Incels constantly seem to both over-exaggerate and under-exaggerate female stuttiness these days in massive strides that ignore some pretty basic realities. The incelosphere, most posts and the majority of incel related content only focuses on sex in the sense of vaginal sex or "losing your virginity". Incels fail to realize that deep kissing, handjobs, blowjobs, getting fingered, fondled, and anything related to sexual nature falls on this spectrum of sexual intimacy and what it means to be properly sexually socialized, not just vaginal sex. Yes there are females that are virgins at 20 years old not 0.001% like some of you hyperbole obsessed people come up with, but a female that has never experienced anything listed above... um yeah that's close to 0. KHHV females are unicorns these days by the time they turn 18 if even any at all apart from having mental and or physical issues getting in the way of this. You incels need to realize that the end goal for many of you may be sex, but the majority of the population reaches sex at a pace most similar to the "base" system (1rst, 2nd, etc). I have friends and know of cases of guys that made out with girls and fondled them when they were 11-12, got a blowjob at 15, but never had sex until 20, WAY after highschool, NINE YEARS AFTER THEIR FIRST FEMALE CONTACT.
These markers are where people start, and why missing out on teen love is like being doomed from the start because it is about the experiencing the gradual synergy of the opposite sex and what it means to interact with the opposite sex. A 12 year old going to the movies and getting a kiss on the cheek at the end is far more than I have experienced yet a 21 year old guy doing this is beyond embarrassing and not worth saving. I might even throw out the word cucked. Teen love is about the novelty of sexual interaction and transitional long-term "foreplay" if you will, where both girls and guys are understanding what it means to be a member of their sex, and how to navigate sexuality without penetrative sex itself necessarily. Understand what I'm saying? When 2 adults fall in love, sex usually commences shortly after, but 2 teens in love for the first time may never experience sex with each other until months later after being with one-another because of the gradual buildup of sexual experiences like deep kissing, then fondling, then oral sex, ultimately fulfilling this gap of anticipation where penetrative sex may not even be vitally necessary in keeping the relationship close and exciting. This is how females get to 20 and remain virgins, they may have given out 10 blowjobs before the end of highschool but state in their personal lives "tee hee im still a virgin, I'm a good girl" because they aren't lying. Men that get to 21 like me and are KHHV are truly losers, the word has never been more apt. I could theoretically take a few hours and find an escort in my city and finally lose my virginity but I realize the futility in this endevour. Sex is not the end goal for us, it was the failure of female synergy that made us turn out this way, sex is only a consequence of this.
This is why when you are 20 as a KHHV outside of prostitution, it is so close to impossible to even dip your feet in the water of female experience yet alone knowing where to start, compared to "incels" who are simply virgins at 20 but have had a plethora of female experiences already. When an incel tries to pull the "I'm a virgin at 20 card", do not fall for this so easily. Ask them if they have ever experienced any sexual capacity with a female first. This is how it is for the majority of the population. If you are a KHHV this is my marker for what it means to be incel because a woman was interested enough to show sexual inclination towards you at some capacity on the spectrum. Hugging, kissing, fondling at the lower end of the spectrum, with penetrative sex at the latter end. To be incel in my opinion is the inclination to fall completely out of this spectrum.
These markers are where people start, and why missing out on teen love is like being doomed from the start because it is about the experiencing the gradual synergy of the opposite sex and what it means to interact with the opposite sex. A 12 year old going to the movies and getting a kiss on the cheek at the end is far more than I have experienced yet a 21 year old guy doing this is beyond embarrassing and not worth saving. I might even throw out the word cucked. Teen love is about the novelty of sexual interaction and transitional long-term "foreplay" if you will, where both girls and guys are understanding what it means to be a member of their sex, and how to navigate sexuality without penetrative sex itself necessarily. Understand what I'm saying? When 2 adults fall in love, sex usually commences shortly after, but 2 teens in love for the first time may never experience sex with each other until months later after being with one-another because of the gradual buildup of sexual experiences like deep kissing, then fondling, then oral sex, ultimately fulfilling this gap of anticipation where penetrative sex may not even be vitally necessary in keeping the relationship close and exciting. This is how females get to 20 and remain virgins, they may have given out 10 blowjobs before the end of highschool but state in their personal lives "tee hee im still a virgin, I'm a good girl" because they aren't lying. Men that get to 21 like me and are KHHV are truly losers, the word has never been more apt. I could theoretically take a few hours and find an escort in my city and finally lose my virginity but I realize the futility in this endevour. Sex is not the end goal for us, it was the failure of female synergy that made us turn out this way, sex is only a consequence of this.
This is why when you are 20 as a KHHV outside of prostitution, it is so close to impossible to even dip your feet in the water of female experience yet alone knowing where to start, compared to "incels" who are simply virgins at 20 but have had a plethora of female experiences already. When an incel tries to pull the "I'm a virgin at 20 card", do not fall for this so easily. Ask them if they have ever experienced any sexual capacity with a female first. This is how it is for the majority of the population. If you are a KHHV this is my marker for what it means to be incel because a woman was interested enough to show sexual inclination towards you at some capacity on the spectrum. Hugging, kissing, fondling at the lower end of the spectrum, with penetrative sex at the latter end. To be incel in my opinion is the inclination to fall completely out of this spectrum.
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