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i honestly cant take it anymore, EVERY time i have an idea, it gets COMPLETELY destroyed by other people, ever since i was fucking 6 years old.

EVERYTHING i do either gets 0 attention or gets shit on, and why? because i dont look nice

try to go to the gym hardcore for 5 years? ohh nope never mind, u get back issues in ur spine and a ruptured appendix and nearly die and lose everything you ever built up, and even in your best shape, you still look worse than any normie who hits the gym for 3 months

try to join clubs at university? noo, sorry you don't "fit in" with the group so we chose someone else

try to talk to girls? 50+ IRL rejections, 0 numbers, 0 success

try to get a job / internship? 25+ rejections

get tinder? 3 matches since january, 2 unmatched me and one tranny who i havent talked to yet.

learn a musical instrument? play classical piano at concert level for over 15 years and i can play any pop song i like - ZERO attention by ANYONE

learn to make music on my computer? i can remake any popular song out there to 95% accuracy, im not bad at it, but everything i put out gets no more than 50 views. one of my songs literally has 1 play, and that was my own.

try to find a volunteering job abroad? the companies I found ghosted me once i applied to them, i sent 3 emails over weeks but NO REPLY

and then, to make it worse, i get rated 5/10 here? im supposed to believe im not ugly? then there is no other fakecel whose attempts at improving have been more ridiculously denied in the history of this entire website.

AND THE WORST PART?
PEOPLE, WHO DONT UNDERSTAND, THAT THE ONLY REASON THEY HAVE THINGS I DON'T, IS DUE TO LUCK / GENETICS - LECTURE ME ON HOW I SHOULD HANDLE THINGS???
 
oh yeah of course, how can i forget, i learned languages too in hopes of meeting friends.

chinese A2
korean b1
german c2
russian A1

did i meet anyone? no
did anyone give a shit? nope
in fact, some chinese girls from my home country just thought i was a fucking weirdo and felt disgusted i even bothered to try and talk chinese to them.

meanwhile chad learns "konichiwa" and is a polyglot genius
 
Because it's all cope and won't improve your face.
 
I feel for you brother
 
Pm me your pics man, those 5/10 ratings don't sound reliable at all. I'll give you an accurate rating.
 
It's ovER my man, you know what to do.
 
oh yeah of course, how can i forget, i learned languages too in hopes of meeting friends.

chinese A2
korean b1
german c2
russian A1

did i meet anyone? no
did anyone give a shit? nope
in fact, some chinese girls from my home country just thought i was a fucking weirdo and felt disgusted i even bothered to try and talk chinese to them.

meanwhile chad learns "konichiwa" and is a polyglot genius
I learnt Hindi but it didn't help me get laid with curry girls.
 
Pm me your pics man, those 5/10 ratings don't sound reliable at all. I'll give you an accurate rating.

Pm me too brother i know what true pain is i will give you an accurate rating.

Lol REEEE youve got a nice signature there. I ejaculated only by looking at her.
 
Pm me too brother i know what true pain is i will give you an accurate rating.

Lol REEEE youve got a nice signature there. I ejaculated only by looking at her.
Kek, thanks. She's actually Moroccan, somebody posted it on Lookism to show that North Africans are good looking. I haven't seen a single Moroccan girl who looks like her, and I see plenty of them daily.
 
Holy shit I feel bad for you. I have seen your pictures and I can't believe that they treat you like that. Everything would be different if you were a girl. All of these cucks would worship your talents if you looked like a stacy.

I never tried self improvement consistently to see if it works.
 
I learnt Hindi but it didn't help me get laid with curry girls.
its so fucking over. seems if ur incel and u learn a language (even if it is just out of genuine interest) ppl will just think ur a fucking loser aspie and hate you for it
 
Pm me too brother i know what true pain is i will give you an accurate rating.

Lol REEEE youve got a nice signature there. I ejaculated only by looking at her.

not sending pics today if some1 will tell me im ugly i will literally kill myself, i think i just need to take a break and watch a movie or something, havent felt this suicidal in years
 
Holy shit I feel bad for you. I have seen your pictures and I can't believe that they treat you like that. Everything would be different if you were a girl. All of these cucks would worship your talents if you looked like a stacy.

I never tried self improvement consistently to see if it works.

basically my whole life i tried to "improve" before i foudn incels, about 6 months ago. then i have kept on trying to improve some things but every attempt just gets faced with utter rejection
 
basically my whole life i tried to "improve" before i foudn incels, about 6 months ago. then i have kept on trying to improve some things but every attempt just gets faced with utter rejection

Giving up and moving on is sometimes the best thing that you can do. My situation is pretty similar to yours. I am at a point in my life where I don't have a direction or any goals. Perhaps looksmaxing can help me to slay in Asia but that's about it
 
not sending pics today if some1 will tell me im ugly i will literally kill myself, i think i just need to take a break and watch a movie or something, havent felt this suicidal in years
Kk, send them another day then. Distract yourself boyo.
 
oh yeah of course, how can i forget, i learned languages too in hopes of meeting friends.

chinese A2
korean b1
german c2
russian A1

did i meet anyone? no
did anyone give a shit? nope
in fact, some chinese girls from my home country just thought i was a fucking weirdo and felt disgusted i even bothered to try and talk chinese to them.

meanwhile chad learns "konichiwa" and is a polyglot genius
Hey how did you learn Chinese? And how long did it take for you to get at that level? I want to learn as well.
 
i honestly cant take it anymore, EVERY time i have an idea, it gets COMPLETELY destroyed by other people, ever since i was fucking 6 years old.

EVERYTHING i do either gets 0 attention or gets shit on, and why? because i dont look nice

try to go to the gym hardcore for 5 years? ohh nope never mind, u get back issues in ur spine and a ruptured appendix and nearly die and lose everything you ever built up, and even in your best shape, you still look worse than any normie who hits the gym for 3 months

try to join clubs at university? noo, sorry you don't "fit in" with the group so we chose someone else

try to talk to girls? 50+ IRL rejections, 0 numbers, 0 success

try to get a job / internship? 25+ rejections

get tinder? 3 matches since january, 2 unmatched me and one tranny who i havent talked to yet.

learn a musical instrument? play classical piano at concert level for over 15 years and i can play any pop song i like - ZERO attention by ANYONE

learn to make music on my computer? i can remake any popular song out there to 95% accuracy, im not bad at it, but everything i put out gets no more than 50 views. one of my songs literally has 1 play, and that was my own.

try to find a volunteering job abroad? the companies I found ghosted me once i applied to them, i sent 3 emails over weeks but NO REPLY

and then, to make it worse, i get rated 5/10 here? im supposed to believe im not ugly? then there is no other fakecel whose attempts at improving have been more ridiculously denied in the history of this entire website.

AND THE WORST PART?
PEOPLE, WHO DONT UNDERSTAND, THAT THE ONLY REASON THEY HAVE THINGS I DON'T, IS DUE TO LUCK / GENETICS - LECTURE ME ON HOW I SHOULD HANDLE THINGS???


I know these feels man but I'm nowhere near as good as piano.
 
Fucking a tranny is gay as fuck.

Some of us are actually straight.
Well, women find you repulsive and wont ever fuck you, so, why not? Lol its over anyway.
 
basically my whole life i tried to "improve" before i foudn incels, about 6 months ago. then i have kept on trying to improve some things but every attempt just gets faced with utter rejection
Nature weeding your shitty genes out. It sucks, but what can ya do about it other than rope or cope.
 
Pianocel. That shit only worked in the 70’s with Elton and Billy.
 
You aren't even ugly though
 
youre not improving, you just keep trying until statistical probability works in your favor
 
That's why I don't bother.

I've tried and gotten no results.
 
looks determine your success never forget
 
Wow, you accomplished so much, OP. Can only dream of doing that.

I don't have the ultimate advice, I don't get any succ as well... well, I have gains from gymcelling, but I am natty so nothing special. And I earned some money careercelling. But I want to leave a few thoughts here:
  1. Persistance. Pick one of these things that are very talented at and do it over and over again. For years I specialized as a cleaner and got better paying jobs. Earned more than a university degree fag for some time thanks to being a specialist and having the experience needed for the jobs.
  2. Luck. Even Michael Jordan was asked to leave a basketball club because they hated him. Didn't matter how talented he was.
  3. You are an incel if you are in-cel, even as a 5/10. So forget about foids for now.
 
looks determine your success never forget

genes in general determine your success at everything, not just the dating scene

for example a high IQ is necessary for certain career paths
 

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