Being a 40+ year old incel is very different from being an incel in your 20s and 30s.
If you're in your late 20s and early 30s, being single as an incel is bearable at least in terms of how your family, friends and peers perceive you. What I mean is that at best, they assume you have that special someone, because in normie world, "looks don't matter". Or if they know you're single, they'll chalk it up to you being busy with college or work, and that you still have time or whatever.
But after 40, being single as an incel is something entirely different. Because at that stage you'll not only have to cope with your own suffering as an incel, but will also have to start dealing with how people look at you, especially if they're family and close acquaintances. Even if they don't say anything to you, and even if they're "nice" to you can be 100% sure that they see you as defective.
People close to you will assume there's something wrong with you, that you're suffering from an irreversible medical condition that prevents you from functioning physically like a normal male. You become an object of pity to them. I've experienced this several times in my life and I can tell you it's the most humiliating and depressing thing that a man can experience. Because even though you're normal biologically speaking you cannot function normally because of the way you look.
Casual acquaintances ,like your workplace colleagues and your neighbors, will also assume you have a medical problem. But they'll also imagine the worst about you, that you're single because you're impotent. Or gay. Or worse...
Women that you interact with in any setting will instinctively sense that there's something off with you and will want nothing to do with you.
I've experienced all of the above.
Simply put, age 40 is the "event horizon" for incels. Once that point is reached, there's no turning back. It truly is over. You're finished as a man. T here's no light at the end of the tunnel. In fact, it keeps getting darker and darker as you go. Because after 40, you still have another 40 years of isolation and loneliness to endure, along with the various tribulations of old age.
If you're in your late 20s and early 30s, being single as an incel is bearable at least in terms of how your family, friends and peers perceive you. What I mean is that at best, they assume you have that special someone, because in normie world, "looks don't matter". Or if they know you're single, they'll chalk it up to you being busy with college or work, and that you still have time or whatever.
But after 40, being single as an incel is something entirely different. Because at that stage you'll not only have to cope with your own suffering as an incel, but will also have to start dealing with how people look at you, especially if they're family and close acquaintances. Even if they don't say anything to you, and even if they're "nice" to you can be 100% sure that they see you as defective.
People close to you will assume there's something wrong with you, that you're suffering from an irreversible medical condition that prevents you from functioning physically like a normal male. You become an object of pity to them. I've experienced this several times in my life and I can tell you it's the most humiliating and depressing thing that a man can experience. Because even though you're normal biologically speaking you cannot function normally because of the way you look.
Casual acquaintances ,like your workplace colleagues and your neighbors, will also assume you have a medical problem. But they'll also imagine the worst about you, that you're single because you're impotent. Or gay. Or worse...
Women that you interact with in any setting will instinctively sense that there's something off with you and will want nothing to do with you.
I've experienced all of the above.
Simply put, age 40 is the "event horizon" for incels. Once that point is reached, there's no turning back. It truly is over. You're finished as a man. T here's no light at the end of the tunnel. In fact, it keeps getting darker and darker as you go. Because after 40, you still have another 40 years of isolation and loneliness to endure, along with the various tribulations of old age.
