Discussion It's a nightmare trying to meet similar people when you're not NT?

[Hoppipolla]

I had lots of friends in my teens but... I "have ADHD" and... my personality really isn't that different now from when I was 17 and I think most people change massively between 17 and 25 because of natural changes in the brain.

I've talked about this before sorry! But the point is that... yeah, these days it's so much more difficult to find people who are like me than it was at... really any age under about 21 or 22.

I just wondered about other people's experiences. I find it can be demoralising because you feel so lost in a sea of people you can't connect with. It's not as bad online of course but in reality it's a nightmare. A sea of normies.

I wonder if it's because I'm mostly Italian (or at least that's the biggest percentage of my genetic make-up). Maybe I should move to Italy

 

[Grotesque Deformity]

Non-NT = Death

 

[Max Doltman]

i did not change really at all from 17-25.

 

[copemaxx9002]

Non-NT = Death

 

[copemaxx9002]

i did not change really at all from 17-25.

over

 

[Hoppipolla]

i did not change really at all from 17-25.

It's weird because... I've "changed"... but it's all an act. I'm the same really.

 

[Ron.Belgrade]

especially when you plan to meet up with someone and other people you dont know are there with that person

like atleast tell me that there will be others

 

[latinocelhispanicel]

For me the problem isn't necessarily talk to other guys (foids always see something off, especially with the eye contact... it's like a naturar pepper spray), it's just the motivation to go out. It's not adhd, i don't really know how to label it but it made me neetmax since graduating high school 4 years ago. I'm 21 right now.

 

[latinocelhispanicel]

especially when you plan to meet up with someone and other people you dont know are there with that person

like atleast tell me that there will be others

NIKKKA I fucking hate this. the people who take the "Who's going to be there?" take it up there ass because they think that their company is not enough and you're really asking "who else is going to be there that I can actually get along with?" when you're actually asking "are any other niggas going to be there?" because when I hang out with my cousin, I think about it like a 1 on 1... then that nigga all of a sudden decides to have a sausage fest. (I'm hispanic if that counts, and I've heard that hispanics are immune to the blackpill, so this may be a facet that I'm immune to when it comes to actually engaging with people, but not so much immunity in the finding reason to go out department).

 

[NorthernWind]

My personality almost the same as 12 y.o. even if I'm 30+ y.o.

 

[Monke]

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

Nordcucks are faggots ngl. But southnigs have their own issues. You will be an outcast eitherway.

We are stuck stunted in our development plus it's another of these number pills like in that NY thread, if you remember it. It's with bad personality / NDness just like with when you are ugly finding someone, who will accept this deficite, and also fits all other categories. It gets exponentially hard. There are simply not enough people around. It's the worst in small cities...