There's literally nothing I can think of that's more cringe than some genetic dead end socially outcasted low status loser trying to "self improve" to fit into society. It's like they're so far off the mark I don't even know where to begin with them. The average person, and even the above average, just exist and the things that you consider "normal" just happen to them. No high schooler ever had to *self improve" to get a girlfriend, he just existed, thought it would be cool and fun to play sports, and a girl was attracted to him and they gravitated towards each other. There's no thought out into any of this, these things just happened through the natural flow of life, no "self improvement" necessary. That's what happens when you're not a genetic dead end mentally ill freak, you don't ever find yourself one night lying in bed alone wondering why you don't have a single friend or you've never kissed a girl at 23 years old. You don't devise a plan to stop touching your cock for six months in order to look a girl in the eye. You just exist, you go with the societal flow, and you end up with a wife, a nice job, a house, and some kids. If you missed out on this flow, it's probably because you're complete genetic shit.
The amount of mental gymnastics it takes to cope with this is astronomical. I’ve seen them with my own eyes. They just CANNOT understand it. To them, the idea that having a girlfriend is supposed to come naturally with no self-improvements or “hard-work” is so unbelievably foreign, so propagandistic, so preposterous that I can’t help but laugh.
Of course, a lot of it is one gigantic ploy by none other than women. After all, they were the ones who initiated it, the norman just follows. Why does that happen to be the case? Well, it’s simple.
First off, you need to understand, anything that’s incorporated with women and YOU complaining is an issue. A gazillion abhorrent misandristic sociopathic narcissistic hypocritical posts on r/FemaleDatingStrategy will NEVER go on match with one thread of you complaining. Ever. Women can do no wrong sweetie. They are angelic beings who suffer greatly everyday for doing nothing but scrolling through TikTok and making fun of short men; have some fucking dignity and show some respect.
You being a(/an unattractive) man is an automatic problem. You being a man who complains? About NOT being able to get a girlfriend? Now, THAT is just pushing it sweetie, that’s double standards, YIKES.
Second, it’s again, telling them what they don’t want to hear. They can’t stand it. It’s the truth, yet it harms women, because how else are they gonna conceal their one and only ultimate power AKA sexual power: the ability to reject men deemed unattractive, ability to sell out their body, etc.
So of course, how do they combat this? Denial, deception, gaslighting, virtue-signaling, you know the rest.
