as a truecel, I’ve had expERiences at univERsity in which I was with a friend/group of friends who wERe all at least Normie-tiER in looks, and then we met a NEW group of people (people we’d nevER met before or who my friends knew but whom I’d nevER met), and this new group hardly evER said anything hateful towards me, but they would make faces of disgust and hatred towards me and many times would introduce themselves to evERybody in my friendship group EXCEPT me (if we wERe all meeting them for the first time). If my friends knew them from before, when my friends would introduce me to them they didn’t even show any acknowledgement of my existence.
ConsidERing the fact that I behave normally in public and don’t do anything extremely odd to make myself easily noticeable based on my behaviour alone, nor did I evER approach a NEW group of people with hateful body-language or vERbal language, the only explanation for the cold treatment shown to me by the NEW group of people is that they didn’t like my looks.
So yes, even people who you’ve nevER met before (who haven’t even heard you say a single word before) won’t even give you a chance to show them your pERsonality because they will reject you before you can even open your mouth, due to being unattractive (despite you behaving completely normally and politely).
Despite the difficulties I’ve faced in making friends when meeting new people (because of my ugly looks), I have had a few good friends because in the rare instances when people gave themselves a chance to actually get to know my pERsonality, they liked me for who I am as a pERson and wERe able to ovERlook my ugly looks
But I was NEVER able to have any free consensual sex, so clearly my pERsonality can’t be the reason I can’t attract women given the fact that a pERson’s pERsonality actually mattERs “somewhat” for socialisation and making/maintaining friendships, and I wouldn’t have had those few friends in the first place if my pERsonality was at fault
Incels who have friends completely debunk normies’ claim that our “bad pERsonality” is the reason why we can’t have free consensual sex, because although looks definitely mattER when it comes to both dating and friendships, pERsonality mattERs MUCH MORE when it comes to friendships considERing the fact that a “friend” is NOT someone you intend to have sex with (so logically we place LESS importance on “looks” when it comes to making friends and MORE importance on pERsonality)
given the fact that a pERson’s charactERistics can only be reduced to 2 categories: LOOKS (body/physical) and PERSONALITY (mind/mental), if our pERsonality is NOT the problem when it comes to making friends (whERe pERsonality mattERs much MORE), logically pERsonality must ALSO not be the problem when it comes to sexually attracting women (whERe pERsonality mattERs much LESS), so the problem can’t be anything othER than our LOOKS
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