It's kind of sad that modern feminism has so completely brainwashed her, and every other woman. Modern feminism HATES femininity. There are many possible reasons why - the most obvious being that unattractive women are in charge of feminism. Regardless, this truth should be plain to any observer: feminism hates femininity and so it tells young women that all femininity is oppression.
...but most women remain heterosexual ... so they still want to get fucked by chad ... but how can they compete with other women if they can't use femininity?
The answer is: they use sexuality ... which is a different thing from femininity. Most people don't even remember this - that's how thorough is the grip that feminism has on our society.
Sexuality organs and how you use them: the boobs, the holes, the uterus. And thanks to feminism, the only option for women is to advertise those things (to chad - not to you). This poor reddit girl is brainwashed because this is all she's ever known.
Femininity is the behaviors that set you apart from men: nurturing, softness, sweetness.
And while sexuality makes men want to fuck you, femininity makes men want to protect you. This poor reddit girl has never experienced that, and never will, and would probably be offended (she's been told to be offended) at the mere suggestion that she try to be feminine in order to garner protective, affectionate, devotion from men.