PotatoTomato
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View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/n5l1bx/my_husband_got_a_dna_test_behind_my_back_4_years/
Two of our friends are now pregnant and we’re the only couple in our group that has kids. They came over and spoke to us about what they should expect. Apparently during that, my husband pulled the soon to be father to the side and suggested that after the baby is born that he should get a DNA test just to get 100% certainty. He then told his wife that my husband advised him to do this and she told me.
I confronted him on this and he was so nonchalant about it. He acted like it wasn’t a big deal. I feel so hurt that he doesn’t trust me. I gave him no reason to think I was cheating on him, and I thought he fully trusted me. He keeps telling me that he did nothing wrong and that a lot of guys do this. He said he didn’t think I was cheating but just wanted to make sure our baby was his, he then said I was being irrational when I cried over him not trusting me.
I don’t know what to do. He won’t even look at this from my perspective. What can I do?