Most incels can't even talk to women because women want nothing to do with ugly men. These "femcels" could build rapport with men and get to know them better which could eventually lead to the things she actually wants, like a relationship. But they don't even want that. If a woman wanted a relationship, she would just get into one.
Instead these women think men are supposed to do everything when it comes to dating. Approach, build rapport, plan dates, meanwhile they themselves do nothing. They're just waiting for that 6'2 handsome guy to sweep them off their feet and when that doesn't happen they swear off all men.
They're just so appalled by the thought that they have to put effort into dating. Ironically incels can't get their foot on the door, these women can but either they don't bother or they have such fucked up personalities that men who have choices aka the men they want, want nothing to do with these entitled foids.