is anyone else too lazy to socialise?

[Despicablecel]

I know the theory of it but im too lazy to actually do it. Socializing just isn't high on my priority list. It's like 5 maybe.

 

[edgelordcel]

Cant

 

[Awake]

I can't socialise due to my non NT problems

 

[WØLF]

Unironically just throw your dignity away and become a low inhib jester who cracks jokes regularly. If done correctly, it can be a way to showcase your wit (assuming you have any) and socialmaxx, but it's generally not worth it and normies will think you're a complete clown. Don't even bother if you're not NT though.

 

[Suicide Sheep]

I am.
Socializing requires you to empty your mind, stop being yourself and then start to talk about random and meaningless shit for the sake of avoiding silence.

 

[1oilypufta]

I could probably be a successful socialite but as soon as I make an appearance, people see me as subhuman.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

...

The hypersystemizing theory of autism suggests that autistic individuals, on average, have superior attention to detail, and a stronger drive to systemize. Systemizing involves identifying input-operation-output relationships in order to analyse and build systems and to understand the laws that govern specific systems1. Several lines of evidence suggest that autistic individuals have intact or superior systemizing. This idea was noted in the earliest reports describing autism. In his 1944 paper describing autism2, Hans Asperger noted a proclivity for patterns and order in autistic children. Of one child, he writes, “He orders his facts into a system and forms his own theories even if they are occasionally abstruse.” He observes that another child had “specialised technological interests and knew an incredible amount about complex machinery,” while a third child “was preoccupied by numbers.” In Leo Kanner’s 1943 paper, he writes that the children with autism have “precise recollection of complex patterns and sequences3.”

These initial clinical observations have been quantified using different measures. For example, on a self-report measure of systemizing (the Systemizing Quotient – Revised, or the SQ-R)4, autistic adults, on average, score significantly higher than non-autistic individuals4,5. The same pattern of results is seen in autistic children, using the parent-report version of the SQ6. Systemizing is also highly correlated with aptitude in science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM)7. Fathers and grandfathers of children with autism are significantly overrepresented in the field of engineering8. The same is true of mothers9. This is in line with higher rates of autism in geographical regions that have higher rates of people working in fields such as information technology, like Eindhoven in the Netherlands10. Further, autistic individuals are more likely to enrol in STEM majors (34.31%) compared to the general population (22.8%) and other learning disabilities (18.6%)11. STEM professionals also score significantly higher on measures of autistic traits (mean = 21.92, SD = 8.92) compared non-STEM professionals (mean = 18.92, SD = 8.48)12. Finally, unpublished work from Sweden suggests that high technical IQ in fathers increases risk for autism in children. A few studies have also investigated systemizing in other psychiatric traits and conditions, including schizotypy13 and anorexia nervosa14.

It is unclear if the link between autism and systemizing is due to underlying genetics or due to other non-biological factors (for example, people high in systemizing may be more aware of autism and hence more likely to seek a diagnosis). Here we directly test this using genome-wide association data from 51,564 research participants from 23andMe, Inc., a personal genetics company, and who completed the SQ-R. This study has the following aims: 1. To investigate the genetic architecture of systemizing, using the SQ-R; 2. To identify the genetic correlation between the SQ-R and psychiatric conditions (including autism) and psychological traits; 3. To identify enrichment in tissues, gene groups, and biological pathways.

 

[Dusk]

I'm socially retarded aka autism.
I'd love to have shit like friends, wouldn't know the first way to get them.
Friendship as a Non-NT sub3 feels like a joke more than anything.

 

[AloneCel2]

just become a low inhib

You gonna tell me to "just ascend" next?

 

[WØLF]

You gonna tell me to "just ascend" next?

>Joined Jan 23, 2024

Your GrAY ass probably already has.

 

[despisedpaul]

Socializing is immensely draining. Either you mask and are met with the pain of that, or you don't and are met with the pain of instantly being ostracized for abnormal behavior.
Not socializing, however is equally as draining. Having no connection and total isolation is painful to the core. The lose-lose nature of this situation only results in LDAR.

 

[AloneCel2]

>Joined Jan 23, 2024

Your GrAY ass probably already has.

I haven't yet, but I will soon, when I rawdog your mother

 

[WØLF]

I haven't yet, but I will soon, when I rawdog your mother

 

[AloneCel2]

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Ok foid avi

 

[WØLF]

Ok foid avi

Anime avis are pretty gay ngl, I can't argue with that.

 

[SupremeGentleCel]

Lazy Chads don´t socialize either, yet still manage to get laid like crazy on a weekly basis.
The only thing they need to do, is leave their basement and go to a local grocery store, and boom he has a girls number

 

[Despicablecel]

Unironically just throw your dignity away and become a low inhib jester who cracks jokes regularly. If done correctly, it can be a way to showcase your wit (assuming you have any) and socialmaxx, but it's generally not worth it and normies will think you're a complete clown. Don't even bother if you're not NT though.

I have neither the ability to be a jester or the looks to pull it off. One time i made a rape joke and the guy i told it to reported me despite him seeming to like me. Too many people just have that npc part of their brain which may seem dormant but will activate once you go too far. I also make jokes to banter with others and they take it seriously because of my looks. I joked this dude looked like a lesbian as a kid which was literally true in that specific picture and in general tbh and he got mad af and started defending himself. He actually a week later said he looked like a girl when young lmao. These instances are spread over a long period btw, i very rarely socialise. Everything about me just screams social failure tbh. I don't really care that much though because i know how fucking superficial socializing is. I only want to ntmax to be better at networking and earning money.

 

[Despicablecel]

Socializing is immensely draining. Either you mask and are met with the pain of that, or you don't and are met with the pain of instantly being ostracized for abnormal behavior.
Not socializing, however is equally as draining. Having no connection and total isolation is painful to the core. The lose-lose nature of this situation only results in LDAR.

 

[UglyDumbass]

I know the theory of it but im too lazy to actually do it. Socializing just isn't high on my priority list. It's like 5 maybe.

I can barely socialize cause no one allowed me too for many years

 

[WØLF]

I have neither the ability to be a jester or the looks to pull it off.

Over.

One time i made a rape joke and the guy i told it to reported me despite him seeming to like me.

Jfl, obviously edgy humor isn't going to bode well with normies, especially if it's about the one thing society thinks is worse than first-degree murder.

Too many people just have that npc part of their brain which may seem dormant but will activate once you go too far. I also make jokes to banter with others and they take it seriously because of my looks. I joked this dude looked like a lesbian as a kid which was literally true in that specific picture and in general tbh and he got mad af and started defending himself. He actually a week later said he looked like a girl when young lmao.

Normies have thinner skin than you realize. Pretty much only HTNs and above can make jokes at the expense of others without looking like an asshole tbh. That guy most likely became defensive because he interpreted your comment as an insult, so it's possible that you didn't deliver the comment well—which is very easy to do. Actually, it's most likely the result of your looks, as nobody would take well any sort of criticism of their appearance from someone who is physically inferior to them.

He actually a week later said he looked like a girl when young lmao.

Normie cognitive dissonance moment.

Everything about me just screams social failure tbh. I don't really care that much though because i know how fucking superficial socializing is. I only want to ntmax to be better at networking and earning money.

Though I doubt it would work for you or the majority of users on this site, jestermaxxing might for me because I've been described as funny several times in my life. I think humor is the only way I can bear communicating with normies, but I'd have to completely change my personality and rid myself of all shame to become that kind of person. I don't know what would work for you, but at least you have goals and aspirations, I guess. Very much unlike me.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

There's a limit between "being too lazy to do it" and "knowing it's useless thus not doing it at all"

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I know the theory of it but im too lazy to actually do it. Socializing just isn't high on my priority list. It's like 5 maybe.

It's hard for me to socialize because I'm a mentalcel and because I'm a misanthrope it makes it even harder

 

[Den66kj]

There's a limit between "being too lazy to do it" and "knowing it's useless thus not doing it at all"

Tried all my life. Never succeeded. Don't have the energy anymore

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Tried all my life. Never succeeded. Don't have the energy anymore

Truecel trait tbh

 

[Electus]

I grab every opportunity to socialise because I have 2 friends and actually value the fact that I have them. But I think one or both of them might tell me the fuck off soon cause I'm an alcoholic and go into fits of rage when I'm drunk and/or act like a retard.

 

[Den66kj]

Truecel trait tbh

Yes, and it's over too

 

[Autistic Uggo]

I can't socialise due to my non NT problems

I just don't have the capacity or drive to connect with people like NTs do. It's like there is a part of me that's missing.

Being ugly and socially retarded has ruined my life.

 

[Emba]

I can barely socialize cause no one allowed me too for many years

Confirmed