I know what you're entailing, and I'm working on it. Since we're obviously on...incels.is, marriage isn't something I am hopeful for so the pressure is very little compared to if I'm expecting my wife to have our baby and I need a complete moral system to walk me through the process of father and familyhood. You said earlier that religion does all the heavy work for us. I will use Islam to explain further what I mean.
In the words of Abu Baraa, former Muslim political activist and 'Shari' student {A Shari student studies the Islamic legislation known as the Sharia or Shariah law} :
"Islam is a complete way of life. Every aspect of a person's life is an governed by Islam. The way they sleep, to the way they wake up, to the way they clean/groom themselves (personal hygiene), to their family life at home, to their public life at work, to the economy, to the relationship to those in authority (The Ruler/Emir, or in the case of a Caliphate, the Caliph), as well as how to rule and govern, to establish an economy in society, how to establish judiciary and penal code as well as foreign policy and international relationships. All of it is governed by Islamic laws (I.e. Sharia Law)"
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Say, "Indeed, my prayer, my rites of sacrifice, my living and my dying are for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
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Warfare can be split into offensive and defensive in Islam, both stated as Jihad - Offensive as a means to spread Islam and "light" and Defensive as a means to defend one's country, land, fellow Muslims and family. Wala wal Baraa is a concept that you bear loyalty and love to Muslims, and disloyalty and animosity to general non-Muslims. According to Ibn Kathir, a well-known Quran exegesis author, both Christians and Juden are to pay a tax of humiliation due to their religion - Jizya - and if either see a Muslim walking on the same path, they must get off the path for the Muslim. Religious Segregation goes brrr
Wala wal Baraa is to be upheld in every encounter with a general non-Muslim with the exception of parents in non-warfare situations, and those poor retards looking to join Islam and are swayed by the chirping of Da'waa (a means to spread Islam through proselytism). This means you have hundreds of thousands of Muslims, no millions upholding this Jewish-like loyalty with each other, and united hatred of non-Muslims. A lot of Muslims don't, but this is either because they don't want to which is blasphemy or they haven't been informed by their teachers or parents. They learn about it online most of the times.
So take past me for example. I'm walking through a mall, and all I see are non-Muslims, and I see blasphemy in the form of Christmas, or celebrating Pride day, yada yada. I have all this hate in my heart, like Abraham did according to the Quran:
There has already been for you an excellent pattern in Abraham and those with him, when they said to their people, “Indeed, we are disassociated from you and from whatever you worship other than Allah. We have denied you, and there has appeared between us and you animosity and hatred forever until you believe in Allah alone” except for the saying of Abraham to his father, “I will surely ask forgiveness for you, but I have not [power to do] for you anything against Allah. Our Lord, upon You we have relied, and to You we have returned, and to You is the destination."
So you have hatred to non-Muslims which encompasses everyone who isn't Muslim. That's literally 1.7 billion out of world hating/supposed to hate 6.3 billion, forget about Muslims who are in reality apostates. We're 8.0 billion as a human race as it is. I haven't even explained:
-Democracy is incompatible with Islam
-No covenant of security between the Ummah and the rest of the Non-Muslim world so y'all in the West are free game to lone-wolves, taking blame for the destruction and meddling of your governments in Muslim affairs
-Romanisation of Martyrdom/Death - look at how the hadiths describe paradise is under the shade of swords and how Muslims should have love of death and hatred of life (In the past, this made me feel noble + I wanted my 72 waifus under the cover of paradise after a painless death
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-Concubinage and a general slave-sex market as seen with the Yazidis and IS
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Islam, like Scientology, like Judaism, like some denominations of Christianity (Branch Davidians), is another cult. Despite it's claims of fulfilling the human nature, it alienates, demonizes Christians and Juden to worse than animals as the Quran states. Has caused an everlasting cycle where Muslims will fight against everything, including other self-proclaimed Muslims until the never-coming apocalyptic Final Hour. I'm navigating, reborn even, looking at you and others as HUMANS that want to live, that are scared of death, that have families, that have dreams. The package that Islam has brought to me is despicable, and I reject it.
I've said it before. I'm reborn, and I'm finding my way around without a package, a system that I don't have to think about but follow to the upmost.
It's not important what the belief is necessarily
It is, and I hope I've made it clear. There is no other religion, or ideology like Islam, and there never will be. It will never mass-reform either, as Christianity has. It is important I summarised a few nuanced topics to give you an understanding.
In short, extreme situations and pivotal moments that brought unease and warned a threatening conclusion cultivated overtime, and I chose to adhere to my new sense of humanity? My environments changed drastically, going from a democratic and tolerant society to an Islamist-dominated and Christian-minority district thousands of miles away. I questioned if I was bestowed with rare knowledge, and the blessing of eventual martyrdom if I acted upon my knowledge. I can't live a life of this much hate anymore. Why would God want this much, for his final masterpiece to involve the disbelievers to burn and his believers to laugh at their dismay from heavenly cushions. Why is Islam special, but why does it resemble every other cult? For all of man's existence, will the world be split between believers vs disbelievers until a judgement day? It was never as clear as it was right now, black and white - I'm nobody special. I used to believe my blood was the purest as a Muslim.
I don't know the meaning of life, and I heavily doubt the existence of any God. As for a morality system, or way of life, I admit and accept that I'm my own God, choosing my own morals to deviate and ever-change. Allah says those who follow their own desires worship themselves anyways. For laws, I adhere to the country I adhere in to avoid punishments.
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