I've gone on dating apps before, and it was hell as always. I've been gymcelling, taking 3 showers a day, and dressing in nice clothes, but the results are the same. I've also used candid photos taken by pros for the most part. If I get a match, it's either no reply or I basically get trolled by the girl.
So finally, I get a match with a girl who lives more than 2 hours away from me on Bumble.
Her photos : Dyed hair, piercings
. Interests are therapy, lgbt, anime and video games. Has one somewhat slutty photo. More red flags than in a Chinese parade.
She writes me an opener about broken hearts which is another sign to run for the hills, but somehow I manage to steer the conversation towards video games and anime.
We play some online games together, exchange insta and she starts dumping shit on me - she tells me that she is mentally ill, has attempted suicide, has been in psychiatric hospital, low self esteem, daddy issues, basically a NEET like a lot of guys here. Any normie man would have stopped talking by now, but I guess I'm used due to my mother using me as a personal therapist.
We set up a meeting and when we met up she has gained weight since the photos, but she is not unfuckable - I don't have enough fingers and toes to count the red flags anymore. We have fun, but she is not as talkative as she was online, and she goes home. It was more like hanging out with a friend than what I imagine a date would be like. Maybe I'm even uglier irl than in pictures
In the same evening after, she calls me and unloads shit on me again while drunk, and I find out how she has alienated her friends, etc. We chat and set up a second date.
A week after we play some pool and hang out, but she is even colder than before. I find out that she has some male "friend" that lives in the same city as me.
Then after the next day, she keeps finding reasons not to talk and I've given up. It has been a week since. She obviously used me for entertainment since she was bored and has no life of her own. I've been high on copium and purposefully ignored every danger sign. I should be happy that I didn't really lose anything besides a small amount of money and time, since we split everything.
The sad thing is that this is probably the best interaction I've had with a woman my age since primary school. I can understand simps and bluepill cucks a bit more now, even talking to some mentally damaged girl who had no interest in me gave me a high I haven't felt for a long, long time. I felt alive and like life had meaning. But the realization that it never began dropped me even lower tbh, so I'm not sure it was worth it.
TL;DR; Got played for a fool by some bored arthoe roastie, feel even worse now.
So finally, I get a match with a girl who lives more than 2 hours away from me on Bumble.
Her photos : Dyed hair, piercings
. Interests are therapy, lgbt, anime and video games. Has one somewhat slutty photo. More red flags than in a Chinese parade.She writes me an opener about broken hearts which is another sign to run for the hills, but somehow I manage to steer the conversation towards video games and anime.
We play some online games together, exchange insta and she starts dumping shit on me - she tells me that she is mentally ill, has attempted suicide, has been in psychiatric hospital, low self esteem, daddy issues, basically a NEET like a lot of guys here. Any normie man would have stopped talking by now, but I guess I'm used due to my mother using me as a personal therapist.
We set up a meeting and when we met up she has gained weight since the photos, but she is not unfuckable - I don't have enough fingers and toes to count the red flags anymore. We have fun, but she is not as talkative as she was online, and she goes home. It was more like hanging out with a friend than what I imagine a date would be like. Maybe I'm even uglier irl than in pictures
In the same evening after, she calls me and unloads shit on me again while drunk, and I find out how she has alienated her friends, etc. We chat and set up a second date.
A week after we play some pool and hang out, but she is even colder than before. I find out that she has some male "friend" that lives in the same city as me.
Then after the next day, she keeps finding reasons not to talk and I've given up. It has been a week since. She obviously used me for entertainment since she was bored and has no life of her own. I've been high on copium and purposefully ignored every danger sign. I should be happy that I didn't really lose anything besides a small amount of money and time, since we split everything.
The sad thing is that this is probably the best interaction I've had with a woman my age since primary school. I can understand simps and bluepill cucks a bit more now, even talking to some mentally damaged girl who had no interest in me gave me a high I haven't felt for a long, long time. I felt alive and like life had meaning. But the realization that it never began dropped me even lower tbh, so I'm not sure it was worth it.
TL;DR; Got played for a fool by some bored arthoe roastie, feel even worse now.
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