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>High intelligence is touted as being predictive of positive outcomes including educational success and income level. However, little is known about the difficulties experienced among this population.

>High statistical significance and a remarkably high relative risk ratio of diagnoses for all examined conditions were confirmed among the Mensa group 2015 data when compared to the national average statistics. This implicates high IQ as being a potential risk factor for affective disorders, ADHD, ASD, and for increased incidence of disease related to immune dysregulation. Preliminary findings strongly support a hyper brain/hyper body association which may have substantial individual and societal implications and warrants further investigation to best identify and serve this at-risk population.

>Tsien (2016) defines intelligence as, “the ability to self-discover knowledge and patterns from a world full of uncertainties and infinite possibilities,” whose mission it is to “solve various problems in their natural and social environments in order to survive and thrive” (p. 2). The highly intelligent individual has a remarkable capacity for seeing and internalizing these vast uncertainties, possibilities, and problems. This gift can either be a catalyst for empowerment and self-actualization or it can be a predictor of dysregulation and debilitation as the present results suggest. If these individuals take in their world in such an overexcitable manner intellectually (hyper brain), then the potential exists for an intense level of physiological processing as well (hyper body).

>The hyper brain/hyper body theory is new and as such a number of studies will need to be carried out to better understand its strengths and limitations. Understanding the relationship between high intelligence and illness could have a significant personal and societal impact. In this study, we have presented a plausible, highly testable, theoretical framework that hopes to serve as a springboard for future experimental designs across disciplines.

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Source: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0160289616303324

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Intelligence is less adaptive in this soyciety than superficial charisma and charm, which gives you social connections to leverage into power.

The high IQ celibate with ADHD/autism and a sense of "cerebral narcissism" is mogged by the low IQ slayer with psychopathy and a sense of "somatic narcissism."
 
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Intelligence is less adaptive in this soyciety than superficial charisma and charm, which gives you social connections to leverage into power.

The high IQ celibate with ADHD/autism and a sense of "cerebral narcissism" is mogged by the low IQ slayer with psychopathy and a sense of "somatic narcissism."
Dolph Lundgren has an IQ of 165
 
Dolph Lundgren has an IQ of 165
Born Hans Lundgren in 1957, the actor told NPR in 2014 that childhood allergies kept him out of sports and focused on school work. Growing up in Stockholm, Lundgren had ambitions to come live in America but was financially strapped. To make the move, he used his prowess in chemical engineering to graduate from the Royal Institute of Technology in Stockholm and earn a Fulbright scholarship to MIT.

He began as a cerebral narcissist with immune dysregulation, a topic spoken about in the OP, but adjusted his tune to the American culture of narcissism, which is much more somatic in orientation.

This confirms my narrative, unfortunately.
 
You're safe then don't worry
 
>tfw probably a sperg

what even constitutes as high iq these days, anyways?
 
Im a dumbfuck tbh
 
Low T trait, your sister's bf wouldn't do that
IMAGINE THINKING I'M BEING SERIOUS
He began as a cerebral narcissist with immune dysregulation, a topic spoken about in the OP, but adjusted his tune to the American culture of narcissism, which is much more somatic in orientation.

This confirms my narrative, unfortunately.
The following are all of the traits (some verbatim) that I experienced being married to a cerebral narcissist.

  • An insatiable need to be intellectually superior
  • Puts on the illusion of embodying philosophical constructs to put themselves above everyone else, especially people they claim to be close to (and will impose those ideologies on their supply)
  • Demeaning behavior toward the success of others (especially their supply, whether it be a spouse or close friend(s)). They trivialize the success of others and exaggerate their own successes
  • Arrogant
  • Believe they are obligated to “share their life and light with everyone” (verbatim), even complete strangers
  • They will love bomb you, tell you “I love you” very early on, claim you are their soulmate and their intellectual equal
  • They will tell you that their ex was stupid, ignorant, and intellectually beneath them
  • They will foster jealousy by spending time with women that they often fantasized of dating, but instead are dating you. This will make you feel so honored that they chose you, at the same time making you jealous and feel utterly worthless
  • Do not prioritize their “intimate” relationships. They will ALWAYS prioritize other people (even strangers) over their partner (but claim they gave everything up for you)
  • Have no concept of intimacy
  • They cannot stand public displays of affection
  • They won’t miss you if you are the one missing them. They only miss you when they feel like they aren’t in control of their supply and will act like they miss you to win you back
  • Boast about minor achievements and put it on display to make sure everyone knows how intelligent and altruistic they are (via social media, participation in blogs, and through interactions)
  • They take all of the credit for group work
  • Complete lack of empathy. They can watch you cry with a straight face and let you know how your behavior makes them feel uncomfortable
  • Competitive (they constantly need to be in the lime light)
  • The have a distorted sense of sex (you have to beg for it, they do not care about your needs, they will call you “lustful” (verbatim) for wanting to be touched, and they typically have a history of desiring to be completely celibate). They also seem to be completely grossed out by the female body
  • They typically have a history of porn addiction
  • They HATE conflict
  • The HATE being emasculated. They don’t want to be held to “those antiquated gender norms” (verbatim)
  • They categorize their “friends” into groups based on their value and how they can enhance the cerebral narcissists life. My narc did this, and if his friends knew where they stood in his “quadrants of friendship”, he would have no friends
  • They get depressed at any slight to their ego
  • They cannot handle constructive criticism
  • They are often awkward and clumsy (may have been bullied as a child)
  • They don’t care about the way they dress or personal hygiene
  • They need to be in control
  • Often, they are financially abusive and (even when engaged or married) keep tabs on how much you spend or they spend on you
  • They believe everything has to be fair
  • They do not remember or celebrate special days and never get you a meaningful gift, but expect you to put on a party with all of their friends or do something that makes them feel special
  • They have a justification for every poor behavior they exhibit, and often make you the one with the problem
  • They make you feel clingy and needy for wanting a normal amount of attention
  • They ignore and neglect you (and get mad when you bring it up in conversation)
  • If you do something they don’t like in public, they will let you know how much you embarrassed them and how you are always doing things to make them look bad
  • They will NEVER have your back or support you
  • They will NEVER be excited or happy for you
  • They do not remember the little details that make you, you
  • They can discard you without shedding a single tear
  • They will blame you for all of their failures no matter what
  • They will make you feel crazy for having feelings
  • You will feel the need to always be perfect, to be their intellectual equal. And in doing so, you will lose who you are. You will become a shell of the person you once were
  • You may develop mental health problems, commonly unexplained anxiety. You can also become depressed, develop eating problems, feel like you are constantly living outside your body, you can’t have genuine connections with others (even family), and you can even start to engage in self harm without knowing why (this is all due to something called cognitive dissonance, a survival behavior employed by your brain to protect you from extended time spent in extreme stress)
  • You may experience panic attacks for the first time in your life
  • You constantly feel like you have to ask the narcissist if they love you. They will say yes, but you just don’t quite believe them
  • You will feel alone, isolated, and convinced that nobody likes you and everyone adores the narcissist
  • They will betray your secrets and tell the entire world information you trusted with them
  • They have either no or strained/uncomfortable relationships with their parents
  • They do not value family
  • They will do anything to promote themselves to make themselves look good. This is usually done by putting on the front that they are humbly altruistic while simultaneously brag about all of the good things they do (the charities they volunteer for or donate to). This is especially cunning because most people believe that they are good people, when in all reality, they are doing all of this to be a martyr. They like the glory and admiration that comes by acting as a martyr. Don’t fall for it. My narc once pretended to be homeless. He interacted with the homeless (people who truly need help), ate food with them and asked them personal questions on how they ended up where they were. He took advantage of these people and was surprised when they took offense at his charade. Normal people donate food or money and never mention it again. Then some people actually take time out of their day to volunteer because they care, but you don’t see them using that as a means to gain admirers or solicit attention.
  • They crave constant attention
  • They are primarily emotionally abusive and manipulative. Once, my narcissist slammed his fist down on the bed, signaling to me the threat of hitting me if I did not stop arguing with him (so they can be physically abusive as well)
  • They do not have their own hobbies or traits that make them stand out as a unique individual
  • They put on the illusion that they are, or could be, experts in any field
  • They often get bored of people if they spend too much time with them (which is why the spouse or close friend has to constantly change their personality to fit the narc and receive attention). There are journal entries of my narc where he states that people he calls his close friends bore him because they have run out of things to talk about
Bottom line, cerebral narcs are abusive, cunning, and have people in their lives convinced that they are good people. Good people don’t destroy other people without batting an eye. Please escape if you can. They will ruin you inside and out. Do not stay friends, remove yourself completely from their lives. It will save you years of emotional turmoil and silent suffering. I am sharing what I know because it has been reassuring that I am not the only one out there who has undergone this experience. It has been over a year and I still suffer from the mental scars, but I am in a much better place than I was. I have myself back.
 
The following are all of the traits (some verbatim) that I experienced being married to a cerebral narcissist.

  • An insatiable need to be intellectually superior
  • Puts on the illusion of embodying philosophical constructs to put themselves above everyone else, especially people they claim to be close to (and will impose those ideologies on their supply)
  • Demeaning behavior toward the success of others (especially their supply, whether it be a spouse or close friend(s)). They trivialize the success of others and exaggerate their own successes
  • Arrogant
  • Believe they are obligated to “share their life and light with everyone” (verbatim), even complete strangers
  • They will love bomb you, tell you “I love you” very early on, claim you are their soulmate and their intellectual equal
  • They will tell you that their ex was stupid, ignorant, and intellectually beneath them
  • They will foster jealousy by spending time with women that they often fantasized of dating, but instead are dating you. This will make you feel so honored that they chose you, at the same time making you jealous and feel utterly worthless
  • Do not prioritize their “intimate” relationships. They will ALWAYS prioritize other people (even strangers) over their partner (but claim they gave everything up for you)
  • Have no concept of intimacy
  • They cannot stand public displays of affection
  • They won’t miss you if you are the one missing them. They only miss you when they feel like they aren’t in control of their supply and will act like they miss you to win you back
  • Boast about minor achievements and put it on display to make sure everyone knows how intelligent and altruistic they are (via social media, participation in blogs, and through interactions)
  • They take all of the credit for group work
  • Complete lack of empathy. They can watch you cry with a straight face and let you know how your behavior makes them feel uncomfortable
  • Competitive (they constantly need to be in the lime light)
  • The have a distorted sense of sex (you have to beg for it, they do not care about your needs, they will call you “lustful” (verbatim) for wanting to be touched, and they typically have a history of desiring to be completely celibate). They also seem to be completely grossed out by the female body
  • They typically have a history of porn addiction
  • They HATE conflict
  • The HATE being emasculated. They don’t want to be held to “those antiquated gender norms” (verbatim)
  • They categorize their “friends” into groups based on their value and how they can enhance the cerebral narcissists life. My narc did this, and if his friends knew where they stood in his “quadrants of friendship”, he would have no friends
  • They get depressed at any slight to their ego
  • They cannot handle constructive criticism
  • They are often awkward and clumsy (may have been bullied as a child)
  • They don’t care about the way they dress or personal hygiene
  • They need to be in control
  • Often, they are financially abusive and (even when engaged or married) keep tabs on how much you spend or they spend on you
  • They believe everything has to be fair
  • They do not remember or celebrate special days and never get you a meaningful gift, but expect you to put on a party with all of their friends or do something that makes them feel special
  • They have a justification for every poor behavior they exhibit, and often make you the one with the problem
  • They make you feel clingy and needy for wanting a normal amount of attention
  • They ignore and neglect you (and get mad when you bring it up in conversation)
  • If you do something they don’t like in public, they will let you know how much you embarrassed them and how you are always doing things to make them look bad
  • They will NEVER have your back or support you
  • They will NEVER be excited or happy for you
  • They do not remember the little details that make you, you
  • They can discard you without shedding a single tear
  • They will blame you for all of their failures no matter what
  • They will make you feel crazy for having feelings
  • You will feel the need to always be perfect, to be their intellectual equal. And in doing so, you will lose who you are. You will become a shell of the person you once were
  • You may develop mental health problems, commonly unexplained anxiety. You can also become depressed, develop eating problems, feel like you are constantly living outside your body, you can’t have genuine connections with others (even family), and you can even start to engage in self harm without knowing why (this is all due to something called cognitive dissonance, a survival behavior employed by your brain to protect you from extended time spent in extreme stress)
  • You may experience panic attacks for the first time in your life
  • You constantly feel like you have to ask the narcissist if they love you. They will say yes, but you just don’t quite believe them
  • You will feel alone, isolated, and convinced that nobody likes you and everyone adores the narcissist
  • They will betray your secrets and tell the entire world information you trusted with them
  • They have either no or strained/uncomfortable relationships with their parents
  • They do not value family
  • They will do anything to promote themselves to make themselves look good. This is usually done by putting on the front that they are humbly altruistic while simultaneously brag about all of the good things they do (the charities they volunteer for or donate to). This is especially cunning because most people believe that they are good people, when in all reality, they are doing all of this to be a martyr. They like the glory and admiration that comes by acting as a martyr. Don’t fall for it. My narc once pretended to be homeless. He interacted with the homeless (people who truly need help), ate food with them and asked them personal questions on how they ended up where they were. He took advantage of these people and was surprised when they took offense at his charade. Normal people donate food or money and never mention it again. Then some people actually take time out of their day to volunteer because they care, but you don’t see them using that as a means to gain admirers or solicit attention.
  • They crave constant attention
  • They are primarily emotionally abusive and manipulative. Once, my narcissist slammed his fist down on the bed, signaling to me the threat of hitting me if I did not stop arguing with him (so they can be physically abusive as well)
  • They do not have their own hobbies or traits that make them stand out as a unique individual
  • They put on the illusion that they are, or could be, experts in any field
  • They often get bored of people if they spend too much time with them (which is why the spouse or close friend has to constantly change their personality to fit the narc and receive attention). There are journal entries of my narc where he states that people he calls his close friends bore him because they have run out of things to talk about
Bottom line, cerebral narcs are abusive, cunning, and have people in their lives convinced that they are good people. Good people don’t destroy other people without batting an eye. Please escape if you can. They will ruin you inside and out. Do not stay friends, remove yourself completely from their lives. It will save you years of emotional turmoil and silent suffering. I am sharing what I know because it has been reassuring that I am not the only one out there who has undergone this experience. It has been over a year and I still suffer from the mental scars, but I am in a much better place than I was. I have myself back.
It is much easier to extract narcissistic supply through your body than through your mind. Roasties are a grade A example of this, and so all their bitching about narcissism is easily attributable to projective identification.
 
It is much easier to extract narcissistic supply through your body than through your mind. Roasties are a grade A example of this, and so all their bitching about narcissism is easily attributable to projective identification.
I don't know what half of that means but I vehemently agree
 
I don't know what half of that means but I vehemently agree
You copypasta'd a roastie bitching about her cerebral narcissist husband (an intellectual who's averse to physical sex, and leverages his intellect rather than his body to get attention from others).

Somatic narcissism (leveraging the appeal of your body to get other people to like you and have sex with you) is a much more effective strategy than cerebral narcissism, however, and roasties are the most likely people to be able to engage in it.

Hence a lot of roasties who bitch about narcissists are really bitching about themselves, and projecting their own unfavorable qualities onto other people. As they age, they are more likely to be rustled at the cerebral narcissist presumably because as their looks fade, they gain intellectual pretensions as a compensation for this, and are invariably disappointed in interactions with men who are smarter than them.
 
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You copypasta'd a roastie bitching about her cerebral narcissist husband (an intellectual who's averse to the body and sex, and leverages his intellect to get attention from others).
I did tbh :feelshaha:

Didn't know she was talking about her husband because I skimmed it ngl. Jfl he just so happened to be machiavellian and dark triad
Somatic narcissism (leveraging the appeal of your body to get other people to like you and have sex with you) is a much more effective strategy than cerebral narcissism, however, and roasties are the most likely people to be able to engage in it.
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Hence a lot of roasties who bitch about narcissists are really bitching about themselves, and projecting their own unfavorable qualities onto other people. As they age, they are more likely to be rustled at the cerebral narcissist presumably because as their looks fade, they gain intellectual pretensions as a compensation for this, and are invariably disappointed in interactions with men who are smarter than them.
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