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Venting How old were you when you realised you weren't going to have a successful sexlife?

It took me a while but at 16 I realized that it was over when I got rejected for like the fifth girl.
 
I remember when I was 13 and started to get a hold of my first pornos. I saw this guy perform in every single one of them. His name was Peter North and he was superior to the other male performers. He boasted with the biggest cock, the biggest muscles, the biggest cumshot and so on. As an impressionable youth I saw that and I thought: I want to be like that guy! I AM going to be like that guy!

Peter North often had sex with two or more girls at the same time and I thought: Wow! This is amazing! I can't wait until I grow up in a few years and get to experience all this hot and wild sex for myself. Just like Peter North right!

When I was around 18 I slowly started to realise that maybe all this Peter North stuff wouldn't come true. But I did not give up. I went out to bars and clubs and devestated my body in hopes of finally reaching that sweet sex. Just like Peter North did on a daily basis right?

Finally around 20 I came to the conclusion that I never could become like Peter North. All those young and hot girls, all that hedonistic and wild sex could never be mine.

I saw the hot girls still pleasuring Peter North. Sucking his balls, offering up their tight anuses to him while I remained sexless. It was quite bitter.

At what age did you realise you were never going to have a successful sex life?
14
 
Oh, to be 19 again! Ladies and gentlemen, do you remember being 19? Let me tell ya, the juices are flowing, the red corpuscles are corpuscle'ing, the grass is green and it's soft, and summer's gonna last forever. Now do you remember? Yeah ya do. But if you're being honest - well, really honest - you'll recall that you also had an under-developed 19-year-old brain. Me personally? I... it... if I were held accountable for some of the stupid decisions I made when I was 19 - oh boy, wow. I bet if we were in church right now, I'd get a big "amen!" Which brings us to these three. Now, these three knuckle heads - and I'm sorry boys, but that's what you are - they did a dumb thing.
 
17yrs, was and still is a big loser. I sort of thought I will be incel at 13/14yrs as well because I was a massive sperg then & normies were getting gfs while I was rotting playing vidya.
 
A small handful of parents saying they can manage it is not the same as widespread belief that no content should have to be 18+ if kids "really wanna watch it."

Which is to say nothing of your original point that kids having actual sex is also somehow fine. That is a much harder argument to make.
The original argument you made was you’re not supposed to have sex before 18. I disagree with this since most people do have sex below 18 and it’s considered a milestone to lose your virginity as a man. Experience matters.
 
The original argument you made was you’re not supposed to have sex before 18. I disagree with this since most people do have sex below 18 and it’s considered a milestone to lose your virginity as a man. Experience matters.

Just because most people do it doesn't mean you're supposed to. Most people eat like shit, but that's not ideal. What "most people" do is the easy, irresponsible thing.
 
Just because most people do it doesn't mean you're supposed to. Most people eat like shit, but that's not ideal. What "most people" do is the easy, irresponsible thing.
Incorrect when it comes to getting laid. Losing your virginity before you graduate high school is something that likely requires some effort, and none of us were able to achieve. Lack of experience harms you, since foids don’t want to date inexperienced men.
 
Incorrect when it comes to getting laid. Losing your virginity before you graduate high school is something that likely requires some effort, and none of us were able to achieve. Lack of experience harms you, since foids don’t want to date inexperienced men.

It's irresponsible to spend your childhood having sex. It's easy to give into temptation, it's responsible to show restraint. Have you really never heard of these things?
 
It's irresponsible to spend your childhood having sex. It's easy to give into temptation, it's responsible to show restraint. Have you really never heard of these things?
None of us showed restraint this is incels.is not volcels.is
 
None of us showed restraint this is incels.is not volcels.is

You're not focusing on the conversation at hand...

Look, your classmates are having sex because your classmates would rather do the easy thing. Because it's harder to show restraint and be responsible.
 
You're not focusing on the conversation at hand...

Look, your classmates are having sex because your classmates would rather do the easy thing. Because it's harder to show restraint and be responsible.
You could make the argument that no one should be having sex outside of marriage at all, adults or teens.

However that’s a relic of the past. Hitting your milestones, especially as a man, is very important.
 
You could make the argument that no one should be having sex outside of marriage at all, adults or teens.

However that’s a relic of the past. Hitting your milestones, especially as a man, is very important.

That is more fringe a view than "You should wait until you're an adult to have sex." By and large, two consenting adults having sex outside of marriage isn't seen as "irresponsible," save for in the eyes of the exceptionally principled. It's not just "common" to have sex without getting married, it's "acceptable." Not a moral failing.
 
That is more fringe a view than "You should wait until you're an adult to have sex." By and large, two consenting adults having sex outside of marriage isn't seen as "irresponsible," save for in the eyes of the exceptionally principled. It's not just "common" to have sex without getting married, it's "acceptable." Not a moral failing.
This is argumentum ad populism fallacy you’re committing. It’s also a subtle appeal to the law.
 
This is argumentum ad populism fallacy you’re committing. It’s also a subtle appeal to the law.

Because we're talking about what's acceptable in society. That depends on what society at large considers the standard.
 
Because we're talking about what's acceptable in society. That depends on what society at large considers the standard.
What people openly say and what people believe are two different things.

Realistically, if a male isn’t getting laid as a teenager, it’s a bad sign and an indicator of inceldom, especially if he wasn’t able to have romantic success in the slightest.
 
What people openly say and what people believe are two different things.

Realistically, if a male isn’t getting laid as a teenager, it’s a bad sign and an indicator of inceldom, especially if he wasn’t able to have romantic success in the slightest.

Oh my God. You're just denying anything and everything as invalid. Nothing counts, huh? What people say doesn't count. What principles people will accept doesn't count.
 
Oh my God. You're just denying anything and everything as invalid. Nothing counts, huh? What people say doesn't count. What principles people will accept doesn't count.
Nope, people don’t openly say blackpilled truths because of political correctness and social consequences. A major blackpill is that experience for a man matters. Women judge men negatively for not having had experience. They expect a man to have had at least experience in his teens.
 
Nope, people don’t openly say blackpilled truths because of political correctness and social consequences. A major blackpill is that experience for a man matters. Women judge men negatively for not having had experience. They expect a man to have had at least experience in his teens.

You talk like someone who doesn't live in the real world. Or a paranoid person who thinks everyone is lying. Except for the scant few who support your weird-ass beliefs.
 
You talk like someone who doesn't live in the real world. Or a paranoid person who thinks everyone is lying. Except for the scant few who support your weird-ass beliefs.
You sound like an IT cuck. “Weird-ass beliefs.” It’s called the blackpill.

Who the fuck are you? You’re acting like you are so much more “in the know” than people here? Fuck off, bluepiller.
 
You sound like an IT cuck. “Weird-ass beliefs.” It’s called the blackpill.

Who the fuck are you? You’re acting like you are so much more “in the know” than people here? Fuck off, bluepiller.

In the know of the real world? Yes, I know more than you about that. I know you have a hard sell ahead of you if you try to convince people that we should let minors watch porn.
 
Nice fucking strawman, I didn’t say that. I specifically said people don’t care.

If people don't care, we should stop saying they shouldn't. That's what "let them" means. Stop saying it's a bad thing.
 
when I was 15. when I was heard rumors of toilets and chads/niggers sleeping around.
 
No, "let them" means "stop saying kids watching porn is a bad thing."
People can say whatever they want, I don’t care. I just see it as virtue signalling. Actions speak louder than words.
 
No, "let them" means "stop saying kids watching porn is a bad thing."
Coming back to this discussion. You’re right I’m wrong. Kids under 18 shouldn’t be watching porn or having sex. Both are adult activities.
 
Coming back to this discussion. You’re right I’m wrong. Kids under 18 shouldn’t be watching porn or having sex. Both are adult activities.
Watching porn can be devastating when you're underage.
 
19, since i discovered BP
 
Very young. I remember editing my own images and making my own incel "memes" when I didn't even know the term incel.
 
Very young. I remember editing my own images and making my own incel "memes" when I didn't even know the term incel.
At that age you should have been looking forward to years of pleasurable sex. Man, we deserve better than this.
 
I started to realize it in around February 2021. Although, when it fully hit, and when I realized that I was truly doomed, it was in around early 2022.
 
I started to realize it in around February 2021. Although, when it fully hit, and when I realized that I was truly doomed, it was in around early 2022.
We deserve to be slayers like normal people. Not to live like this.
 
Probably my late teens, starting at 17, when i got into college
 
17-18 when I started balding and was still KHHV, turning 25 in 2 months now
 

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