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What is your coping mechanisms?

Requiemofanincel

Requiemofanincel

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How do you guys cope with being an incel? Do you devote more time to your interests and passions? Do you work more? Besides anger and resentment how do you cope with the fact that women find us unattractive and we're going to be alone for the rest of our lives.

I have made a mends with the fact that I bombed at the genetic lottery. You can't blame women for bonking Chad's just like you can't blame a dog for cleaning it's gentials with its tongue. For me how I cope is with my pursuit of spiritual and intellectual enrichment and enlightenment though video games, literature, and otaku culture.
 
Fantasizing about how I’m going to rope

That’s about it
 
Watching anime (especially Gundamshit) and building models are my two biggest copes, but I find taking a walk at night in the city to be kind of relaxing as well.
 
If you were going to kill yourself you would have done it already. So the fact that you're still alive means that deep down you're hoping for a redemption arc.
 
Watching anime (especially Gundamshit) and building models are my two biggest copes, but I find taking a walk at night in the city to be kind of relaxing as well.

I watch a lot of anime when I'm not working I also pay for the occasional prostitute and confide in my friends and yes some of them are female but I'm not attracted to any of them.
 
I don't know about being an incel, I just deal with that fact I guess. But being lonely causes a lot of horniness, so jacking off for that. Usually 2-3 times a day.
 
I watch a lot of anime when I'm not working I also pay for the occasional prostitute and confide in my friends and yes some of them are female but I'm not attracted to any of them.
>female friends
failed normie or soy detected jfl
 
I don't know about being an incel, I just deal with that fact I guess. But being lonely causes a lot of horniness, so jacking off for that. Usually 2-3 times a day.

When I was unemployed I used to have the time to beat my meat like that...now if I can jerk off once a day that's a feat.
Food is a good cope

I'm diabetic so I can't eat the food I used to eat.
 
Sleep, unironically, especially when sweet dreams follow it, i no longer feel upset about waking up and realising it was just a dream
 
Deep depression will drive someone to dream big and then wake up and realize your world is a small dark corner.
 
Nature, music, literature, movies, video games, incels.co, fapping and porn.
Now, I rarely watch movies and listen to music with lyrics because pretty much every damned movie, every damned song is about a love story so it's always getting harder for me to find good movies without stupid love stories or globalist, multicultralist agendas ( I don't give a fuck anymore about race and ethnicity but it's really annoying to notice that (((some people)))) want to brainwash me as if my IQ is below 70 jfl)
 
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i focus on money and how to make more money. its a good cope and keeps me from being depressed or having anxiety.
 
Cope with fucking ur mother
:feelzez:
 
Massive amounts of alcohol in any form.
 
Calisthenics, vidya, anime, my waifu and this forum tbh.
 
Food, formerly alcohol, daydreaming, pacing, shitposting
 
read books, study languages for travelmaxing, work out and sleep. also go to work. sometimes play games n watch movies but too depressed to do that, i can convince myself that studying and working will hopefully allow me to leave the west.
 
Daydreaming, pacing while daydreaming, fapping, food, incels.co, reading, listening to podcasts, euro truck simulator 2
 
Watching anime (especially Gundamshit) and building models are my two biggest copes, but I find taking a walk at night in the city to be kind of relaxing as well.

Wow finally a fellow gundamcel and he has a based Char Aznable avatar!

I cope with anime, atm rewatching GITS: Stand alone complex for my third time!
 
Wow finally a fellow gundamcel and he has a based Char Aznable avatar!

I cope with anime, atm rewatching GITS: Stand alone complex for my third time!
Based Full Frontal avatar my friend, glad to see a fellow gundamcel. I am currently rewatching the third film of the MSG trilogy, Encounters in Space.
 
Weed
More Weed
Food, Really good Food
Porn
Playing music (im pretty good at it)
Drawing
Sleeping
Walking alone at night
 
I play vidya and think about the rope
 
How do you guys cope with being an incel? Do you devote more time to your interests and passions? Do you work more? Besides anger and resentment how do you cope with the fact that women find us unattractive and we're going to be alone for the rest of our lives.

I have made a mends with the fact that I bombed at the genetic lottery. You can't blame women for bonking Chad's just like you can't blame a dog for cleaning it's gentials with its tongue. For me how I cope is with my pursuit of spiritual and intellectual enrichment and enlightenment though video games, literature, and otaku culture.

Workout, walks
Watching everything about serial killers and other destructive shit
Some gaming
YouTube
Podcasts
Food
Get more money
Hope for better days
 
Currently my coping mechanism like... completely broken to trash. I can't enjoy things and can't go back to my hobbie. I don't know what to do.
 
a cum jar and a fast internet connection
 
The self-preservation instinct.
 
- Gymcel so I don't feel physically weak
- VR porn once a week on an Oculus Go (usually a WankzVR, MilfVR, Badoinkvr, or vrbangers scene is best)

I don't have motivation for much else. I watch these whores in VR porn an inch from my face with eye contact saying "thank you for fucking me" and know Chad gets that and I never will, and I shoot my load, and then the drive to achieve is gone.
 
Maladaptive Daydreaming,Videogaming,Motorcycling etc
 
How do you guys cope with being an incel? Do you devote more time to your interests and passions? Do you work more? Besides anger and resentment how do you cope with the fact that women find us unattractive and we're going to be alone for the rest of our lives.

I have made a mends with the fact that I bombed at the genetic lottery. You can't blame women for bonking Chad's just like you can't blame a dog for cleaning it's gentials with its tongue. For me how I cope is with my pursuit of spiritual and intellectual enrichment and enlightenment though video games, literature, and otaku culture.
I fap 3 times a day and smoke weed:smonk:
 

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