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Serious how do you escape the LDAR mindset?

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the more I try, the more I want to kill myself.

"Just put yourself out there," they said.

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You can't, consciously. Something has to "click" inside you in order to change.
 
once you are consumed, its hard to escape, you need a life changing experience or a change of scenery
 
By forcing yourself to get a job or go to school.
 
Embrace and love the pain.
 
I hate LDARing in my house but i have no choice. I can never even have friends because there's something in me that makes people ignore me and makes me unable to fit in (it's not my face because way more uglier people than me i know have friends). I think i'm aspie and can't interact with people.
 
LDAR mindset is reactive, you need to get away from or overcome what causes that reaction in you. If possible.
 
I hate LDARing in my house but i have no choice. I can never even have friends because there's something in me that makes people ignore me and makes me unable to fit in (it's not my face because way more uglier people than me i know have friends). I think i'm aspie and can't interact with people.

evil eye habibi, im suffering from this
 
nofap
no porn
nopillow
coldshowers
 
I hate LDARing in my house but i have no choice. I can never even have friends because there's something in me that makes people ignore me and makes me unable to fit in (it's not my face because way more uglier people than me i know have friends). I think i'm aspie and can't interact with people.
same bro, I always feel excluded
 
I don't do anything in my free time. Nothing is enjoyable, I have no life.
Same as me when I went to college. I would go straight home, get in bed and rot until I had to sleep again for the next day of school.
 
the more I try, the more I want to kill myself.

"Just put yourself out there," they said.

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Hatred, once you have hatred driving you, you actually never fall into the LDAR mindset to begin with, when I first heard about this shit I was confused, how could a group so driven by hate be so weak willled, then I interacted and realized most of you don't really have much hate in you, so you have no drive, you either "gave up on hatred" long ago so all that resides in you is sadness and depression.
 
Get money, fuck bitches.

What they don't tell you is that you fuck bitches due to the money you got. In my case that means paying for it up front. Same shit as far as I'm concerned. Going to hire a maid and if she lets me fuck her, I'm set.
 
Just be yourself and have kunfidence, teehee.
 
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It never end's.
 
Be attractive, which causes you to enjoy being around humans.
 
I'm trying to be less lazy and more productive. Fuck the women situation
 
By taking anti-depressant medication.

This is unpopular among depressed communities, but it is the only actual way to truly get out of a LDAR mindset.

In my long experience, ideas are the result of mood, mood being itself the mental translation of your neurotransmitter levels. This seems counter-intuitive, but just try some drugs before dismissing what I'm telling you. Then read neuroscience books: you'll get academic confirmation of what you just experienced. Mood is a sophisticated algorithm that evolved as an optimizer for survival and reproduction, but now often backfires, leading to things like clinical depression.

If you are depressed you will feel nihilistic or hopeless and your brain will find very good rational reasons to remain nihilistic and hopeless. The brain excels at rationalizing its mood. In fact, your brain is merely a computer that provides reasons for why your mood is that way. Change the mood and your brain will automatically start searching your neurons for the next rationalizing bullshit it can set up together.

If you are not depressed, you will find excellent reasons to get out and do something, anything. This is my case right now, my brain being on a serotonin norepinephrine reuptake inhibitor.
 
i don't think it's possible to escape
 
In animals, lack of serotonin which is essentially depression is because especially in men they are subordinate males. In women they have double the serotonin because they are built to be subservient. Take control over your life, especially being incel makes you feel like a beta, try leadership, not controlling others because that might get you in jail but leading others might work. You could also take magic mushrooms, if not that, try drinking coffee see if that makes you feel better
 

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