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What is LTR?
Abbreviation for Long Term Relationship.
You are not wrong my friend.
Assortive mating died, in case you didn’t notice. There is little hope for average guys today.
A healthy, average to slightly above average man, infused with the testosterone that God have him, even one who applies and improves himself, who seeks a sex life, has unappetizing options available.
A. He can deceitfully purport to desire a monogamous long-term relationship and betabux so as to get sex from women he is attracted to. But this won't come until he is above 35 with the women being of a similar age.
B. He can honestly communicate that he has no desire for a monogamous long-term relationship and pursue casual relationships. Average women on his looksmatch level will have no interest in this with him, as they can easily have casual sexual relationships with top-tier men. If he does this, he will only be able to have sex with obese women. Women who “are content, even happy, to partake in less formalised occasional relationships that will lead to nothing enduring, for example friends with benefits and simple hook ups”, will only do so with men more physically attractive than they are. In casual relationships, women mate upward, and men downward in attractiveness hierarchies. Assortive “hookups” are not terribly common.
C. He can get sex through entering into a monogamous long-term relationship. And run the very real risk of getting locked in with a partner who has had her pair-bonding abilities completely compromised by her memories of previous relationships with more physically attractive Chads (google the “alpha widow” phenomenon if you must), and who will soon either deny him sex or provide rationed-out starfish relations.
D. He can pay prostitues for it and lead a life of being the lonewolf.
No I agree. In order to avoid getting cucked and not feeling like they wasted time committing short term relationships and hookups would be the best option for guys, but the problem is women only allow for that with attractive men.
The problem that is coming in the next few years to decades is when enough of these women as they get older realize that attractive men only see them as short term and won't commit to them while other women keep telling them to raise their standards.
They are going to look to pass the blame onto unattractive males who again did nothing to them.
You already see this with the millenial generation of burnt out foids taking part in identity politics and fourth wave feminism by posting hashtags like #killallmen and talking about how there is a war on women on social media. Single women are a key part of many identity politics leftist groups and a driving force from #metoo.
Redpillers would say it is because these women feel resentful that not enough men are hitting on them but blackpillers would correctly point out that women feel resentful because chad is still not committing to them and giving them a world they feel they deserve and so since they can't easily challenge chad, they but blanket blame on men.
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