gymletethnicel
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Often see the claim that one should not identify as incel, or engage in our communities because it is pathetic and that it is much better to not make your identity related to inceldom. Instead you should focus on hobbies. I wholeheartedly disagree with this viewpoint.
Hobbies and such are temporary coping mechanisms. Almost everything in our life is temporary. You might be interested in playing guitar for 3-4 years and then you go ahead and do something else. Even if you do keep busy with something for a long time, it will end. This is different from inceldom, inceldom is often a permanent state, which cannot simply be changed.
My hobbies change overtime, my political beliefs slightly change with time, my wealth changes with time, my opinions of different subjects change with time. Everything is bound to change, except for one thing, my inability to experience intimacy. This is a permanent state because I have no control over the way women perceive my genetics, they are what they are and they are insufficient.
That's why the "incel community" is the best place to be for me. Inceldom plays a significant role in my entire life, from my teenage years to however long I will live and it is not something I have control over either. I cannot choose to not be incel.
Hobbies and such are temporary coping mechanisms. Almost everything in our life is temporary. You might be interested in playing guitar for 3-4 years and then you go ahead and do something else. Even if you do keep busy with something for a long time, it will end. This is different from inceldom, inceldom is often a permanent state, which cannot simply be changed.
My hobbies change overtime, my political beliefs slightly change with time, my wealth changes with time, my opinions of different subjects change with time. Everything is bound to change, except for one thing, my inability to experience intimacy. This is a permanent state because I have no control over the way women perceive my genetics, they are what they are and they are insufficient.
That's why the "incel community" is the best place to be for me. Inceldom plays a significant role in my entire life, from my teenage years to however long I will live and it is not something I have control over either. I cannot choose to not be incel.