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Some of us are conditioned to think we need true love, however the issue arises once you consider the rate of divorces compared to the west vs the east. Why do more divorces occur with countries that allow you to freely pick, choose, date, or whatever with anyone (which unfairly give chad and femoids an advantage) as opposed to countries that establish arranged marriages and incorporate marriage with religion and family, if "true love" exists right?
But then again, why does this force of supposed love have devasting affects on people? For example, you see how MGTOW describes their divorces as being mentally, psychologically and even phsycially devastating? How does such affects happen over a supposed illusion?
Basically, the perceived notion of "true love" (that is found prominently in the west) can be broken down into 2 main things once you remove the societal drapes:
sex and belonging, which are human needs
the way you guys fantasise about a femoid giving you "true love" is you merely associating your need to belong to the societal illusion of "true love".
which brings me to the title, that we don't yearn for "true love" but instead we yearn for belonging.
I mean, is it a coincidence that the majority of this site has mental issues, and development issues? the majority of this site has depression, anxiety, social anxiety, autism, and so on- and its not even limited to that seeing there's a few members that even have schizophrenia.
How does a community attract so many mentally ill individuals?
It's also been established that the majority of this site has issues with socialising and have difficulty/inability to make friends of even communicate with other humans. This entire community was so depraved of human interaction that we created an entire community that makes complete losers feel like they belong.
So what I'm trying to say is, I feel we have less of a foid problem and more of a normalfag problem. I feel due to normalfags ostracising, socially excluding, mocking, embarrassing, neglecting, rejected (and so on), we have become disfunctional human beings that are unable to be compentant with everyday interactions that are necessary for our wellbeing.
Due to this harsh treatment, we are forced into isolation resulting in us becoming socially inept, which further reinforces our seemingly never ending nightmare, the nightmare of never belonging.
I mean it makes sense once you consider the effects of loneliness and isolation:
-be as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day
-higher stress levels
-heart disease
-higher chance of developing a disability
-increased vulnerability to chronic illnesses (such as diabetes)
-increases a person's risk of death by 30%
-depression
-dementia
-social anxiety
-low self esteem
-and so on
And why do you experience all this life threatening effects? bc normalfags hate u for ur face and ur low status, that's why. We are hard wired to be accepted by the tribe, and being cast out usually meant death.
Which again leads me to my main point again, which is that I think we "misdirect" our need to belong to "true love" which is why we all badly yearn for a gf to the point that it makes this community suicidal. I feel if we were accepted by our peers, and wasn't forced to walk in the cold on our own, most of us wouldn't even be on this board (or on this board as frequent as some of us are), despite not having a gf.
And I feel this is why people like MGTOW experience the same feeling to which one feels when they're socially excluded and isolated. Because of this misassociation
(people need to go back to religious marriages tbh ngl ded srs)
Some sources n related shit:
(defo read this ^)
ded srs
But then again, why does this force of supposed love have devasting affects on people? For example, you see how MGTOW describes their divorces as being mentally, psychologically and even phsycially devastating? How does such affects happen over a supposed illusion?
Basically, the perceived notion of "true love" (that is found prominently in the west) can be broken down into 2 main things once you remove the societal drapes:
sex and belonging, which are human needs
the way you guys fantasise about a femoid giving you "true love" is you merely associating your need to belong to the societal illusion of "true love".
which brings me to the title, that we don't yearn for "true love" but instead we yearn for belonging.
I mean, is it a coincidence that the majority of this site has mental issues, and development issues? the majority of this site has depression, anxiety, social anxiety, autism, and so on- and its not even limited to that seeing there's a few members that even have schizophrenia.
How does a community attract so many mentally ill individuals?
It's also been established that the majority of this site has issues with socialising and have difficulty/inability to make friends of even communicate with other humans. This entire community was so depraved of human interaction that we created an entire community that makes complete losers feel like they belong.
So what I'm trying to say is, I feel we have less of a foid problem and more of a normalfag problem. I feel due to normalfags ostracising, socially excluding, mocking, embarrassing, neglecting, rejected (and so on), we have become disfunctional human beings that are unable to be compentant with everyday interactions that are necessary for our wellbeing.
Due to this harsh treatment, we are forced into isolation resulting in us becoming socially inept, which further reinforces our seemingly never ending nightmare, the nightmare of never belonging.
I mean it makes sense once you consider the effects of loneliness and isolation:
-be as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a day
-higher stress levels
-heart disease
-higher chance of developing a disability
-increased vulnerability to chronic illnesses (such as diabetes)
-increases a person's risk of death by 30%
-depression
-dementia
-social anxiety
-low self esteem
-and so on
And why do you experience all this life threatening effects? bc normalfags hate u for ur face and ur low status, that's why. We are hard wired to be accepted by the tribe, and being cast out usually meant death.
Which again leads me to my main point again, which is that I think we "misdirect" our need to belong to "true love" which is why we all badly yearn for a gf to the point that it makes this community suicidal. I feel if we were accepted by our peers, and wasn't forced to walk in the cold on our own, most of us wouldn't even be on this board (or on this board as frequent as some of us are), despite not having a gf.
And I feel this is why people like MGTOW experience the same feeling to which one feels when they're socially excluded and isolated. Because of this misassociation
(people need to go back to religious marriages tbh ngl ded srs)
Some sources n related shit:
Health Effects of Social Isolation and Loneliness – Aging Life Care Association™
www.aginglifecarejournal.org
The neurobiology of human social behaviour: an important but neglected topic
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
The brain opioid theory of social attachment: a review of the evidence
Abstract The psychology of close human relationships is increasingly well understood and our understanding of the neurobiology of the onset of pairbonding behaviour in a range of species has benefited from the use of rodent-based models. However, the human literature has suffered from a lack of...
brill.com
NYAS Publications
nyaspubs.onlinelibrary.wiley.com
(defo read this ^)
ded srs
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