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Brutal "Physical attraction only gets your foot in the door. It's your personality that keeps her interested in you"

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Fact: Physical attraction, which is based on looks, is the foundation of an intimate relationship.

:soy: "Ah, but studies show that physical attraction only gets your foot in the door. It's your personality that keeps her interested in you"

Ok, soycuck. But that simply proves my point about the importance of physical attraction.

If Chad wasn't physically attractive, he wouldn't have gotten his "foot in the door" and subsequently, the chance to demonstrate his personality to keep her interested in him.

Once Chad gets his "foot in the door", he has to put in very little effort to demonstrate his good "personality". All he has to do is not be a violent abusive asshole too often.

In fact, Chad doesn't even have to care if his current relationship falls apart because of his bad personality because he's got the looks to effortlessly start a new one. He also has the option to hook up with as many women as he wants without caring enough to commit.

Incels don't have those options because we are outright rejected because of our looks.

When it comes to relationships, a Chad on his worst day is still better off than an incel on his best day.

Countless incels have good personalities but are unable to demonstrate it simply because they are rejected on the basis of their looks. We cannot get our "foot in the door", so there's no question of using our personalities to keep women interested in us. It never began for us.

Even if, by some miracle, an incel with a good personality gets a GF, the whole relationship will hang by a thin thread. The poor incel must constantly walk on egg shells around her to preserve her perception of his "personality", which is literally all he has going for him.

One small slip up and her perception of his "personality" goes up in smoke and it's only a matter of time before she dumps him and goes to be with Chad. In fact, even if the incel is on his best behavior 24x7, he still has to live with the fear that his GF would dump him after a while to go be with Chad, which is inevitable.

Of course, that was just a wildly hypothetical scenario. Incels don't have to worry about being dumped because we're never going to get GFs.

It's over. It never began. It will never begin. Even if it begins, it will be over soon.
 
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Good looking man can be absolute asshole and women will still will want to be with him. All of this "personality" talk is pure gaslighting,
 
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Women downplay the importance of looks all the time. Saying stuff like "I didn't fall in love with his looks" is completely meaningless.

If he was a 4'8 gremlin instead of an average looking 5'9 guy, you would have never dated him. Don't give us the bullshit about looks not mattering. They obviously do. Just because she's not dating a 6'5 male model doesn't mean she would date an ugly turbomanlet. Or a bald guy. Or a guy with a deformed face.
 
Did the soycuck ever say that physical attraction was unimportant?
 
"Physical attraction only gets your foot in the door" - You could have ended the whole post there, you could have the best pERsonality, but if you don't have the foot, you can't get it in the floor.
 
Did the soycuck ever say that physical attraction was unimportant?

No. But he's grossly downplaying the importance of physical attraction, saying it can only get you so far. When in reality, it is the physical attraction that initiated the relationship.

It's like saying "your ticket only gets you into the movie theater. It's how you watch the movie that determines your experience". While technically true, the ticket was the first and most important step in experiencing the movie altogether.
 
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When normies say that they keep foids around with their 'personality,' they mean they keep her around with their bank accounts

Persoynality is not attractive, nobody cares about it
 
That saying is actually blackpilled when you think about
 
Women do not want to.be seen in public with ugly men, they only care how they're perceived by other women. That's all that matters- personality means nothing.
 
Women downplay the importance of looks all the time. Saying stuff like "I didn't fall in love with his looks" is completely meaningless.

If he was a 4'8 gremlin instead of an average looking 5'9 guy, you would have never dated him. Don't give us the bullshit about looks not mattering. They obviously do. Just because she's not dating a 6'5 male model doesn't mean she would date an ugly turbomanlet. Or a bald guy. Or a guy with a deformed face.
It's all cope for them, They don't want to face the fact the main reason they are in relationship with a man is because of his looks. Their ego is too high to accept it
 
It doesn't matter anyway because looks are a massive halo effect. An incel could be the most tender-hearted, funny, considerate boyfriend ever but to a foid he would just be a needy arrogant beta. If you're born with looks any negative trait can be spun into a positive. Women lust over dark triad chads and serial killers so obviously personality is not that big of an indicator in their choices, or from what I've seen from female-based romance novels and erotica, they all enjoy sadistic, abusive men far more than 'nice guys'.
 
Women do not want to.be seen in public with ugly men, they only care how they're perceived by other women. That's all that matters- personality means nothing.
So true. Men are like handbags for them. If your status is low, the woman doesn't want to be seen with you. You could have a heart of gold and a great personality but you'll bring her social value down. Which is all they care about

This is why women are so focused on numbers that measure a man's value. Your height? If it doesn't start with 6 feet tall, you're going to just bring her value down. Your income isn't six figures? No bueno. Your dick is under 6 inches? God forbid her friends find out she dates a guy who doesn't have a big dick.
 
You don't have sex with personality.
Like you don't eat 'spiritually', you eat physically by opening your mouth and putting food in it.
So sex is also a physical act.
 
So true. Men are like handbags for them. If your status is low, the woman doesn't want to be seen with you. You could have a heart of gold and a great personality but you'll bring her social value down. Which is all they care about

This is why women are so focused on numbers that measure a man's value. Your height? If it doesn't start with 6 feet tall, you're going to just bring her value down. Your income isn't six figures? No bueno. Your dick is under 6 inches? God forbid her friends find out she dates a guy who doesn't have a big dick.
I once have read that a female lost enthusiasm to give a handjobs to her boyfriend when she learned that his dick is smaller than average.
Women are extremely concerned with social approval and social standards.
 
some people talk like that and still can't see why sub5 and short men are screwed
 
Fact: Physical attraction, which is based on looks, is the foundation of an intimate relationship.

:soy: "Ah, but studies show that physical attraction only gets your foot in the door. It's your personality that keeps her interested in you"

Ok, soycuck. But that simply proves my point about the importance of physical attraction.

If Chad wasn't physically attractive, he wouldn't have gotten his "foot in the door" and subsequently, the chance to demonstrate his personality to keep her interested in him.

Once Chad gets his "foot in the door", he has to put in very little effort to demonstrate his good "personality". All he has to do is not be a violent abusive asshole too often.

In fact, Chad doesn't even have to care if his current relationship falls apart because of his bad personality because he's got the looks to effortlessly start a new one. He also has the option to hook up with as many women as he wants without caring enough to commit.

Incels don't have those options because we are outright rejected because of our looks.

When it comes to relationships, a Chad on his worst day is still better off than an incel on his best day.

Countless incels have good personalities but are unable to demonstrate it simply because they are rejected on the basis of their looks. We cannot get our "foot in the door", so there's no question of using our personalities to keep women interested in us. It never began for us.

Even if, by some miracle, an incel with a good personality gets a GF, the whole relationship will hang by a thin thread. The poor incel must constantly walk on egg shells around her to preserve her perception of his "personality", which is literally all he has going for him.

One small slip up and her perception of his "personality" goes up in smoke and it's only a matter of time before she dumps him and goes to be with Chad. In fact, even if the incel is on his best behavior 24x7, he still has to live with the fear that his GF would dump him after a while to go be with Chad, which is inevitable.

Of course, that was just a wildly hypothetical scenario. Incels don't have to worry about being dumped because we're never going to get GFs.

It's over. It never began. It will never begin. Even if it begins, it will be over soon.
yes these people are so dumb even their attempts at gas lighting and misdirection COMPLETELY SINK THEIR OWN POINT AND CORROBORATE THE BLACKPILL, that its all leveraged on lookism.

On the statement, "Ah, but studies show that physical attraction only gets your foot in the door. It's your personality that keeps her interested in you".

LITERALLY BY USING LOGIC ALONE FROM THIS STATEMENT YOU CAN DEDUCE: THEREFORE IF THERE IS NO PHYSICAL ATTRACTION YOU CANT GET YOUR FOOT IN THE DOOR IN THE FIRST PLACE, THEIR OWN STATEMENT PUTS LOOKS FIRST BEFORE THE PERSONALITY IS EVEN MENTIONED.

Therefore your personality cant induce her being interested in you, because the attraction HAS COME BEFORE THE PERSONALITY IN YOUR OWN STATEMENT, AND IS PURELY BEING USED TO MAINTAIN THE ORIGINAL OPENING OF THE DOOR WITH LOOKS.

THESE PEOPLE ARE FUCKING BRAIN DEAD
 
All he has to do is not be a violent abusive asshole too often.
Dude,

those "violent abusive assholes"

are not masturbating themselves to death, unlike us, and also the church kids, choir boys, GoodGuys™, oofie doofie, betabuxxers in-the-making etc.

In fact,

Foids are highly attracted to violence and antisocial behavior. The criminals, thugs, assholes etc. are the most highly sought-after sexhavers. In fact, wife-killers are the most written-to inmates in any jail.

Foids get sexually aroused by domestic violence, spankings etc. What they find disgusting and unattractive is men who display pro-social, cooperative, friendly demeanor --- those are sent to the friendzone.

If civilization is to endure, it behooves us Marxist-Rodgerists to seize the means of reproduction, end female agency and personhood, and send all foids to underground breeding barns.

Chads, foids, or normies will blindly drive civilization into the abyss like lemmings, they'll nver make the move towards a foidless society. It is up to us.
 
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Personality is cope it means fucking nothing
 
It doesn't matter anyway because looks are a massive halo effect. An incel could be the most tender-hearted, funny, considerate boyfriend ever but to a foid he would just be a needy arrogant beta. If you're born with looks any negative trait can be spun into a positive. Women lust over dark triad chads and serial killers so obviously personality is not that big of an indicator in their choices, or from what I've seen from female-based romance novels and erotica, they all enjoy sadistic, abusive men far more than 'nice guys'.
 

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