", I was always the shortest guy in class, I was short even for my age. I was probably supposed to be 5'5" or something and then some shit "kicked in" and gave me a little boost .

But I digress.



In the same way that women monkey branch from cock to cock, incels like to monkey branch from cope to cope.

Neither behavior is healthy.

When you are finished with one distraction you jump to the next one, and on and on it goes, as your life passes you by. Your one and only life.

Until you admit to yourself that's what you're doing, you're going to keep wasting more and more years of your life, until you sadly wake up one day and there isn't another branch for you to grab onto. There will be no more copes that will keep "the bad thoughts" at bay, you'll be tired of life and tired of copes, and then you will fall.

Depending on how late it life it takes for you to fall, you won't even have a chance to climb back up. If you are in your 40's when this happens, it's pretty much guaranteed that you are going to kill yourself , because it's only then you'll realized how much time you wasted:

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGL1x40p46s




The solution to the problems incels face in their lives isn't "cope", the solution is to actually solve whatever problems you actually have that are within your power to solve.

Now if you are a six figure earner and finances aren't a problem for you, then you can forget everything I've said in this thread. In that case you'd just be one of those guys who likes misery (like the guy from this thread):

I'm Living Proof that Money Doesn't Attract Women

I currently have about $600,000 saved, and will likely become a millionaire in the next 2-4 years. Doesn't mean shit, though, because women don't get wet for Benjamin Franklin, they get wet for Chad. Chad has 3 critical qualities that every man must possess in order to have a normal sex life...

incels.is

You can't force someone to use their money to enjoy life, if they want to wallow in misery that's their choice.

But if your finances are a problem, maybe you should spend less time coping and chasing distractions, and more time trying to solve that problem.

If you can solve that problem, you'll have the resources to solve other problems in your life, more opportunities in life will open up, and you'll have more free time to do the things you actually enjoy, and you'll stop treating these things as "copes" and instead as "things I enjoy doing" (hobbies, lifestyle, etc).

Anyone who has an above average IQ should either studymax or cryptomax or stocknarketmax to get rich. That's it. Being good at programing and IT helps too.

For a low IQ guy like me who is in his 30's and lives in Iran, it's officially over.

Youngcels main focus should be moneymaxing.

 

[Deleted member 43458]

There's only so much money can do, and for most people seeing hookers etc. won't truly satisfy.

In fact, there's a lot less things to do with money when you're on your own.

 

[Zhou Chang-Xing]

I've noticed this toxic LDAR culture where people interpret the Blackpill as meaning "it's ovER" and nothing else, they don't believe in self-improvement and they're as gynocentric as the society they're criticising. Rather than trying to make the most out of their life they let their inceldom take over every minute aspect of it. I'd be lying if I would say that I aren't like this, but I'm trying to find a way to maximise what I can learning from the Blackpill.

But a lot of people who could be Normies if they work on themselves with low self-esteem think that some minor things about them make them the same as Truecels, you're not, you know when you're a Truecel.

And even if you're a Truecel, does that mean that you can't enjoy life for other things? I am going to make a post in the future about why when most of us ascend we'll probably still end up being incels, just relationshipcels (if that makes sense). So the extreme focus on toilets is toxic and also just another cope, though not one without truth.


View: https://youtu.be/E3Uek1kB6X8

 

[wei#3959]

I'm rooting for you my man

root for me too

 

[Deleted member 42691]

Until you admit to yourself that's what you're doing, you're going to keep wasting more and more years of your life, until you sadly wake up one day and there isn't another branch for you to grab onto.

Good thread , should have talk about white pill retards here, supreme copepill in my opinion

You don’t need any kind of bullshit whitepill
The blackpill is the end goal , Their is an element of negativeness when you learn blackpill but that doesn’t include the whole process

Thinking oh yeah I’ll improve by being positive /whitepill is so stupid.

The final stage of blackpill is either being a Machiavellian motherfucker or straight up kill yourself because it’s too late

By the way , I remember I got into Kaiji because you talk about it
i really relate to this character, everytime kaiji make a bluepill choice it came back to bite him in the ass

 

[BlkPillPres]

There's only so much money can do, and for most people seeing hookers etc. won't truly satisfy.

What do you mean by "most" and what do you mean by "satisfy"?

Because most guys I see on forums for sex tourism seem to be enjoying themselves and loving it, and their aim is to be "satisfied" sexually. You seem to be projecting your desire for some kind of emotional connection onto everyone else.

In fact, there's a lot less things to do with money when you're on your own.

Lol no, you can do way more with money on your own, because you can spend less of it. You just lack imagination, or more likely, you haven't even spent any time thinking about what you would like to do if you were rich.

another way to refer to copes without saying the word "copes".

People who use the the term "cope" as loosely as you do don't seem to realize that you render the term useless and meaningless.

Coping is not just an action, it's an action that is tied to a belief that defies or ignores reality. It's someone living in denial, that's what makes it a "cope".

A common example is drugs, in fact drugs are the best example. Most people use drugs to temporarily escape their troubles in life and not think about their problems.

An example more related to inceldom is someone say sex dolls > sex with a stacey (a thread was made like this recently lol). That is a huge cope.

If we just describe doing something you enjoy as "cope" then the term no longer has meaning, because we all enjoy breathing don't we, is breathing (something we do passively) a cope now?, how far are we going take this?

At the end of the day, all what matters when you are in your death bed is whether you followed the right path

Assuming your beliefs are true and a God exists.

Assuming God exists and it isn't the God you believe in, so you still end up in a different hell.

Etc, etc, etc.

The truth is, nothing matters at the end of the day. You should do whatever you want so long as it benefits you.

 

[TollieRobertis419]

vidya, listening to music, reading, masturbating, watching porn, and etc, feels like a chore for me because most of it is associated with bad memories. Everytime I do those things, I would remember a normie criticizing/ridiculing that cope (because I made the mistake of telling them about it in the past) which is why I barely touch those copes anymore and just do nothing all day but browse .is, watch a few youtube videos and sleep. This site and youtube videos is the only safe cope for me left as normies haven't ruined it for me yet

 

[Deleted member 43458]

What do you mean by "most" and what do you mean by "satisfy"?

Because most guys I see on forums for sex tourism seem to be enjoying themselves and loving it, and their aim is to be "satisfied" sexually. You seem to be projecting your desire for some kind of emotional connection onto everyone else.

Myself, reading wider around the manosphere, and most escortcels on here don't seem to be that satisfied. You seem to be the most enthusiastic proponent here, at least,, but I'm unsure how much you've actually done it yourself? Emotions come into sex, yeah, for the vast majority -, and are important, I would posit

Sure I guess some people like it enough, and those that truly enjoy it will congregate and celebrate it together, certainly, so those forums are a bit of a captive fish barrel market. Theres also probably quite a positivity bias on those places so they don't have to face the full reality. I've seen plenty of negative accounts myself also though however.

 

[Deleted member 43458]

Lol no, you can do way more with money on your own, because you can spend less of it. You just lack imagination, or more likely, you haven't even spent any time thinking about what you would like to do if you were rich.

Sure, one can technically do more but going to restaurants alone, going to bars alone, going on holiday alone? Has never really appealed to me.

I have enough money to do plenty of things, but no one to do them with.

Going on holiday alone, or traveling, is something I should do, but it's not easy when you have autism and executive dysfunction type problems..

 

[Deleted member 43458]

As to the thread generally, people here use cope where normal people would just say hobby. It belies a negative perspective on life which certainly isn't helpful.

And too many passive 'copes' or hobbies can be very dangerous indeed. We need to stay pro-active, even while we're alone(always)

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

People who use the the term "cope" as loosely as you do don't seem to realize that you render the term useless and meaningless.

Coping is not just an action, it's an action that is tied to a belief that defies or ignores reality. It's someone living in denial, that's what makes it a "cope".

A common example is drugs, in fact drugs are the best example. Most people use drugs to temporarily escape their troubles in life and not think about their problems.

An example more related to inceldom is someone say sex dolls > sex with a stacey (a thread was made like this recently lol). That is a huge cope.

If we just describe doing something you enjoy as "cope" then the term no longer has meaning, because we all enjoy breathing don't we, is breathing (something we do passively) a cope now?, how far are we going take this?

Coping is something you do to lessen the boredom.
Stop beating around the bush.

Coping - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Coping refers to conscious or unconscious strategies used to reduce unpleasant emotions.

 

[turbosperg]

If you can solve that problem, you'll have the resources to solve other problems in your life

Money is also a cope.
Having kids is a cope.
Fucking whores is a cope.
Suicide is a cope.

EVERYTHING WE DO IS A MEANS TO COPE
(with our feelings, desires, wishes, pain, fear, etc.)

 

[I want to believe]

As if it's so easy to become rich and successful. JFL.

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

Another low iq blbla post by @BlkPillPres . [UWSL]Dude sex is also a form of cope. Everything in this world is a cope. Being alive is cope because you gonna die anyway. You just postpone the inevitable with pleasure. [/UWSL]

 

[partycat]

One thing I don't like about "incel culture" is how the term "cope" is treated like it's a good thing, when it stands for "coping mechanism" and it implies that you are doing something as a means of escapism from your actual problems.

How is that a good thing?

Coping is not a good thing, and it never will be. It's a waste of time, and endless cope chasing needs to stop at some point before you waste away all of your years.

It's just another distraction from the problems you have in your life. It's just more pointless escapism.

I find it weird when people don't realize that a lot of the things we do is because of the things were missing in life.

I played a lot of video games, wasted a lot of years:
If I had cute girls fawning all over me during my teen years, do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

OBVIOUSLY NO.

If my parents had conveyed to me the great importance of having wealth and resources in this world, and how much it can greatly improve a man's life (especially a short unattractive man), do you think I would have played as much, or even at all?

OBVIOUSLY NO.

That's the thing that kinda annoys me about my parents. They saw that I was average looking at best, they saw how fucking short I was growing up, and they still thought nothing about trying to put me in the mindset of acquiring financial advantages to offset those shortcomings (pun intended ). I'm serious guys, it's a blessing that I even ended up being 5'7", I was always the shortest guy in class, I was short even for my age. I was probably supposed to be 5'5" or something and then some shit "kicked in" and gave me a little boost .

But I digress.



In the same way that women monkey branch from cock to cock, incels like to monkey branch from cope to cope.

Neither behavior is healthy.

When you are finished with one distraction you jump to the next one, and on and on it goes, as your life passes you by. Your one and only life.

Until you admit to yourself that's what you're doing, you're going to keep wasting more and more years of your life, until you sadly wake up one day and there isn't another branch for you to grab onto. There will be no more copes that will keep "the bad thoughts" at bay, you'll be tired of life and tired of copes, and then you will fall.

Depending on how late it life it takes for you to fall, you won't even have a chance to climb back up. If you are in your 40's when this happens, it's pretty much guaranteed that you are going to kill yourself , because it's only then you'll realized how much time you wasted:

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGL1x40p46s




The solution to the problems incels face in their lives isn't "cope", the solution is to actually solve whatever problems you actually have that are within your power to solve.

Now if you are a six figure earner and finances aren't a problem for you, then you can forget everything I've said in this thread. In that case you'd just be one of those guys who likes misery (like the guy from this thread):

I'm Living Proof that Money Doesn't Attract Women

I currently have about $600,000 saved, and will likely become a millionaire in the next 2-4 years. Doesn't mean shit, though, because women don't get wet for Benjamin Franklin, they get wet for Chad. Chad has 3 critical qualities that every man must possess in order to have a normal sex life...

incels.is

You can't force someone to use their money to enjoy life, if they want to wallow in misery that's their choice.

But if your finances are a problem, maybe you should spend less time coping and chasing distractions, and more time trying to solve that problem.

If you can solve that problem, you'll have the resources to solve other problems in your life, more opportunities in life will open up, and you'll have more free time to do the things you actually enjoy, and you'll stop treating these things as "copes" and instead as "things I enjoy doing" (hobbies, lifestyle, etc).

Modern women take birth control pills to stop themselves from getting pregnant with all the unprotected cock & creampies they take
Modern men take anti-depressants and anti-psychotics to stop themselves from roping or going ER
It's a sign of the times

 

[Asgard]

I'm sorry to disagree with you, but not everybody lives in Western rich countries in order to easily tackle your "finance" issues. It is what it is.

 

[Indari]

"cope" is an ethereal term like most terms in the field of inceliology. i see it used as just anything that can make you feel better whether it's destructive or beneficial.

When you are finished with one distraction you jump to the next one, and on and on it goes, as your life passes you by.

call everest college

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGL1x40p46s

based

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

Modern women take birth control pills to stop themselves from getting pregnant with all the unprotected cock & creampies they take
Modern men take anti-depressants and anti-psychotics to stop themselves from roping or going ER
It's a sign of the times

Didn't think about it this way. We are all drugged on pills, to the benefit of Big Pharma.

 

[Aggressive Menace]

Another low iq blbla post by @BlkPillPres . [UWSL]Dude sex is also a form of cope. Everything in this world is a cope. Being alive is cope because you gonna die anyway. You just postpone the inevitable with pleasure. [/UWSL]

Why haven't you killed yourself already then It's as if not even you believe in your own bullshit.

 

[Deleted member 42691]

Why haven't you killed yourself already then It's as if not even you believe in your own bullshit.

This
A cope is something you do to endure a difficult situation it usually involves not changing this situation and hiding from it, you cope with it.

If everything is a cope and is worthless just kill yourself and be done with it

 

[BlkPillPres]

I'm sorry to disagree with you, but not everybody lives in Western rich countries in order to easily tackle your "finance" issues. It is what it is.

You don't need to live in a Western country, you just need an internet connection, a computer, and free time.

I can already tell you don't spend hours online looking for ways to make money through the internet.

In fact, not living in a Western country would be a perk if you started making US dollars online, because the exchange rate would mean that you are "cheating the system" and making more money per hour than most people in your country, while doing the same amount of hours of work (or less).

Any incel that has the internet to browse and use this site doesn't have an excuse. If your country is so poor that you don't have an opportunities for financial growth (like you can't buy a computer and you can only get a phone), then your priorities are off being on this site complaining about not getting sex. That's retarded. Your place as a man is to provide, that's "the deal" between men and women. Men provide, women fuck the men that provide for them.

If you can barely keep yourself alive and you are broke, you are stupid for even thinking a woman should want to be with you.

INB4 - "But Chad gets women regardless"

Yes, and rich people don't have to pay much taxes (or any at all) because they can afford to create offshore accounts and use many other legal loopholes. Congrats you realized that the world isn't fair and some people are just born with advantages.

Notice how you don't let yourself become homeless because someone was born into a mansion, but you are applying that logic when it comes to sex and relationships - "Because Chad can get sex without any effort, I'm going to do nothing out of spite and just complain about my sexless life"

It doesn't make sense to think that way, you are only harming yourself. It's the perfect example of "cutting off your nose to spite your face".

Money is also a cope.
Having kids is a cope.
Fucking whores is a cope.
Suicide is a cope.

EVERYTHING WE DO IS A MEANS TO COPE
(with our feelings, desires, wishes, pain, fear, etc.)

Speak for yourself, you are just making excuses so that you can feel alright with doing nothing. Also how retards like yourself use the word cope defeats the purpose of the word as it no longer has any meaning. You've rendered cope to be pretty much just be breathing and anything else you do while breathing, the term no longer holds any weight to it.

It's funny how guys like you will never just kill yourself though, which shows that you don't even take your own words to heart, it's just empty rhetoric (or more likely larping).

As if it's so easy to become rich and successful. JFL.

It's not about whether it's easy or not, it's about whether you see yourself as having the option to remain poor and get the things you want in life.

Are you seriously saying the only things you will pursue are the things that you think will be easy to get? (your response doesn't even make sense in any context).

Also, "rich" is relative. If you are making 20K US per year in America you are poor, as the average person in the US is making 50% more than you (around 30K). If you are making 20K US per year remotely and you living in Brazil, you are rich as hell, as the average person in Brazil makes around 5K US per year.

Are you getting the point. There are strategies out there to be exploited. You can establish a secure remote work career and move to a country with a low cost of living and good exchange rate.

You'd then be "rich" without being "rich".

Coping is something you do to lessen the boredom.
Stop beating around the bush.

Coping - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Nobody is beating around the bush, you idiots are just rendering the term "cope" useless because you keep stretching the definition. Now you are saying it has to do with boredom, and I've never seen it used in that context before. It's always been about denying reality in some form or fashion.

By your retard definition every single thing you do actively or passively in life is cope, If everything is cope there's no need to have a word for it retard lol.

Why haven't you killed yourself already then It's as if not even you believe in your own bullshit.

Looks like I have that guy on my ignore list for a reason, I can't remember him though. Like I also said above with @turbosperg , you'll notice users like @lifeisbullshit95 will never simply kill themselves when that's the logical conclusion of their rhetoric. Their actions don't match up with their alleged beliefs.

TBH I don't even think half of the people that talk like this on the forum are legitimate incels, they are larps trying to have some kind of sadistic fun by demotivate incels.

This
A cope is something you do to endure a difficult situation it usually involves not changing this situation and hiding from it, you cope with it.

If everything is a cope and is worthless just kill yourself and be done with it

They will never kill themselves because they are really just talking shit, they don't believe what they're saying, they're probably larps.

no such thing as wasting time if ur not religious

You are definitely a retard. By that logic show up to work late, never meet a deadline for anything academic related, etc.

There are still rules and systems to life regardless of whether or not God exists.

The concept of a DEADLINE exists regardless of religion, this post is some of the most retarded shit ever posted on this forum.

In fact THIS IS COPE, this is a perfect example of the original definition of "cope". It's you denying reality so you don't have to accept the fact that you aren't doing what you're supposed to do with your time.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Sure, one can technically do more but going to restaurants alone, going to bars alone, going on holiday alone? Has never really appealed to me.

Ok, then don't say there's less people can do, say that there are things you won't enjoy doing alone.

I have enough money to do plenty of things, but no one to do them with.

There are plenty of other things that you can do alone, but once again, you haven't spent anytime looking for those things, you are still stuck in "cope mode" denying reality and refusing to move on with your life.

Myself, reading wider around the manosphere, and most escortcels on here don't seem to be that satisfied.

Most users on this site are overly emotional, pathetic, and refuse to accept the reality of their situation. They aren't even in the right mind frame to enjoy escortcelling. They are the kind of idiot to pay for the "GF experience" (which is literally coping).

If you can't even do something as basic as be honest with yourself, you definitely won't be able to enjoy life.

There's no problem with escortcelling, the problem lies within.

 

[turbosperg]

Speak for yourself, you are just making excuses so that you can feel alright with doing nothing. Also how retards like yourself use the word cope defeats the purpose of the word as it no longer has any meaning. You've rendered cope to be pretty much just be breathing and anything else you do while breathing, the term no longer holds any weight to it.

It's funny how guys like you will never just kill yourself though, which shows that you don't even take your own words to heart, it's just empty rhetoric (or more likely larping).

You're confusing me for someone else.

I never said that cope = bad.

There are better copes, and bad copes.

Money, for instance, is a good cope. Porn is a bad cope.

But both are cope, in the end -- activities and things we use to cope (deal) with our pains and desires.

 

[latincell]

An example more related to inceldom is someone say sex dolls > sex with a stacey (a thread was made like this recently lol). That is a huge cope.

It was me. I now realize how wrong I was

 

[BlkPillPres]

You're confusing me for someone else.

I never said that cope = bad.

Can you not read english?

Is it your 2nd language?

I never said you said cope = bad

I said you were rendering the word "cope" useless because your definition is so broad that it applies to any and everything.

It would be like defining dog as "a four legged animal with two eyes and fur".

Your definition of cope is 100% false, it holds no meaning and it has no value.

There's a reason why meme images like this were created (they were created for the actual definition of "cope"):

Images like this are made to make fun of someone exhibiting extremes of denying reality (coping).

This image doesn't even make sense within the context of your usage, which could be something as simple as eating ice cream lol.

Can you even imagine this image being posted in response to someone saying "I like to eat ice cream"?

Or do you think it will be posted for someone saying "sex dolls > sex with stacy"?

I already know you can't be honest with yourself so these questions are rhetorical lol.

Money, for instance, is a good cope

Money by itself is not a cope, how you use it may be a cope.

Paying for sex isn't a cope, how you pay for sex, why you pay for sex, and what you pay for, is what makes it a cope.

For example:
If you just go to a brothel, pay the usual fee, fuck, and go about your day. All you did was purchase a service, you have no delusions about the arrangement, you didn't try to play any "pretend games" by using mental gymnastics on yourself, you are honest with yourself about what you're doing. In that case YOU ARE NOT COPING.

If you hire an escort, pay for the "girlfriend experience", tell her to call you "baby" and "honey", tell her to laugh at your jokes, take her out on a date, buy her food, drinks, entertainment, etc, then go back to a hotel to fuck her and tell her to pretend to enjoy it. YOU ARE COPING.

You are 100% delusional in that case, you are trying to deny reality through your actions.

COPING ISN'T JUST AN ACTION, IT'S AN ACTION THAT IS TIED TO A BELIEF THAT DENIES / IGNORES REALITY.
IT'S SOMEONE LIVING IN DENIAL, THAT'S WHAT MAKES IT A "COPE".

Your definition has no meaning to it at all, it renders the term USELESS. You can literally swap out "coping" with "existing" the way you use the term lol. It has no meaning when you use it.

 

[nystagmuscel]

There is nothing to “fix” you either cope, rope or go ER. If all of your shit is fixable with “ muh effort” you shouldn’t be here. My eyes fucking vibrate, I’ve had multiple surgeries and none of them did shit. “ coping” is literally my only choice, because whenever I’ve tried to kill myself, I just end up breaking either the ligature or the thing I’m hanging from.

 

[BlkPillPres]

If all of your shit is fixable with “ muh effort” you shouldn’t be here.

This statement doesn't even make sense, "effort" implies "time", so I should be here until I reach the point in which I no longer feel the need to be. You are speaking as if "effort" means "snap your fingers and instantaneously get what you want".

My eyes fucking vibrate

What?

Oh did some googling, just realized why your username is "nystagmuscel" lol

What Is Nystagmus?

Blurry vision or seeing images that appear “shaky” or jumpy may be a sign of nystagmus. Learn more about this condition that affects your sight.

my.clevelandclinic.org

I’ve had multiple surgeries and none of them did shit.

You sure you got those surgeries from professionals in a quality facility? lol. I'm starting to think you are in some shit hole country now.

“ coping” is literally my only choice

Doesn't glasses or contact lenses solve the issue?

because whenever I’ve tried to kill myself, I just end up breaking either the ligature or the thing I’m hanging from.

There's no such thing as "trying" to kill yourself, you either go through with it or you don't. You either REALLY want to die or you don't. I had a friend that killed himself, no warning, no previous failed attempts, 100% success rate lol. That's because he REALLY wanted to die.

You just sound like an edgelord who wanted to "feel special" and "feel edgy", but subconsciously you were "pulling your punches" to make sure that you survive, because deep down you don't REALLY want to die (like the people that cut their wrists and they cut across their arm rather than down the length of the arm).

What's the saying again, something like "horizontal for attention, vertical for results".

Heck, you probably set things up so that your family or someone found out about your "suicide attempts", it's nothing but a cry for help (attention) in your case, you aren't serious about it. We live in the information age, there are entire forums dedicated to teaching people how to kill themselves as painlessly as possible with no risk of failure.

You're not retarded, if you wanted to be dead, you'd buy stronger rope, you'd learn to tie the knot properly through a youtube video, etc. Or you'd find a better painless method using nitrogen or something.

You're just an attention whore, stop kidding yourself.

Either fucking kill yourself or start "doing the work" required to make your life better.

Because all I see is someone not only half assing life, but they are also half assing death. At least try to do something right.

Pick a damn lane and follow through with the committment. People like you just let time drag you through life while you complain and pat yourself on the back.

 

[nystagmuscel]

This statement doesn't even make sense, "effort" implies "time", so I should be here until I reach the point in which I no longer feel the need to be. You are speaking as if "effort" means "snap your fingers and instantaneously get what you want".


What?

Oh did some googling, just realized why your username is "nystagmuscel" lol

What Is Nystagmus?

Blurry vision or seeing images that appear “shaky” or jumpy may be a sign of nystagmus. Learn more about this condition that affects your sight.

my.clevelandclinic.org

You sure you got those surgeries from professionals in a quality facility? lol. I'm starting to think you are in some shit hole country now.


Doesn't glasses or contact lenses solve the issue?


There's no such thing as "trying" to kill yourself, you either go through with it or you don't. You either REALLY want to die or you don't. I had a friend that killed himself, no warning, no previous failed attempts, 100% success rate lol. That's because he REALLY wanted to die.

You just sound like an edgelord who wanted to "feel special" and "feel edgy", but subconsciously you were "pulling your punches" to make sure that you survive, because deep down you don't REALLY want to die (like the people that cut their wrists and they cut across their arm rather than down the length of the arm).

What's the saying again, something like "horizontal for attention, vertical for results".

Heck, you probably set things up so that your family or someone found out about your "suicide attempts", it's nothing but a cry for help (attention) in your case, you aren't serious about it. We live in the information age, there are entire forums dedicated to teaching people how to kill themselves as painlessly as possible with no risk of failure.

You're not retarded, if you wanted to be dead, you'd buy stronger rope, you'd learn to tie the knot properly through a youtube video, etc. Or you'd find a better painless method using nitrogen or something.

You're just an attention whore, stop kidding yourself.

Either fucking kill yourself or start "doing the work" required to make your life better.

Because all I see is someone not only half assing life, but they are also half assing death. At least try to do something right.

Pick a damn lane and follow through with the committment. People like you just let time drag you through life while you complain and pat yourself on the back.

Do me a favor faggot. Go into your kitchen. Get a knife. Put it to the fatty part of your thigh. Try to prick yourself. You don’t need a cut, you don’t need blood. Just try to barely insert in there. Do you feel it? Do you feel the billions of years of hard wired evolution at work? Do you feel the blood pumping through your fucking veins constricting your breathing like a physical weight? That’s called survival instinct, and with a take on suicide like the above, I wouldn’t be surprised if this is the first time you’ve felt it in your equally just as pathetic as mine life. It doesn’t go away with wanting to kill yourself. It doesn’t go away with anything short of grade A narcotics or enough alcohol to drown a Slav in vomit. You talk about complaining and patting yourself on the back when you’re sitting here on an incel forum studying fringe social theory and writing whole essays about why you systematically can’t get laid. You don’t hear me going “ just get pussy bro” “ just learn how to make her laugh bro” do you? No, you don’t, because we can both agree that that’s retarded, and that “ all of your problems will go away if you just work!” Half assing life? Go rape a foid then if all it takes is determination and grind you pseudo intellectual piece of shit

 

[BlkPillPres]

Do me a favor faggot. Go into your kitchen. Get a knife. Put it to the fatty part of your thigh. Try to prick yourself. You don’t need a cut, you don’t need blood. Just try to barely insert in there. Do you feel it? Do you feel the billions of years of hard wired evolution at work?

More pointless excuses, didn't seem to stop my friend from killing himself, didn't seem to stop every person that's killing themselves RIGHT NOW AS YOU READ THIS MESSAGE.

Thousands of people across the world are doing what you say is impossible as we speak.

Put up or shut up.

 

[nystagmuscel]

More pointless excuses, didn't seem to stop my friend from killing himself, didn't seem to stop every person that's killing themselves RIGHT NOW AS YOU READ THIS MESSAGE.

Thousands of people across the world are doing what you say is impossible as we speak.

Put up or shut up.

This entire argument is just repackaged garbage and if you can’t see that you’re genuinely more autistic than I am. Those are called exceptions, and they are only a fraction of the attempted suicides. If your friend really had zero previous failed ( which I doubt, because he probably just did but wasn’t injured enough or rendered impaired enough to be taken in to a hospital or found) then Good for him, but that’s simply not a reality for most people who attempt.

 

[BlkPillPres]

This entire argument is just repackaged garbage and if you can’t see that you’re genuinely more autistic than I am.

Keep telling yourself that.

that’s simply not a reality for most people who attempt.

No such thing as "attempt" when it comes to suicide, that's just more normie BS.

You can "attempt" a backflip because it requires skill and advanced physical capability.

Killing yourself doesn't require skill or advanced physical capability lol, it merely requires research and mental fortitude.

The people who "attempt" suicide at the ones who didn't really want to die.

You could take the last of your money and buy a gun to shoot yourself if you really wanted to die, if you can afford it a shotgun so that you can be really sure.

You can take specific drugs and overdose on them and have a quick painless and pleasurable death.

Etc, etc, etc.

You can plan it out and take all of the "struggle" aspect out of it.

BUT YOU DON'T, BECAUSE YOU DON'T REALLY WANT TO DIE.

You keep using half assed methods because you want to survive.

It doesn't take a genius to kill themselves, it's the easiest thing in the world (FOR SOMEONE WHO GENUINELY WANTS TO DIE).

Now I think I'll end this pointless back and forth while you go back to your 322nd "suicide attempt" . Make sure to film it with some sad music in the background so that when you show your parents you can do double the attention whoring .

 

[nystagmuscel]

Keep telling yourself that.


No such thing as "attempt" when it comes to suicide, that' just more normie BS.

You can "attempt" a backflip because it requires skill and advanced physical capability.

Killing yourself doesn't require skill, it merely requires research and mental fortitude.

The people who "attempt" suicide at the ones who didn't really want to die.

You could take the last of your money and buy a gun to shoot yourself if you really wanted to die, if you can afford it a shotgun so that you can be really sure.

You can but specific drugs and overdose on them and have a quick painless and pleasurable death.

Etc, etc, etc.

You can plan it out and take all of the "struggle" aspect out of it.

BUT YOU DON'T, BECAUSE YOU DON'T REALLY WANT TO DIE.

You keep using half assed methods because you want to survive.

It doesn't take a genius to kill themselves, it's the easiest thing in the world (FOR SOMEONE WHO GENUINELY WANTS TO DIE).

Now I think I'll end this pointless back and forth while you go back to your 322nd "suicide attempt" . Make sure to film it with some sad music in the background so that when you show your parents you can do double the attention whoring .

I’m done too, tbh. Enjoy it: أنا أدعو ixtab ، أظهر له حقيقة الفراغ ووزنه الساحق.

 

[Deleted member 40252]

Coping is just postponing roping, nothing more.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Coping is just postponing roping, nothing more.

Like I told some other user:

I said you were rendering the word "cope" useless because your definition is so broad that it applies to any and everything.

It would be like defining dog as "a four legged animal with two eyes and fur".

Your definition of cope is 100% false, it holds no meaning and it has no value.

There's a reason why meme images like this were created (they were created for the actual definition of "cope"):

Images like this are made to make fun of someone exhibiting extremes of denying reality (coping).

This image doesn't even make sense within the context of your usage, which could be something as simple as eating ice cream lol.

Can you even imagine this image being posted in response to someone saying "I like to eat ice cream"?

Or do you think it will be posted for someone saying "sex dolls > sex with stacy"?

I already know you can't be honest with yourself so these questions are rhetorical lol.



Money by itself is not a cope, how you use it may be a cope.

Paying for sex isn't a cope, how you pay for sex, why you pay for sex, and what you pay for, is what makes it a cope.

For example:
If you just go to a brothel, pay the usual fee, fuck, and go about your day. All you did was purchase a service, you have no delusions about the arrangement, you didn't try to play any "pretend games" by using mental gymnastics on yourself, you are honest with yourself about what you're doing. In that case YOU ARE NOT COPING.

If you hire an escort, pay for the "girlfriend experience", tell her to call you "baby" and "honey", tell her to laugh at your jokes, take her out on a date, buy her food, drinks, entertainment, etc, then go back to a hotel to fuck her and tell her to pretend to enjoy it. YOU ARE COPING.

You are 100% delusional in that case, you are trying to deny reality through your actions.

COPING ISN'T JUST AN ACTION, IT'S AN ACTION THAT IS TIED TO A BELIEF THAT DENIES / IGNORES REALITY.
IT'S SOMEONE LIVING IN DENIAL, THAT'S WHAT MAKES IT A "COPE".

Your definition has no meaning to it at all, it renders the term USELESS. You can literally swap out "coping" with "existing" the way you use the term lol. It has no meaning when you use it.

Your definition is too broad, which renders the term useless. The entire point of a definition is that IT DEFINES THINGS. It distinguishes one thing from the other.

If your definition is "open to interpretation" then it isn't really a definition, it's just some shit you made up to fit your personal beliefs.

If we use your definition of cope, breathing air is cope, blinking your eyes is cope, anything you do while existing is cope, which defeats the purpose of the term "cope" as it no longer has any meaning that distinguishes it from other things.

 

[Deleted member 40252]

Your definition is too broad, which renders the term useless.

Agreed, I should have clarified your statement.

 

[I want to believe]

get the things you want in life

I'll never get them.

Are you seriously saying the only things you will pursue are the things that you think will be easy to get?

Probably, yes. Mostly yes, I'd say.

Also, "rich" is relative. If you are making 20K US per year in America you are poor, as the average person in the US is making 50% more than you (around 30K). If you are making 20K US per year remotely and you living in Brazil, you are rich as hell, as the average person in Brazil makes around 5K US per year.

I got it. But again, working remotely isn't an option for every incel. Being a wage slave who has to go to work sounds more realistic. Don't you think so?

 

[BlkPillPres]

I'll never get them.

That's a choice.

Probably, yes. Mostly yes, I'd say.

You just validated exactly why I said "that's a choice" lol.

I got it. But again, working remotely isn't an option for every incel.

Nothing is an option for EVERY person in any group, but it's definitely an option for the majority of incels. We all have computers right?, we all have internet right?. Any one of us could get a job in digital marketing, graphics design, coding, etc.

Being a wage slave who has to go to work sounds more realistic. Don't you think so?

Were already the exception to the rule, why not aim to be the exception in other respects?

Either way to me there is only my idea of success or death, I either succeed or I kill myself, there is no in-between.

Your response is no different than saying - "Killing yourself sounds more realistic. Don't you think so?".

Yes it does sound more realistic to kill myself, but seeing as I'd like to avoid doing that, I might as well put my efforts towards creating a reality in which I don't want to.