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I'm sure this has to be in the Wiki somewhere but I can't find a straight answer.
A lot of people have given me shit for not trying hard enough to socialize or be friendly with others.
The thing is I've already tried many times and it doesn't seem to work.
Dumb bluepill shit like don't be afraid to just make small talk. Eventually it will develop into something.
I actually tried that too and all that got me as a lot of awkward silence after they gave a one word answer that ended the conversation fast.
So yeah... No matter what I do, it won't make a difference coz of how I look.
Btw I only experienced it once but I had anecdotal experience of talking to a guy who looked and talked similar to me.
It was not good. His appearance made me feel uncomfortable and his ugly and threatening face made it rather suffocating to talk to him for every line he said. It wasn't the subject matter, I just was somehow already in my mind not feeling comfortable. As for what he actually said, it didn't matter but having a neutral tone with that face again doesn't make me comfortable.
Perhaps this is how people see me everytime they talk to me? Whats the point of me trying then? After all they already feel uncomfortable subconsciously before I even open my mouth.
A lot of people have given me shit for not trying hard enough to socialize or be friendly with others.
The thing is I've already tried many times and it doesn't seem to work.
Dumb bluepill shit like don't be afraid to just make small talk. Eventually it will develop into something.
I actually tried that too and all that got me as a lot of awkward silence after they gave a one word answer that ended the conversation fast.
So yeah... No matter what I do, it won't make a difference coz of how I look.
Btw I only experienced it once but I had anecdotal experience of talking to a guy who looked and talked similar to me.
It was not good. His appearance made me feel uncomfortable and his ugly and threatening face made it rather suffocating to talk to him for every line he said. It wasn't the subject matter, I just was somehow already in my mind not feeling comfortable. As for what he actually said, it didn't matter but having a neutral tone with that face again doesn't make me comfortable.
Perhaps this is how people see me everytime they talk to me? Whats the point of me trying then? After all they already feel uncomfortable subconsciously before I even open my mouth.
