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Serious What the fuck do you even talk about with your gf on a date

Total Imbecile

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Im hungry so I was imagining how nice it would be if I had a gf to go out with and grab some food in some restaurant, but then as I kept daydreaming about our restaurant date I couldnt fully realize the image in my head bc I kept messing up our convo

Like I realize that on your first date you still dont know each other and you can ask her various questions about what she likes, her background, education, her hobbies, kinks, how many guys shes been with etc but then wtf do you talk about with a girl past those initial few dates

Im honestly so used to being alone and talking to my inner voice self that I more or less dont even need another person in my life except for a girl to have sex with
 
Feminism, hating Trump and roasties
 
Tbh, one of my biggest fears of ever landing a date is what we will talk about especially when i’m so low inhib. I only know about topics no foid is interested in ( Military History ). After 2 minutes it will already be awkward
 
You don't.

There's no date for your face
 
There’s probably more important things to be worrying about..
 
ideally she would be carrying the conversation lel there is very little for a man and a woman to talk about besides gossip
 
Idk talk about the weather and upcoming movies like npc's tend to do
 
usually the guys don't say anything and the girls just keep talking non stop as far as i've seen
 
Nothing , If your only hope is some pathetic beta then you would only talk about her and only her.
 
I would let her talk tbh
 
In general you want to find someone who shares some hobbies with you. If you're both into the same things, you'll have plenty of conversation to make. You'll be talking about the latest episodes of a show you both watch, or your home improvement projects, or bouncing ideas off each other for building fantasy worlds or Magic: The Gathering decks. When you share interests with someone there's endless conversation to be had.
 
ive thought about this and i am bad with communication. probably have to listen to female drama bullshit? i guess if you have height and face it doesnt matter really. chad can probably find a gf who doesnt talk much even that must be nice to be able to choose.
 
You make her talk. No foid is gonna care about philosophy, history, science or anything like that
 
If you were normie it'd start with small talk, what you did/are planning to do on weekend, current events, the food/scenery/weather, and from those you mention little things that lead to actual conversations and stories. Example, You: Wow it's so humid out, Her: Yeah it's crazy reminds me of [humid tropical location], You: Oh you visited [humid tropical location]? What/when/where/how etc...
Then you relate back and forth and share how you felt about stuff. Like oh the food there was so fresh it reminded me of my grandma's garden etc. Normies can do this effortlessly because they have lives and experiences. No one fucking talks about philosophy or 'deep' stuff.
 
Talk about the weather bro :f::f::f::feelstastyman::feelstastyman::feelstastyman:
 
i imagine ask her about herself and she'll start babbling for hours
 
We usually just talk about w..wait a minute! You almost tricked me inkwell! :chad:
 
It is one hundred percent looks and charisma. It tends to go looks > feeds charisma > feeds attraction. Truth is you don’t even need to say anything profound because attraction will halo everything. So content isn’t that big a deal. It’s WHO says it that matters.
 
First you need to start with something soft and easy to digest.

Like the Global Jewish/Lizard People/Alien New World Order Control Conspiracy.
Then you can slowly work your way through Quantum Physics, Mathematics, Literature, Psychology/Philosophy, etc.

Once you have already refuted Aristotle and Newton's Principia Mathematica, she is now ready to hear about the Black Pill and the true nature of females.

What are you worrying about "talks in dates" for? If it's a fantasy in your head, imagine her asking you questions and liking everything.
I miss Reddit's upvotes system so much.
 
Will probably ask her if she has got STD, how many guys she's slept with.
 
Personally, I wouldn't let her talk. I'd tell her to shut up whenever she opens her mouth so that I can talk about something relevant. First of all, I would only want a blackpill girlfriend--but that doesn't suddenly make foids intelligent--everything that comes out of their mouth is bound to be amateur, erotic blather. Not worth listening to, and honestly compromises the very foundation of a logical, rational world view. Having a blackpill girlfriend is possible, but you still basically have to keep her on a leash unless you want her bringing other guys back home for you to watch as they fuck.

To answer your question, I'd be very busy with enjoying the sound of my own voice, while I watch my food and make sure that she finishes the food on her plate. Also, she'd have to pay for her meal.

In general you want to find someone who shares some hobbies with you. If you're both into the same things, you'll have plenty of conversation to make. You'll be talking about the latest episodes of a show you both watch, or your home improvement projects, or bouncing ideas off each other for building fantasy worlds or Magic: The Gathering decks. When you share interests with someone there's endless conversation to be had.

Based.
 
I legit don't know. My tastes and hobbies are far too selective and obscure for her to know, and i could'nt care less about normie interests, so i dont know anything about them.
 
Im hungry so I was imagining how nice it would be if I had a gf to go out with and grab some food in some restaurant, but then as I kept daydreaming about our restaurant date I couldnt fully realize the image in my head bc I kept messing up our convo

Like I realize that on your first date you still dont know each other and you can ask her various questions about what she likes, her background, education, her hobbies, kinks, how many guys shes been with etc but then wtf do you talk about with a girl past those initial few dates

Im honestly so used to being alone and talking to my inner voice self that I more or less dont even need another person in my life except for a girl to have sex with
I agree with this, I don't see anything else I want from a woman other than the occasional sex. I say this, not because I have a dislike of women, but because I have been a solitary creature my entire life that anything else would be very uncomfortable and only tolerable for short stints. Meeting up for sex and a few hours of social engagement is all I require on a monthly basis. The rest of the time I will subsist on porn. As for hobbies I doubt that we would have anything in common seeing as the classes I took in uni were all devoid of females.
 
Normalfags talk about normalfag things and women are the ultimate normalfags. Foids love everything that is socially acceptable and hate anything that is not. People mostly talk about other people and how their lives go in relation to other people. Common topics include: their past relationships, their friends and coworkers, how they spend their holidays and free time, popular TV shows and movies etc. Also, if you're attractive enough she will carry the conversation for you. Chad doesn't have to talk much. He only has to pretend to listen. His halo will convince her brain he is a great conversationist and he understands her on a deep level. It doesn't matter all that much what you say. It only matters how you look.
 
Date would be different when you try to date her with when you're already couples.

If you're talking about first date when you haven't known each other well then yeah it would be hard. Death sentence if you don't share anything in common with her. I suggest just grab a drink cause you can finish it more quickly to avoid awkward situations if you don't click. But try to just talk about her day.

But if you ask a girl you've known and click for a while, even if you're not dating her yet, it would feel better. Just talk about what you usually talk about with her. A true date feels natural. It feels like when you just do usual things with her like eating or watching movies, except outside and people see you as a couple. It feels great tbh when people see us as a successful guy in terms of dating, as we walk with the girl.
 
Talk about how deep your dick is going to be in her throat in a few minutes.
First you need to start with something soft and easy to digest.

Like the Global Jewish/Lizard People/Alien New World Order Control Conspiracy.
Then you can slowly work your way through Quantum Physics, Mathematics, Literature, Psychology/Philosophy, etc.

Once you have already refuted Aristotle and Newton's Principia Mathematica, she is now ready to hear about the Black Pill and the true nature of females.

What are you worrying about "talks in dates" for? If it's a fantasy in your head, imagine her asking you questions and liking everything.
Based.
 
ask her is it true that girls don't fart
 
This is what worries me as well.
 
I'd ask about childhood memories, hobbies, travelling, cooking, and a little bit of politics
 
It is one hundred percent looks and charisma. It tends to go looks > feeds charisma > feeds attraction. Truth is you don’t even need to say anything profound because attraction will halo everything. So content isn’t that big a deal. It’s WHO says it that matters.
 
Tbh, one of my biggest fears of ever landing a date is what we will talk about especially when i’m so low inhib. I only know about topics no foid is interested in ( Military History ). After 2 minutes it will already be awkward
Why would you fear something that isn't going to happen? Here's the truth, man. If you were born attractive, foid would be like: owwwww military history that's so interesting. It all depends on your SMV.
 
talk about ancient rome law, bro. they love the twelve tables
 
talk about ancient rome law, bro
Also give her a 2hr indepth monologue on how women/feminism led to the fall of the roman empire, also mention how women are degenerate hypergamous scum who have led to the fall of many ancient civilizations like Babylon, Ephesus, Egypt e.t.c
 
Also give her a 2hr indepth monologue on how women/feminism led to the fall of the roman empire, also mention how women are degenerate hypergamous scum who have led to the fall of many ancient civilizations like Babylon, Ephesus, Egypt e.t.c
Just mention Ulpian contribution to the Modern West, bro !
 
I would let her talk tbh
Put a full hijab over her + a tape on that fucking bitch´s mouth.
I am the man, i call the shots.
Also give her a 2hr indepth monologue on how women/feminism led to the fall of the roman empire, also mention how women are degenerate hypergamous scum who have led to the fall of many ancient civilizations like Babylon, Ephesus, Egypt e.t.c
Too toxic.
You´re just an Incel.
Our date is over.
 
Tbh, one of my biggest fears of ever landing a date is what we will talk about
No effort on your part necessary : the foid will automatically start bitching about all the chads she dated( fucked) and how they were such jerks who just used ( pumped & dumped) her, and how there are no "good guys" left in dating pool, and how she is glad she found a good guy(cuck betabuxxx) like you who doesnt care about her past (epic whoredom + riding the cock carousel)
 
Put a full hijab over her + a tape on that fucking bitch´s mouth.
I am the man, i call the shots.
But I don't have much to say, so I just let the whore talk and do all the work
 
But I don't have much to say, so I just let the whore talk and do all the work
Remain silent both of you, mutemaxxing is based.
JFL
 
"Just Roofie Her Drink" theory bro - so it really wont matter if the conversation (or the subsequent sex) is terrible because in the morning she won't remember any of it - she wont even remember ever having a date with you. But in the grand scheme of things you WILL have ascended!
 
Tbh, one of my biggest fears of ever landing a date is what we will talk about especially when i’m so low inhib. I only know about topics no foid is interested in ( Military History ). After 2 minutes it will already be awkward
Same for me as well. The only topics im interested in is medieval warfare and history in general, so if hypothetically, i was able to get a date, it would be awkward as fuck since i wouldnt be able to relate with any of the foids interests.
 
Dates are usually the girl talking and the guy listening and adding comments to her story. If you are the one talking you already lost
 
she will stare at your face and if that doesn't look good then game over
 

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