Venting How old were you when you realised you weren't going to have a successful sexlife?

[UglyDumbass]

I remember when I was 13 and started to get a hold of my first pornos. I saw this guy perform in every single one of them. His name was Peter North and he was superior to the other male performers. He boasted with the biggest cock, the biggest muscles, the biggest cumshot and so on. As an impressionable youth I saw that and I thought: I want to be like that guy! I AM going to be like that guy!

Peter North often had sex with two or more girls at the same time and I thought: Wow! This is amazing! I can't wait until I grow up in a few years and get to experience all this hot and wild sex for myself. Just like Peter North right!

When I was around 18 I slowly started to realise that maybe all this Peter North stuff wouldn't come true. But I did not give up. I went out to bars and clubs and devestated my body in hopes of finally reaching that sweet sex. Just like Peter North did on a daily basis right?

Finally around 20 I came to the conclusion that I never could become like Peter North. All those young and hot girls, all that hedonistic and wild sex could never be mine.

I saw the hot girls still pleasuring Peter North. Sucking his balls, offering up their tight anuses to him while I remained sexless. It was quite bitter.

At what age did you realise you were never going to have a successful sex life?

17

 

[Butter Dawg]

What does it being on the Internet have to do with what age you have to be to look at it? We set ages for things because that's the age when you're physically and mentally mature enough to do the thing responsibly.

“We”? I don’t set those ages, and neither do you.

Saying you need to be 18 to view it is mere lip service given by porn sites. They know full well pre-teens are exposed to porn and that’s their target audience.

 

[Fifita]

Puberty

 

[FrothySolutions]

“We”? I don’t set those ages, and neither do you.

Saying you need to be 18 to view it is mere lip service given by porn sites. They know full well pre-teens are exposed to porn and that’s their target audience.

We = society. The standards we're talking about.

And we know kids watch porn just like we know kids do drugs. That doesn't make it acceptable.

 

[Butter Dawg]

We = society. The standards we're talking about.

And we know kids watch porn just like we know kids do drugs. That doesn't make it acceptable.

Except that it is acceptable. No one actually cares if a teenager watches porn. Drugs are a little more taboo but if it’s moderate alcohol even then people won’t care.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Except that it is acceptable. No one actually cares if a teenager watches porn. Drugs are a little more taboo but if it’s moderate alcohol even then people won’t care.

Where are you getting this idea that no one cares? If no one cares, why have we established the standard? Though kids do drugs, it's still very illegal. That law means we have established and uphold a standard about whether or not it's acceptable for kids to do drugs. And so it follows for "You Must Be 18 Or Older" disclaimers on porn. If we didn't care, we wouldn't have the disclaimers.

 

[Butter Dawg]

Where are you getting this idea that no one cares? If no one cares, why have we established the standard?

Because society is uncomfortable acknowledging teenage sexuality. America has weird puritan ideas about sex.

Though kids do drugs, it's still very illegal. That law means we have established and uphold a standard about whether or not it's acceptable for kids to do drugs. And so it follows for "You Must Be 18 Or Older" disclaimers on porn. If we didn't care, we wouldn't have the disclaimers.

In reality the laws are there to prevent them from buying drugs, essentially limiting it to a degree instead of opening the floodgates.

With porn, people don’t like porn companies blatantly targeting adolescents, so the disclaimer is merely lip service.

Also, the law also says the age of consent is 16 but people will freak out if someone in their 20’s has sex with a 16 year old. Clearly the law doesn’t determine what is necessarily acceptable or not.

Social norms and laws vary plenty. Don’t kid yourself.

 

[Butter Dawg]

Because society is uncomfortable acknowledging teenage sexuality. America has weird puritan ideas about sex.

In reality the laws are there to prevent them from buying drugs, essentially limiting it to a degree instead of opening the floodgates.

With porn, people don’t like porn companies blatantly targeting adolescents, so the disclaimer is merely lip service.

Also, the law also says the age of consent is 16 but people will freak out if someone in their 20’s has sex with a 16 year old. Clearly the law doesn’t determine what is necessarily acceptable or not.

Social norms and laws vary plenty. Don’t kid yourself.

@wereq @OutcompetedByRoomba @WorthlessSlavicShit @Gendocel @GeckoBus @worthlessloser26

 

[AlexDelarge]

Until 22 when i took the

 

[FrothySolutions]

Because society is uncomfortable acknowledging teenage sexuality. America has weird puritan ideas about sex.

It's not an American thing. Everywhere they make porn, even in places where the age of consent is a little lower than 16, they stress that you need to be an adult before watching.

In reality the laws are there to prevent them from buying drugs, essentially limiting it to a degree instead of opening the floodgates.

With porn, people don’t like porn companies blatantly targeting adolescents, so the disclaimer is merely lip service.

Also, the law also says the age of consent is 16 but people will freak out if someone in their 20’s has sex with a 16 year old. Clearly the law doesn’t determine what is necessarily acceptable or not.

Social norms and laws vary plenty. Don’t kid yourself.

If people don't like teenagers being targeted with sex, wouldn't that mean we have a social standard that says you have to be an adult to enjoy sexual things?

 

[Butter Dawg]

It's not an American thing. Everywhere they make porn, even in places where the age of consent is a little lower than 16, they stress that you need to be an adult before watching.



If people don't like teenagers being targeted with sex, wouldn't that mean we have a social standard that says you have to be an adult to enjoy sexual things?

Nope, they just think teens should experiment with each other if they give in to the urges.

In church, divorce is frowned upon, but accepted. The same applies to teenagers having sex with each other, watching porn, and to a lesser degree using drugs. People say it’s bad, but don’t actually do anything. Actions speak louder than words.

 

[gymcellragefuel]

19. A foid below my looksmatch decided to ghost me

 

[NatsumeSouseki]

I remember when I was 13 and started to get a hold of my first pornos. I saw this guy perform in every single one of them. His name was Peter North and he was superior to the other male performers. He boasted with the biggest cock, the biggest muscles, the biggest cumshot and so on. As an impressionable youth I saw that and I thought: I want to be like that guy! I AM going to be like that guy!

Peter North often had sex with two or more girls at the same time and I thought: Wow! This is amazing! I can't wait until I grow up in a few years and get to experience all this hot and wild sex for myself. Just like Peter North right!

When I was around 18 I slowly started to realise that maybe all this Peter North stuff wouldn't come true. But I did not give up. I went out to bars and clubs and devestated my body in hopes of finally reaching that sweet sex. Just like Peter North did on a daily basis right?

Finally around 20 I came to the conclusion that I never could become like Peter North. All those young and hot girls, all that hedonistic and wild sex could never be mine.

I saw the hot girls still pleasuring Peter North. Sucking his balls, offering up their tight anuses to him while I remained sexless. It was quite bitter.

At what age did you realise you were never going to have a successful sex life?

10

 

[NatsumeSouseki]

19. A foid below my looksmatch decided to ghost me

had that happen in first year of high school and wanted to die lol

 

[decafincel]

Realistically I probably knew my last year of Uni (21) but part of me still holds out home even though grad school has been even more blackpilling.

I'm on NoFap rn so I feel even worse some days.

 

[gymcellragefuel]

had that happen in first year of high school and wanted to die lol

Yeah I feel you. I couldn’t cope anymore and decided to quit even attending classes

 

[NatsumeSouseki]

Yeah I feel you. I couldn’t cope anymore and decided to quit even attending classes

all i think about is raging

 

[FrothySolutions]

Nope, they just think teens should experiment with each other if they give in to the urges.

In church, divorce is frowned upon, but accepted. The same applies to teenagers having sex with each other, watching porn, and to a lesser degree using drugs. People say it’s bad, but don’t actually do anything. Actions speak louder than words.

Just because I don't act on my beliefs doesn't mean I don't believe in them. I believe it's irresponsible to eat Pringles for breakfast every day, but at the same time I'm a weak person so I do it anyway and tell myself "I accept that this is wrong, I don't claim to be a perfect person."

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

Probably about 15 or 16.

I started to notice that it was common for girls to get very excited when they talked to other guys. But they were never like that when (if) they had to talk to me.

I was still very bluepilled at that time, and I believed that if I just wait and do (X), surely everything will happen for me sooner or later. Girls will want to talk to me sooner or later. Talking to me will make them smile sooner or later.

But that was when I first noticed that my experiences with women were much less than what most guys had.

 

[gymletethnicel]

8

 

[Incel Philosopher]

Around 21-22

 

[Butter Dawg]

Just because I don't act on my beliefs doesn't mean I don't believe in them. I believe it's irresponsible to eat Pringles for breakfast every day, but at the same time I'm a weak person so I do it anyway and tell myself "I accept that this is wrong, I don't claim to be a perfect person."

People genuinely don’t see divorce as immoral, nor teenagers having sex with each other as immoral. At best they see it as not ideal. It’s the same with you eating pringles. I doubt you would feel like you crossed some major moral threshold, even though ideally you shouldn’t have eaten them.

 

[⭑papers]

Pretty early. 15 i'd say?
Average age to lose virginity here is like 10 lmao. And there are no outliers who ascend later. It's either ascend as a kid or die virgin. I've tracked the lives of people i've went to school with. Those who didn't get sex and relationships early never ascended later.

 

[FrothySolutions]

People genuinely don’t see divorce as immoral, nor teenagers having sex with each other as immoral. At best they see it as not ideal. It’s the same with you eating pringles. I doubt you would feel like you crossed some major moral threshold, even though ideally you shouldn’t have eaten them.

I didn't say eating Pringles was immoral, I said it was irresponsible. But they do believe exposing minors to explicit sexual content is immoral. Hence all the anger around it. Doesn't mean there'll always be action, but there will always be angry feelings.

 

[Butter Dawg]

I didn't say eating Pringles was immoral, I said it was irresponsible. But they do believe exposing minors to explicit sexual content is immoral. Hence all the anger around it. Doesn't mean there'll always be action, but there will always be angry feelings.

I don’t think people are angry at porn being available on the internet. Only hyper conservatives are.

 

[SupremeGentleCel]

21

 

[screwthefbi]

18

 

[FrothySolutions]

I don’t think people are angry at porn being available on the internet. Only hyper conservatives are.

I didn't say "available on the Internet." I said "exposed to minors."

 

[Mistake]

11

 

[Butter Dawg]

I didn't say "available on the Internet." I said "exposed to minors."

Making porn available on the internet with easy access is for all intents and purposes exposing it to minors.

 

[lazy_gamer_423]

Oh very early. Probably 13

 

[curryboy]

17

 

[FrothySolutions]

Making porn available on the internet with easy access is for all intents and purposes exposing it to minors.

That isn't how people see it. Just because I don't want kids to watch it doesn't mean I wanna make it harder for me to access.

 

[tayhrdl]

From 13 years old on. Girls ignored me, boys bullied me. I looked into the mirror and realized that I'm an ugly creature with bad teeth. The brutal social anxiety that was undiagnosed at the time was the final nail in the coffin.

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

@wereq @OutcompetedByRoomba @WorthlessSlavicShit @Gendocel @GeckoBus @worthlessloser26

Because society is uncomfortable acknowledging teenage sexuality. America has weird puritan ideas about sex.

In reality the laws are there to prevent them from buying drugs, essentially limiting it to a degree instead of opening the floodgates.

With porn, people don’t like porn companies blatantly targeting adolescents, so the disclaimer is merely lip service.

Also, the law also says the age of consent is 16 but people will freak out if someone in their 20’s has sex with a 16 year old. Clearly the law doesn’t determine what is necessarily acceptable or not.

Social norms and laws vary plenty. Don’t kid yourself.

Trust me, your time would be better spend arguing with a bot or a dog or the wall of your room.

 

[Butter Dawg]

That isn't how people see it. Just because I don't want kids to watch it doesn't mean I wanna make it harder for me to access.

People don’t want kids to watch it, but they’ve generally accepted it’s gonna happen. There is barely any outrage.

Trust me, your time would be better spend arguing with a bot or a dog or the wall of your room.

tbh

 

[FrothySolutions]

People don’t want kids to watch it, but they’ve generally accepted it’s gonna happen. There is barely any outrage.

Again, actions are not necessarily a reflection of beliefs. I can believe a lot of things but not act on those beliefs.

 

[illumizoldyck]

mid to late 20s
i was a failed normie before i became a incel

i grew up around foids i know their nature from day 1
so i was never truly a bluepilled cuck

 

[Butter Dawg]

Again, actions are not necessarily a reflection of beliefs. I can believe a lot of things but not act on those beliefs.

Yes, such as those Pringles, you eat them because you don’t see it as a big deal. But why didn’t you drink a bunch of vodka in the morning? Probably because you had to go to work and drinking a ton of vodka would ruin your performance. Hence the vodka drinking would be a big deal where as eating the pringles are not.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Yes, such as those Pringles, you eat them because you don’t see it as a big deal. But why didn’t you drink a bunch of vodka in the morning? Probably because you had to go to work and drinking a ton of vodka would ruin your performance. Hence the vodka drinking would be a big deal where as eating the pringles are not.

Who said the Pringles wasn't a big deal? Just because I've accepted it doesn't mean it isn't wrong. I just have to accept that I'm not perfect. Same as how alcoholics enable their alcoholism by telling themselves they're not perfect.

 

[Butter Dawg]

Who said the Pringles wasn't a big deal? Just because I've accepted it doesn't mean it isn't wrong. I just have to accept that I'm not perfect. Same as how alcoholics enable their alcoholism by telling themselves they're not perfect.

Not wrong =/= not a big deal

Even alcoholics will usually attempt to be functional by abstaining from substances during work hours.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Not wrong =/= not a big deal

Even alcoholics will usually attempt to be functional by abstaining from substances during work hours.

The alcoholics that want to get better. Plenty of people accept their vices as a permanent character flaw.

 

[Butter Dawg]

The alcoholics that want to get better. Plenty of people accept their vices as a permanent character flaw.

No, a functioning alcoholic is one who can “function” by holding a job and other responsibilities. They don’t necessarily wanna give up drinking they just don’t wanna end up homeless.

 

[Jud Pottah]

7 years old.

 

[FrothySolutions]

No, a functioning alcoholic is one who can “function” by holding a job and other responsibilities. They don’t necessarily wanna give up drinking they just don’t wanna end up homeless.

I know what a functioning alcoholic is, what does that have to do with whether or not being an alcoholic is bad?

 

[JudeoBiden]

14. Hooking up went from a niche thing that only the sluttiest girls did to something expected of every girl. I wasn't invited to the hookup scene.

Peter North is a homosexual btw. I remember a video I watched where he was getting a blowjob and he said "it's a woman" with a horny voice like that was unusual. Made sense down the line when I learned about gay-for-pay and that he's gay. Irony of ironies, Peter North is a gay man who is straight-for-pay

 

[realblackcel02]

My first REAL rejection was at 6 years old and i never recovered

 

[Ahnfeltia]

Define what a "successful" sex life entails. It sounds like you mean having sex with many different girls, which I'm not sure I ever wanted.

 

[Near0]

this faggot is always obsessed with peter north

he can't stop talking about him

 

[Butter Dawg]

I know what a functioning alcoholic is, what does that have to do with whether or not being an alcoholic is bad?

I’m saying that you eat Pringles even if you know it’s bad because you simply accept it and don’t see it as a big deal. An alcoholic knows showing up at work drunk is a big deal and waits until after work to drink.