Discussion "Making not having sex your identity is pathetic"

[gymletethnicel]

Often see the claim that one should not identify as incel, or engage in our communities because it is pathetic and that it is much better to not make your identity related to inceldom. Instead you should focus on hobbies. I wholeheartedly disagree with this viewpoint.

Hobbies and such are temporary coping mechanisms. Almost everything in our life is temporary. You might be interested in playing guitar for 3-4 years and then you go ahead and do something else. Even if you do keep busy with something for a long time, it will end. This is different from inceldom, inceldom is often a permanent state, which cannot simply be changed.

My hobbies change overtime, my political beliefs slightly change with time, my wealth changes with time, my opinions of different subjects change with time. Everything is bound to change, except for one thing, my inability to experience intimacy. This is a permanent state because I have no control over the way women perceive my genetics, they are what they are and they are insufficient.

That's why the "incel community" is the best place to be for me. Inceldom plays a significant role in my entire life, from my teenage years to however long I will live and it is not something I have control over either. I cannot choose to not be incel.

 

[copemaxx9002]

no it isn't

sex is literally the meaning of life

life exists through it and revolves around it

 

[based_meme]

I cannot choose to not be incel.

Anymore than we can choose our own genetics.

 

[Moroccancel2-]

no it isn't

sex is literally the meaning of life

life exists through it and revolves around it

Life has no meaning. That would be giving a philosophical and metaphysical context by extension to life.

But as human beings, parasites par excellence, we are programmed to want to reproduce and the foids to reproduce with whoever they think is the best match.


View: https://youtu.be/mgS1Lwr8gq8?si=vkUk-QyrHoS3sCMu

 

[based_meme]

Life has no meaning.

Maybe. But it does have purpose, and meaning and purpose are often synonymous. We also assign meaning to things, so naturally, life's meaning is what we can give it.

 

[CantEscapeYourFate]

Meanwhile everything on social media, music, movies, video games, and real life revolves around sex.

 

[Therapywasaaste]

That's like saying "Gays shouldn't be part of their community because their way of sex should not be their entire identity."

It's part of who someone is that they didn't choose.

 

[Moroccancel2-]

Maybe. But it does have purpose, and meaning and purpose are often synonymous. We also assign meaning to things, so naturally, life's meaning is what we can give it.

No greater purpose, no greater meaning. That's a rationalization. The point is that we are neurally programmed to want to reproduce and at a stage where monogamy and other aspects of the social superstructure are eliminated, most male mammals and animals in general do not reproduce (because they cannot)

Sex (or rather, the genuine attraction of the foids towards us) is a cope, a cope we cannot have but still a cope. Death is the only nature of life and reproducing, the cope against it.

 

[NeverHadAChanceTard]

sex is important for your mental health, not having sex will destroy mental health, also reproduction is a transformation event, it changes you from a boy to a man. incels will never experience that growth, we are stuck in boyhood for as long as we dont overcome this wall. we need to reproduce to metamorphize in to our next stage.

the stagnation of life is what drives most of us insane

 

[oofy]

Meanwhile everything on social media, music, movies, video games, and real life revolves around sex.

We eat, we shit, piss, talk to others for dopamine, fuck for serotonin , and we die. Without access to these things you aren’t living properly

 

[THE TRUE DIGLET]

It's part of who someone is that they didn't choose.

as if fags aren't homo by life experience and choice

 

[faded]

no it isn't

sex is literally the meaning of life

life exists through it and revolves around it

 

[Touch Em 2x Tommy]

Life consists of constantly finding copes until we die. Especially for niggas like us since we will never have the chance to have children, which would give us a purpose to continue living.

Religion is the ultimate cope because it gives you a quest that only ends when you naturally pass away from this earth.

Being incel is permanent but its not something that'll keep you occupied until you die. Your changing hobbies and interests is whats gonna hold you over for the rest of your lives. Or whatever religion you decide to practice.

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

over for Encratitecels

 

[Pancakecel]

Inceldom is much broader than just not having sex.

 

[Slut_Annihilator298]

Inceldom, indeed, is an eternal state. It's a genetic death sentence, ordered in the court of your parents' genetic info. Sentenced to 60-80 years of loneliness and being cucked by your oneitis, left out in your friend groups/group, and being unable to get a job due to bad genetics.

 

[NorthernWind]

Inceldom, indeed, is an eternal state. It's a genetic death sentence, ordered in the court of your parents' genetic info. Sentenced to 60-80 years of loneliness and being cucked by your oneitis, left out in your friend groups/group, and being unable to get a job due to bad genetics.

It's still possible to inflict damage on this clown world.

 

[Friezacel]

Making having sex your identity is pathetic as well. Foids literally cant think about anything else than sex

 

[GooberMcKee]

That's like saying "Why are poor people so obsessed over money?"

I never understood why bluepillers always talk about settling with hobbies. Hobbies don't mean anything in the big picture.

Even sex havers know this, take it from this r*ddit comment:

And take it from me, this is bullshit. Loads of average and boring people who aren't passionate about anything get into relationships. I'm a normie who's not particularly passionate about anything and yet I've gotten attention from women, who—guess what—didn't give a shit about my hobbies. At one point I hated myself, my life, and was suicidally depressed and they still wanted to sleep with me. They liked me because they found me attractive and thought I was a good lay. That's it.

People acting like you need to be an enlightened polymath to get laid are blinding themselves to the fundamentally irrational nature of attraction. Being attractive has very little to do with being virtuous or loving life; it's not something that's doled out on merit. Rather, it has everything to do with your looks and if they like spending time around you. Your encyclopedic knowledge of movies or whatever isn't gonna get you laid, and the people insisting it does are just trying to blame your bad luck on some personal moral failing rather than admit that sometimes people get dealt a shit hand. Sure some people are personally responsible, but some people just have bad luck, like how some people are born into poverty, because that's just how life is.

Sorry, I feel passionate (heh) about this topic and I could easily have would up an incel or FA or whatever. The reason I didn't was pure, dumb luck and had nothing to do with being passionate or a good person, so it's annoying when I see people push this canard.

 

[AsiaCel]

Meanwhile: PrOUd SlUT

 

[Namtriz912]

These same foids are bimbos, sluts etc yet seem to have a problem with porn or mean comments online.

These fools should go touch grass.

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

Why don't the normies saying this use the same logic on any groups, then? Why aren't the faggots who make their homosexuality their entire identity told that they are pathetic either and that they should focus on hobbies? Why aren't trannies who always talk about being trans told that, hell, I remember when other trannies were shitting on Blaire White for saying that being a tranny should be "what" you are, and not "who" you are, saying that it's just too important for that. Why aren't racecopers, especially left-wing ethnic ones, ever told to stop obsessing over race and just focus on their hobbies, why don't the BLM types and DEI executives ever get told this shit?

Meanwhile: PrOUd SlUT