Like I sometimes see my friends IRL or I have some reason to leave my room but on most days I really don’t know what else to do besides play vidya, watch YouTube, Jack off, or smoke weed. Community college is the only thing preventing me from being a full on shut-in NEET.
Normies don't understand how we wind up the way that we do, despite the fact that it's simple to understand.
If girls don't want shit to do with you then that rules them out entirely. Girls/sex/love/dating is arguably the biggest part of life...and you're shut out.
If you're ugly, lots of guys don't want you around because people don't like ugly people. If you're ugly your personality has to be perfect. You have to moneymaxx, statusmaxx, athleticsmaxx, and whatever else in order to have friends worth having. Half the guys out there from puberty until adulthood won't be your friend because girls think you're ugly and not worth having around. This puts you at a severe and impossible disadvantage.
So now you have no girls, no friends, and no social life...at all. You're done, it's over. Your ugliness has kept you out of hang outs, parties, clubs, bars, and good times with friends.
Now you retreat by necessity. You're made an outcast by others rejecting you. You don't decide to be a shut-in and hermit: you were born to be one. It's not a choice. Now you have nothing left in life but your lonely and isolated copes. Drinking, drugs, vidya, TV, porn, music, playing an instrument, maybe sports/gym, and whatever other hobbies that you might have.
You have to go to school and work. This is the one major constant where there's no wiggle room. When you're not at school/work, you cope or LDAR.
It's not difficult at all to wind up alone and with nothing if you're ugly. If you're a truecel (which many of you aren't) you should be shedding friends in childhood once puberty is over and you're now an ugly incel. I lost every friend I had once puberty was over. I have had none since. I was cast out basically overnight. It's like I woke up one morning and my entire life was gone.
It only gets worse. I'm 30 and it's clear. Inceldom in adulthood is impossible to deal with. Everyone else has relationships and families and even kids and you have nothing. They have no time for you and don't want you around anyway. We are the losers in life. It's a competition and we were doomed to fail. Everyone makes friends, everyone dates, everyone has families, and we have nothing. We haven't had anything since our teen years and some of us have had zero our whole lives. The focus on ugliness is what you can't lose sight of. Sure, we have mentalcels, poorcels, ethniccels, etc., but for me, it's ugliness that needs to be the focus. If you are ugly you are utterly doomed in life.
Try to think about an ugly person who is cool and/or has a nice life. Just try to think of an ugly person who is respected and valued who isn't someone like Stephen Hawking or some outlier/exception.
You probably can't. If you're a normie, you're fine and can have a nice life. There are innumerable normies with happy lives who matter to people. If you're attractive, you're in God mode most of the time and life is a joke and you're always smiling and laughing. You were born at the top of the mountain and all you have to do is not fuck it all up. If you're ugly, you have no chance. There is nothing you can do, realistically, to be happy and to survive. Nothing. Nothing. Nothing.
If there was, I would know about it and would try to do it. There is no way out and that is why being ugly is the worst thing that anyone can possibly be.
