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How do you cope with knowing you were denied youth?

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How do you do it? How do you cope knowing all your peers were partying, having sex, drinking together and hanging out, all except you? They just got together and naturally, EFFORTLESSLY clicked and also unconsciously just decided to exclude you from everything, because you're genetic trash and that is nature itself telling you to fuck off and die.

Now you missed out on everything that makes life worth living and are expected to slave away at a job you hate until you die.

How do you do it?
 
Now you missed out on everything that makes life worth living and are expected to slave away at a job you hate until you die.

How do you do it?

Drugs. Many of them, in copious amounts.
I just discovered kratom, for example. Highly recommended if youre depressed because you were excluded from a young age and dont know how intimacy feels.
 
I became an alcoholic, I'm trying to escape though
 
Videogames, internet, movies, books, fast food ie the same old, same old tried and true coping methods of our kind throughout history where available at least.

Also even though I utterly missed out on the deliciously decadent sex culture of the 90’s it’s always been an effective cope for me to remind myself that I also missed out on the negative aspects of my “coming of age” gen xer time period which of course is the numerous STD’s, unwanted pregnancies, drug/alcohol overdose death, violent love triangle situations and the resulting murder/suicides that would often follow as well being branded a sex offender pedophile for life due to screwing some dumb slut at a party who lied about her age in order to feel grown up and get her fuck on who then feels guilty after enjoying herself by getting her fuck on and oh gee I wonder who gets to pay the price for her guilty feelings over being a whore on that fateful night? Oh that’s right. YOU!

So while I’ll remain eternally sad I missed out on sex, love and relationships in this life I’ve made peace with that as best I can with the full realization that Clown World certainly may offer up sex to attractive people on tap and even to people like us who pay for it... but love?

Clown World doesn’t know the first thing about that.

The very concept is murdered in a little girl’s cradle being born into such a toxic and hateful Jewish world such as this.

Guys “white shariah” isn’t the answer.

Stringing up every Jew to every available lamp post and power pole by the neck however, is.

Until that happens this world will never be free or get any better for people like us or anyone else.

Just more 9/11 + Covid 19 staged events and far far worse.
 
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Okok stop stop stop I know I already know all this is true but I don't know alright I really don't know how to cope I can't anymore it's just too brutal I just want this nightmare to end :cryfeels::feelscry::feelsrope:
 
I'm hoping to try Adderall soon.
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Accepting it. Looking in the mirror hard and saying "this is who I am." Thinking long and hard about what you cannot change, but what you can change and haven't changed. Learn to accept life isn't fair or just.

Some son of a bitches will be born into a millionaire family, get to do whatever they want - fuck anyone they want, go anywhere they want, eat whatever they want, commit any crime they want - and get away with it with no consequences. That isn't fair or just. But that's life.


However, there are things which you know are making you miserable which you can change. Change that. In fact, change every "that" insofar as you are able to.
Upset that you don't have a clean face or body? Clean your face and get in shape. Join an oil painting club. Join a drawing club. Join a fencing club. Find a martial art. Join a bowling club. Something that you genuinely want to learn and do.
Upset you didn't learn a skill or hobby? Find a skill or hobby you like, excel at it.
Upset you haven't been moving up the corporate ladder? Work twice as hard.
Upset you don't have friends? Make efforts. Join communities; churches, hobbies, work, etc. Maybe find a community online where people aren't afraid to be non-anonymous, and meet up with them at some point. Face your fear of rejection and ask someone to get a drink.
Upset you aren't educated? Find some lectures online. Online classes. Learn about the world / a skill. Get your GED if you don't have it. Maybe get a community college degree if you don't have one.

Be happy you changed that as far as you know you were able to. Be happy that you can take pride in that you chose to face yourself and overcome yourself. Then die peacefully of old age.

Again, almost every religion in the world - Hinduism, Christianity, Buddhism - says it's a fools game to try to find justice in this world. One Saint in Christianity once said "I would go insane if I saw the world and knew there was no God afterwards." That should tell you that our illusions of "justice" are just that - illusions. Human beings are too selfish for pure justice to be achieved.

I don't see any other solution besides being sorry for yourself, suicide, or escapism. And escapism only gets you so far, you have to face this life at some point.
 
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I'm 22 now. It's torture knowing I have a tiny bit of time left and I have no way of making it happen
 
By being a NEET and making up for lost youth.
 
I'm 22 now. It's torture knowing I have a tiny bit of time left and I have no way of making it happen
If you have a basically healthy body you have plenty of time left at this age.

Plus you can escort max and become comfortable with sex and it’s resulting physical intimacy the result of which could potentially help you ascend with foids or at least make friends with people since you’d no longer be giving off awkward loser virgin vibes that plague so many of our community here in regards to their interactions with others.
 
You don’t, you just suffer in silence
 
I plan on killing myself within the nex 5 years. And I'm expose all tha chads, stacies and beckies as I go out.
 
video games. thats it, all i do besides post here
I plan on killing myself within the nex 5 years. And I'm expose all tha chads, stacies and beckies as I go out.
Are you planning on going ER? based if so tbh
 
Drugs. Many of them, in copious amounts.
I just discovered kratom, for example. Highly recommended if youre depressed because you were excluded from a young age and dont know how intimacy feels.
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How do you do it? How do you cope knowing all your peers were partying, having sex, drinking together and hanging out, all except you? They just got together and naturally, EFFORTLESSLY clicked and also unconsciously just decided to exclude you from everything, because you're genetic trash and that is nature itself telling you to fuck off and die.

Now you missed out on everything that makes life worth living and are expected to slave away at a job you hate until you die.

How do you do it?
Not much really, I don't believe in love or true friendships anymore. So it isn't like I lost much. Sometimes I am happy that I didn't get to live it. Normies that got to taste the lie often become so intoxicated with it that they self terminate when they learn of the truth or worse become cucks.
 

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