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Edmund_Kemper
Disregard my larping efforts. I can’t change it.
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NT people are beyond me. They manage to easily do anything in life. They easily make tons of friends and have many social opportunities and easily get relationships and sex. They don't even get taught how in school. They figure out it easily on their own like how to figure out breathing or peeing. What's easy as pie for them is impossible for me. How the fuck do they make friends? At uni, I join clubs and I try to talk to people whenever I'm lucky enough to get to a social event. I meet some guys and we have good conversations and sometimes even have something in common. But then when we get numbers, I get left on delivered all the time. For some reason, NT people manage to make friends easily. They join clubs and try to talk to people and make friends on sight. Even my sister instantly made friends as soon as she moved to another city for her master's.
I joined a transfer discord server for transfer students at my uni back in august and they all were anonymous, used pseudonyms and we couldn't know what they looked like, and they all posted every 5 seconds and I could only sometimes post, which caused it to be hard to post enough to connect with people on there. I met some at a transfer student party the admin threw and I got left on delivered by one and made brief acquintances with a couple of them for about 2 weeks but one ghosted me and I remember one got frustrated or impatient with my anxiety (which i had over norwooding but at least rogaine foam is helping) and then a little later when i asked people on discord about going to some place and then DMed him about it, he got mad at me saying i was "too pushy". I couldn't post on there on discord because i was busy and everyone else posted every 5 seconds so pretty soon everyone formed their peer groups there and got cliquey. too little too late.
Every time i thought I would become friends with someone I'd get left on delivered sooner or later. Maybe a couple texts would happen at best. Everyone else easily makes friends on sight. Even my normie friend (the only friend I have left from HS or the first 18 years of my life in general) is now NT, his ADHD symptoms declined by young adulthood and he's now in grad school, making tons of new friends, sometimes whom he meets at bars or other places (or class). He also made tons of friends at uni (he graduated 2020). Even one of his best friends from there is a blond stacy and he told me how awesome it is to have a platonic female friend (he also has a crush on her but then decided he wants to just be friends with her).
I might be really high-functioning and have decent social skills, but i can't blend in with NT people to save my life. No matter what I do to mask my symptoms, some curse or spell walks outta me into the souls of NT people and makes them put me in the acquintances-zone at best. I made only 1 friend so far, and he's not diagnosed and doesn't know, but i have a feeling he's autistic but he's super high-functioning (more than me), has very good social skills and is a high-tier normie (although almost a chadlite). he also has a brunette stacy girlfriend he met in HS (they went to community college together and transferred to uni and cohabit at an apartment 10 min drive away). HS is the easiest time to find a GF.
@ordinaryotaku @PPEcel @-BrettyBoy- thoughts?
I joined a transfer discord server for transfer students at my uni back in august and they all were anonymous, used pseudonyms and we couldn't know what they looked like, and they all posted every 5 seconds and I could only sometimes post, which caused it to be hard to post enough to connect with people on there. I met some at a transfer student party the admin threw and I got left on delivered by one and made brief acquintances with a couple of them for about 2 weeks but one ghosted me and I remember one got frustrated or impatient with my anxiety (which i had over norwooding but at least rogaine foam is helping) and then a little later when i asked people on discord about going to some place and then DMed him about it, he got mad at me saying i was "too pushy". I couldn't post on there on discord because i was busy and everyone else posted every 5 seconds so pretty soon everyone formed their peer groups there and got cliquey. too little too late.
Every time i thought I would become friends with someone I'd get left on delivered sooner or later. Maybe a couple texts would happen at best. Everyone else easily makes friends on sight. Even my normie friend (the only friend I have left from HS or the first 18 years of my life in general) is now NT, his ADHD symptoms declined by young adulthood and he's now in grad school, making tons of new friends, sometimes whom he meets at bars or other places (or class). He also made tons of friends at uni (he graduated 2020). Even one of his best friends from there is a blond stacy and he told me how awesome it is to have a platonic female friend (he also has a crush on her but then decided he wants to just be friends with her).
I might be really high-functioning and have decent social skills, but i can't blend in with NT people to save my life. No matter what I do to mask my symptoms, some curse or spell walks outta me into the souls of NT people and makes them put me in the acquintances-zone at best. I made only 1 friend so far, and he's not diagnosed and doesn't know, but i have a feeling he's autistic but he's super high-functioning (more than me), has very good social skills and is a high-tier normie (although almost a chadlite). he also has a brunette stacy girlfriend he met in HS (they went to community college together and transferred to uni and cohabit at an apartment 10 min drive away). HS is the easiest time to find a GF.
@ordinaryotaku @PPEcel @-BrettyBoy- thoughts?