Why does nobody ever tell women that they need to change their personality or that they need to get life together lose etc to get a man why is it always us that have to better ourselves to get somebody to like us on top of that we still have to make the first move because women are too afraid to such BS we get rejected 100 times more and we still make the first move 99.9% of the time
For Chad, no "self-improvement" is necessary -- he is desired for his DNA.
For Omegas, no "self-improvement" is sufficient -- he is undesired for his DNA and low-status.
For Betas, the only way to access pussy is by offering her a deal: long-term reliable, dependable provision of an abundance of resources in exchange for minimal use of her reproductive tract. The only way a beta male can be attractive is by "self-improving", that is: acquiring resources, status and income, and also training himself to become low-libido, dependable, faithful, forgiving, cucked, and submissive to a foid.
The more resources a beta male has, the more generous he is in parting with his resources for the foid, the less jealous, and the more psychologically needy, and attached the beta male is the better the prospect -- the foid's intention is to cuck him as much as possible while extracting the most resources possible. Foids seek these characteristics in betas, but are not attracted by these characteristics in Chads, in fact the more the Chad despises a foid, the more attracted she becomes to him, because his spite for her signals he is high-status and has other foids available, and foids want to make sons that will have foids around him (sexy son hypothesis).
On the other hand, a high-libido, jealous, assertive, dominant, self-sufficient beta male is less attractive, because he is more likely to mate-guard her (lowering her opportunities to cuck him), to impregnate her (lowering the genetic quality of her offspring) and is less susceptible to her mind control powers. Foids enjoy these characteristics in Chads, but are repulsed by these characteristics in betas.
