Just to be clear I never dated this woman, she was a friend some years ago (2009). I had hopes of a relationship, but that's a long story for a different day. (Yeah I know, being friends with foids and all that. I still had hope in her at the time)
So things went to shit with this woman, in part because she found out about my desires. I also asked if she happened to know any single women interested in dating, since I've always heard that women enjoy being matchmakers, and many people have met foids through a mutual friend. She got PISSED, accusing me of viewing her as a "dating service" (WTF?????) Needless to say, this friendship never recovered.
I asked a mutual guy friend, who had been my friend for 3 years, to help resolve things. I had never asked him for a favor before this. However, he refused, dug in his feet, and got ANGRY when I questioned this. He insulted me in front of other classmates, saying "I can tell you want to hit me", and raising his voice about how I needed to back down. So much for a bro the ONE TIME I NEEDED him to help. He even received special training at conflict resolution; clearly pointless.
Fast forward to about a year ago. I was talking to a mutual friend of this guy and I. I didn't reference this stuff, I just mentioned that I hadn't spoken to him in awhile, and we were friends earlier. Standard stuff; maybe he and I could reconnect? I think everyone should have a chance at redemption.
However, this friend told me, "He passed". I asked what she meant. Turns out, this dumb fuck DIED IN A CAR CRASH IN 2012. Well then. I wouldn't want to celebrate someone's death (publicly anyway), but I don't feel sympathy either. It was a funny feeling; I didn't feel ecstasy like I thought I would when a prick like this died. I looked it up, there was no mistaking it. It was him, and he was dead. No tears from me, bro. Maybe I would have, if you stepped in the one time I needed you to.
So things went to shit with this woman, in part because she found out about my desires. I also asked if she happened to know any single women interested in dating, since I've always heard that women enjoy being matchmakers, and many people have met foids through a mutual friend. She got PISSED, accusing me of viewing her as a "dating service" (WTF?????) Needless to say, this friendship never recovered.
I asked a mutual guy friend, who had been my friend for 3 years, to help resolve things. I had never asked him for a favor before this. However, he refused, dug in his feet, and got ANGRY when I questioned this. He insulted me in front of other classmates, saying "I can tell you want to hit me", and raising his voice about how I needed to back down. So much for a bro the ONE TIME I NEEDED him to help. He even received special training at conflict resolution; clearly pointless.
Fast forward to about a year ago. I was talking to a mutual friend of this guy and I. I didn't reference this stuff, I just mentioned that I hadn't spoken to him in awhile, and we were friends earlier. Standard stuff; maybe he and I could reconnect? I think everyone should have a chance at redemption.
However, this friend told me, "He passed". I asked what she meant. Turns out, this dumb fuck DIED IN A CAR CRASH IN 2012. Well then. I wouldn't want to celebrate someone's death (publicly anyway), but I don't feel sympathy either. It was a funny feeling; I didn't feel ecstasy like I thought I would when a prick like this died. I looked it up, there was no mistaking it. It was him, and he was dead. No tears from me, bro. Maybe I would have, if you stepped in the one time I needed you to.
