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This goes for other things like videos games and anime and movies. If the average guy was having a happy life he wouldn't be jerking it to other people having sex.
 
Porn is an addiction so it's tough to stop, but without a doubt it would be a lot easier with a satisfactory sexual life with your wife.
 
Porn is an addiction so it's tough to stop, but without a doubt it would be a lot easier with a satisfactory sexual life with your wife.

its not an addiction.
 
Why not? Of course it is. It hooks you pretty easily. There are people that prefer it than real sex even.

ancedote, theyre all sexless incels.
 
Would still fap to hentai
 
Same with camwhores
 
This is why I like the existence of porn, prostitutes, strippers and sexy MTV videos as it is an imprint of the large sums of men NOT having sex at all.

You think if we were geting our dicks wet every night anyone would give a crap about public displays of sexuality? Of course not.

Oh hi IncelTears painting us as some minority anomaly!
 
Same with camwhores
It's worse with them since men get no affection so they attach themselves to the camgirl since it feels like she's talking to them.
This is why I like the existence of porn, prostitutes, strippers and sexy MTV videos as it is an imprint of the large sums of men NOT having sex at all.

You think if we were geting our dicks wet every night anyone would give a crap about public displays of sexuality? Of course not.

Oh hi IncelTears painting us as some minority anomaly!
Even on here guys think the average man is doing fine and we're just subhumans.
 
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ancedote, theyre all sexless incels.
It's one thing to use porn because you feel horny and doesn't have the possibility to have sex, but there are people who fap several times a day. Even when they're not even horny or "charged" enough with sperm they do it.

It is addictive 100%.
 
I've tried to kick to the habit, but still can't. I even mumbled to myself that I was a cuck last time I finished. :cryfeels:
 
It's one thing to use porn because you feel horny and doesn't have the possibility to have sex, but there are people who fap several times a day. Even when they're not even horny or "charged" enough with sperm they do it.

It is addictive 100%.

Those are addicts who have actual issues regarding it. If I had a girlfriend who was fucking me frequently. Why the fuck would I care about bitches who aren't fucking me?
 
This goes for other things like videos games and anime and movies. If the average guy was having a happy life he wouldn't be jerking it to other people having sex.
I could say this is true but it also is false. Reason why porn usage is so high is because of what you said but also because it requires no effort. Sure if by your logic everyone were given a happy life, then there should be lower usage of porn. Although, this isn't to be the case because there are still married couples where the husband with the wife as an exception, does become glued to their simple addiction. Why? because porn is really the equivalent of a hard drug and has more quality than simple sex, thus a large rebound effect.

This also applies to other avenues of life, when given a simplified version that is of similar or more quality, and it's only the case because your dopamine finds it's best to do the easy thing because of how easy it was to do it, rather than what was hard, which is why if given a "happy" life when you've experienced what porn and other mediums are like, would only bring you more to those easier mediums because the dopamine knows they require no effort, which explains why most people end up watching TV as they get older because it's the easy reward they assume for the hard work they had done. Therefore, when the dopamine knows the easy rewards but notices you haven't engaged in them, it will pull as many excuses and is the reason for arguments to break as well auto stress, anxiety and depression to occur, in order to achieve what it needs to get.

You can't have the happy life if you have the easy addictions in place. What you need is to not let them control you.
Those are addicts who have actual issues regarding it. If I had a girlfriend who was fucking me frequently. Why the fuck would I care about bitches who aren't fucking me?
you're saying this without having a gf, I will be lauging at your face if it turns out to be the opposite.
 
Why not? Of course it is. It hooks you pretty easily. There are people that prefer it than real sex even.
dude if I had cute loli blow me do you think I'd need a second round on xhamster?
 
Even on here guys think the average man is doing fine and we're just subhumans.

Sorry to sound like a broken record but when 95% of foids surveyed said they would only fuck less than 5% of men presented on online dating, I'm sure the reported 23% of men not having sex were actually the more honest male respondents.

The problem of male incel is higher than being reported or admitted.
 
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Porn is an addiction so it's tough to stop, but without a doubt it would be a lot easier with a satisfactory sexual life with your wife.
 
Porn is an addiction so it's tough to stop, but without a doubt it would be a lot easier with a satisfactory sexual life with your wife.

I'm not sure.

Every single guy I've talked to that's either married or in a relationship, where this topic has come up (not that I seek out this topic, but it does come up), every single one has told me they still struggle with porn and do it daily.

Moreover, I've talked to people who have been in 12 step programs for lust before (because it can get bad, really bad for some people), and they said that sex made it way, WAY worse.

Despite this, I do think that what drives me to porn is not so much my desires, but just the feeling of loneliness and the escapism of a reality I know I don't live in.
 
I'm not sure.

Every single guy I've talked to that's either married or in a relationship, where this topic has come up (not that I seek out this topic, but it does come up), every single one has told me they still struggle with porn and do it daily.

Moreover, I've talked to people who have been in 12 step programs for lust before (because it can get bad, really bad for some people), and they said that sex made it way, WAY worse.

Despite this, I do think that what drives me to porn is not so much my desires, but just the feeling of loneliness and the escapism of a reality I know I don't live in.
It's different from drugs and stuff like that because it's based on something that our bodies naturally crave, even before taking the first "dose", but it can still evolve to an addiction. Sometimes people are not horny at all and still wanna do it.
 
Porn is an addiction so it's tough to stop, but without a doubt it would be a lot easier with a satisfactory sexual life with your wife.
If porn is an addition, so is eating every day because it feels bad when you starve.
 
This goes for other things like videos games and anime and movies. If the average guy was having a happy life he wouldn't be jerking it to other people having sex.
 
@Uglyme
It's worse with them since men get no affection so they attach themselves to the camgirl since it feels like she's talking to them.

I read on a camgirl support website that they hang chad pictures behind the camera to pretend that they are talking to them.
JFL at watching them and thinking that they are interacting with you. :feelskek:
The delusion they must have in order to believe they will be noticed someday.
 
Porn addiction is cortisol induced, just like binge eating. They are driven by underlying problems. That's why NoFap will never work, it will just increase cortisol levels.
 
Porn addiction is cortisol induced, just like binge eating. They are driven by underlying problems. That's why NoFap will never work, it will just increase cortisol levels.
Cortisol induced? Tell me more.
 

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