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SuicideFuel if you didn't develop heterosocial/interpersonal skills or learn to flirt during adolescence, you're screwed. same with if you lack a social circle.

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Edmund_Kemper

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In order to know how to ask out women and get a date or hook up or relationship with them, you need good interpersonal or heterosocial skills to know how to flirt. if you can't flirt or initiate good heterosocial skills, how the fuck can you get a date? unless you're a super good looking guy of course (e.g.: James Dean), you need to develop heterosocial skills and interpersonal skills with the opposite sex during adolescence to have experience in adulthood with relationships and sex.

As adolescents, people start communicating with the opposite gender more frequently and people often get their first kiss with an acquitance or friend at ages 12-16. Then they start dating and having sex by their older teens.

A lot of studies show that involuntary adult virgins were more likely to have been bullied, socially withdrawn (preferred to play alone), ostracized or rejected by peers during childhood. Socially withdrawn teens also were more likely to be virgins later on. Adult virgins are also less satisified with their social lives and less likely to have been drunk, and most never had smoked weed, cigarettes or used illicit drugs before. They appear to have missed out on social experiences and experimentations that many teens experience. Involuntary college virgins had lower global self-esteem, lower social self-esteem and had lacked heterosocial skills. Studies found that lacking heterosocial skills and not developing them during adolescence increased likelihood of adulthood virginity or lack of dating experience. involuntary singlehood was also linked with lack of flirting skills.

Virgins as mentioned earlier were also less satisified with their social lives. If you lack a social circle, you can't meet women. you can't go to bars alone and you can't meet new women through friends or have ANY social opportunities whatsoever. dating apps won't work unless you're super good looking
 
Shit tier post you can do flirting if you’re good looking you can’t if your ugly

Have you seen a ugly guy flirt ever
 
Shit tier post you can do flirting if you’re good looking you can’t if your ugly

Have you seen a ugly guy flirt ever
nope. anyone can flirt. if you can't flirt you're fucked
 
nope. anyone can flirt. if you can't flirt you're fucked
Shit tier post you can do flirting if you’re good looking you can’t if your ugly

Have you seen a ugly guy flirt ever

would any of you befriend anyone here? ngl if you’re ugly as a male you cut off socially even if you can mimic the ability to flirt but it’s just stuff you learned from seeing but never was successful with.
 
What do normies do if they move somewhere for a job and lose their social circle? Feels impossible to make friends or get foids without already having them. You go to events and everyone is there with their own little groups. :fuk:
 
What do normies do if they move somewhere for a job and lose their social circle? Feels impossible to make friends or get foids without already having them. You go to events and everyone is there with their own little groups. :fuk:
I finished my 2nd last year of college if I don’t form a social circle by next year I’m done for
 
Adolescence is the foundation for how successful a person is later in life.
 
What do normies do if they move somewhere for a job and lose their social circle? Feels impossible to make friends or get foids without already having them. You go to events and everyone is there with their own little groups. :fuk:

I think they force their way into groups through the workplace. This doesn't work for incels because we generally hate our coworkers. I cannot relate to normies at all.
 
I think they force their way into groups through the workplace. This doesn't work for incels because we generally hate our coworkers. I cannot relate to normies at all.
A lot of normies don’t like mixing work with socializing either though and they might just not like their coworkers. Also remote jobs are increasing in number with more normies wanting them.
Fuck we are screwed just for even wondering about this stuff :feelsUnreal::feelsUnreal::feelsUnreal::feelsUnreal:
 
It is impossible to flirt without good or at least moderate looks. This just wouldn't work.
 
you can learn in adulthood, but it only gets harder to find opportunities to do so as you get older
 
What do normies do if they move somewhere for a job and lose their social circle? Feels impossible to make friends or get foids without already having them. You go to events and everyone is there with their own little groups. :fuk:
normies are all socially atomised now. its not about the social circle now, that shits outdated. everybody has their own brand, their own product, their own marketing. if you have the skills to pay the bills, you can uproot yourself from your community and seamlessly implant yourself in a new one. they are all just carbon copies of each other anyway
 
flirting just feels so awkward to me. same with sexy talk. when i fuck a whore i just lay there in silence as she gets me off. i dont even moan or say it feels so fucking good like they do in porn
 
NT does not matter if you are under 5 or under 6
 
What do normies do if they move somewhere for a job and lose their social circle? Feels impossible to make friends or get foids without already having them. You go to events and everyone is there with their own little groups. :fuk:
They abuse their kids or animals
 
Holy shit. Even my own boss and normie friends mock me for this. Fucking over for me. :feelsrope:
 
My genetics screwed me.
 
Low IQ POST, wtf is this... :feelsseriously: disappointing
 
you're ignorant

elaborate.
Daily remainder if a woman dosen't ask your number in 48h that means you're ugly asf and you are in her queue/line of orbiters and that also means she have options and she's puting you on waiting list, she will showing just few sings of IOI just to keep you in her line of orbiters.


If you are a low iq subhuman cuck faggot and you believe that she is shy or bullshit stuff like that that means you deserve your faith you cuck low iq subhuman faggot, you ain't shit and your existence boils my blood in my veins unbelievable, they're not shy they have options and you are just a poor option for her.


Majority of men experienced this feeling "ooo she likes me i know it or she kinda likes me or i think she likes me" that's bullshit nigga if she doesn't ask your number in 48h maximum that means you are ugly asf.

Probably you will think it's not normal that a woman to ask about your number soo fast, well let me tell you this.. it's fucking normal asf to ask your number faster as possible that means she really really fucking likes you for your looks or if you're a ugly... for your money.


I've had many experience with this bullshit game, I've saw chads who women go at them asking for their number or asking a closer friend to go at him to ask about his number.


The truth is, if you feel that she likes you and 1 month passed that means you are not her best option and if she is giving you few IOI(Signs of interest) that means she dosen't want to lose her backup option, from here if you see all of this like i see, you will get disgusted by this gender, woman gender and you will realize thay are parasites.


Awwww shit... btw i forget to add smth, if she chooses you, that dosen't means she loves you, that means you are a better option for her, love dosen't exist niggaz because Love&Romance&Validation are Nature's way of tricking you to reproduce.
 
Daily remainder if a woman dosen't ask your number in 48h that means you're ugly asf and you are in her queue/line of orbiters and that also means she have options and she's puting you on waiting list, she will showing just few sings of IOI just to keep you in her line of orbiters.


If you are a low iq subhuman cuck faggot and you believe that she is shy or bullshit stuff like that that means you deserve your faith you cuck low iq subhuman faggot, you ain't shit and your existence boils my blood in my veins unbelievable, they're not shy they have options and you are just a poor option for her.


Majority of men experienced this feeling "ooo she likes me i know it or she kinda likes me or i think she likes me" that's bullshit nigga if she doesn't ask your number in 48h maximum that means you are ugly asf.

Probably you will think it's not normal that a woman to ask about your number soo fast, well let me tell you this.. it's fucking normal asf to ask your number faster as possible that means she really really fucking likes you for your looks or if you're a ugly... for your money.


I've had many experience with this bullshit game, I've saw chads who women go at them asking for their number or asking a closer friend to go at him to ask about his number.


The truth is, if you feel that she likes you and 1 month passed that means you are not her best option and if she is giving you few IOI(Signs of interest) that means she dosen't want to lose her backup option, from here if you see all of this like i see, you will get disgusted by this gender, woman gender and you will realize thay are parasites.


Awwww shit... btw i forget to add smth, if she chooses you, that dosen't means she loves you, that means you are a better option for her, love dosen't exist niggaz because Love&Romance&Validation are Nature's way of tricking you to reproduce.
:fuk::lul:
 
I missed all the "social interaction and sexual experiences" I was supposed to have at different age periods of my life. I relate to this a lot because I have no interest in drinking, smoking or socializing. Call me a crazy coper, but at least this means I am different than normiescum.
 
Adult virgins are also less satisified with their social lives and less likely to have been drunk, and most never had smoked weed, cigarettes or used illicit drugs before.
As an incel who drinks and gets high regularly, I doubt this. I'm sure they mean that to be only in a social context, i.e. adult virgins are less likely to be social drinkers and smoking socially with others.

I drink and get high alone, 100% of the time.
 
Anecdotal evidence isn’t evidence because anecdotes don’t necessarily represent what usually happens. It’s like saying cigarettes can’t cause lung cancer or early death because one’s grandma smoked all day and made it to age 100

They were asked if they ever did at least ONCE in their lifetime.

As an incel who drinks and gets high regularly, I doubt this. I'm sure they mean that to be only in a social context, i.e. adult virgins are less likely to be social drinkers and smoking socially with others.

I drink and get high alone, 100% of the time.
 
I think they force their way into groups through the workplace. This doesn't work for incels because we generally hate our coworkers. I cannot relate to normies at all.
I've never hated my coworkers at any place I've worked. The problem is that they have their own social circles and they just come to work to work, not to make a social circle. My parents literally met each other at a party put on by their work colleagues. Nowadays this doesn't seem to happen due to people being more asocial and HR departments scrutinizing everything. It used to be way more common for people to get relationships at work.
 

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