you can be a volcel and yet be loyal to the incel cause. let's say you are a young 6/10 normie, and you want to have a girlfriend you see a future with. because you are stoic and blackpilled, you would accept a 4/10 girl too, because also you don't care that much about looks, as long as she isn't a roastie or an old hag or black. but for fucks sake, all your looksmatches are riding the dick carousel in their twenties, so all you find are 1/10. you know deep down, you are not ready to settle with a 1/10, because this is amount of hypergamy is just crazy. if you want to marry someone near your looksmatch, you need to wait until girls start settling down, which is unless your extremely lucky around age 30