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agingmentalcel
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The sex drive might remain high but the feeling you get from nutting gets a lot less intense as you get older imo.
So when the feeling from cooming isn't as good as it used to be it starts getting a bit confusing why anyone would really bother going to an escort when after years of being a virgin it would not be easy to have sex with women the correct way and you're cock would be desensitized from possible death grip and jacking off with your hand compared to having your cock in the less tight grip of a vagina.
It's not always for lack of trying. It gets harder and harder to lose fat and keep muscle as you get older compared to when you are younger. Otherwise I'd think there would be way more middle aged and older guys that are in shape but most of them that you see aren't really in that good shape.
I appreciate your perspective and curiosity. I can only tell you I AM in my 40s. Since you called 30s old in your OP, I just wanted to give 1 datapoint from myself how being old actually is. I find it easier to stay in shape at my age.
I was at my peak sex drive around 15, as far as I could jerk it like 8-9 times a day with a lot of feeling and output. Now I probably have the real urge maybe once per day on average. TBH i've done it 4-5 times per day depending on my mood. I can maybe go without for 3 days without it being really noticeable.
As far as feeling goes, I definitely have intense orgasms now in my 40s. I have no ED or EQ issues and if anything my size has increased at least girth wise.
body wise, I peak around 19. I was at my biggest and leanest and easily best looking since my face was lean. I've gotten "in shape" and out of shape more times than I can count. I was in my worst shape around 32, but now in my early 40s I am in the second best shape of my life. 1st. 19, 2nd. 40. it's really not that hard even with shit genetics. Most fat middle-aged guys are fucking lazy and that's the truth. It almost takes a great deal of effort to be a fatass. It's self sabotage and laziness for most. When I was fat I wasn't doing anything but sitting on the computer 16-18 hours a day and I would eat multiple pizzas, King Sized triple Whopper meals, etc. that was when I was around 25 and again 32. At 32 I had a medical emergency and I felt bad in general. So I just started very basic minimal health habits and limited self sabotage like purposely bing eating until I made myself sick. I eat normal food and I have light weights and go for walks. I spend 15 minutes or so outside every day. I don't want to purposely feel bad in every way possible just because I don't get women.
At 40 I am not as good as I was when I was 19 mostly because I had more muscle mass then. It was easier for me to be big and lean and also cut without losing muscle. So basically i'm about the same weight/BMI but my arms were about an inch bigger and my chest was maybe 2 inches bigger and my waste was 2 inches smaller. But I'm in better shape than a lot of 20 somethings. I work around these guys and I cant believe how many have dadbods and look like they either never hit puberty or already hit middle age. I can just tell you in my 40s my dick still works and I have a decent body because I haven't completely given up on all aspects of life. i'm sure I would get pleasure from a woman, though the lack of genuine desire from an escort would be the biggest issue.
how old are you?