med-cel
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When people around me have realized that I’m chronically single, many have suggested that I start dating (without offering more guidance on how to start than that). A few people have even offered to make me an online dating profile (though one close female friend candidly suggested that I go to the gym a bit before starting, for reference at the time I was quite skinny but I’ve since worked on changing that).
In general, is this a positive, negative or neutral signal?
For example:
Positive - if people suggest you date, it means you can’t be completely hideous in either the looks or personality department because if you were, they wouldn’t suggest it.
Negative - they could just be making fun of you by suggesting something that you will never be able to attain.
Neutral - it’s just small talk and means nothing.
Thoughts? Or am I a sperg just for thinking about this?
In general, is this a positive, negative or neutral signal?
For example:
Positive - if people suggest you date, it means you can’t be completely hideous in either the looks or personality department because if you were, they wouldn’t suggest it.
Negative - they could just be making fun of you by suggesting something that you will never be able to attain.
Neutral - it’s just small talk and means nothing.
Thoughts? Or am I a sperg just for thinking about this?