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Serious I'm going to text my oneitis and ask if she wants to meet up for a coffee or lunch this weekend (not a "date").

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My life is dull. I feel empty and have nobody to talk to. I can't take this anymore. I need some connection with a human because I'm a human being, dammit.

So out of sheer desperation, I've decided to text my oneitis later and ask if she wants to meet up for a coffee or lunch this weekend.

I'm 99.9999% sure that she'll say "no" or make up an excuse as to why she can't meet me, but whatever. I don't care. I've got nothing to lose at this point.
 
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If this succeeds, make one last post telling us about it and get out.
 
My life is dull. I feel empty and have nobody to talk to. I can't take this anymore. I need some connection with a human because I'm a human being, dammit.

So out of sheer desperation, I've decided to text my oneitis later and ask if she wants to meet up for a coffee or lunch this weekend.

I'm 99.9999% sure that she'll say "no" or make up an excuse as to why she can't meet me, but whatever. I don't care. I've got nothing to lose at this point.
post results then leave the forum boyo :feelsokman:
 
My life is dull. I feel empty and have nobody to talk to. I can't take this anymore. I need some connection with a human because I'm a human being, dammit.

So out of sheer desperation, I've decided to text my oneitis later and ask if she wants to meet up for a coffee or lunch this weekend.

I'm 99.9999% sure that she'll say "no" or make up an excuse as to why she can't meet me, but whatever. I don't care. I've got nothing to lose at this point.
:reeeeee: :reeeeee: Kys moggER if she replies to you
 
If this succeeds, make one last post telling us about it and get out.

Why? She doesn't see me as a potential romantic partner, so even if she agrees to meet me this weekend, it won't be a "date". I'll still remain an incel.

In the past, I have met her for lunches, dinners, coffees etc but we only hung out as friends and nothing more. :cryfeels:
 
Cucked to be doing that
 
Why? She doesn't see me as a potential romantic partner, so even if she agrees to meet me this weekend, it won't be a "date". I'll still remain an incel.

In the past, I have met her for lunches, dinners, coffees etc but we only hung out as friends and nothing more. :cryfeels:

It's more than most men here have ever gotten. I would tread lightly and choose your words carefully around here. Bragging goes hard on you. We just banned a guy for bragging.
 
It's more than most men here have ever gotten. I would tread lightly and choose your words carefully around here. Bragging goes hard on you. We just banned a guy for bragging.

Yeah I know. But it's still not a "date". And I don't have a history of dating.

Also, I'm not bragging. I'm just expressing frustration over how lonely and empty I'm feeling, which is why I want to ask her to meet up.
 
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Will Probably not work
 
Cuck for having a oneitis past your teens, all women are whores, but yes go ahead and do it. You miss 100% of all the shots you don’t take etc
 
Don't put anything in her coffee. Seriously don't. :-(
 
Cuck for having a oneitis past your teens, all women are whores, but yes go ahead and do it. You miss 100% of all the shots you don’t take etc
 
Also, I'm not bragging. I'm just expressing frustration over how lonely and empty I'm feeling, which is why I want to ask her to meet up.

That's what they all say, and that's not for you to decide. You're not supposed to come here and wave successes in the face of failures.
 
That's what they all say, and that's not for you to decide. You're not supposed to come here and wave successes in the face of failures.
He's gonna fail anyways, only going to make him swallow the blackpill even more.
 
My life is dull. I feel empty and have nobody to talk to. I can't take this anymore. I need some connection with a human because I'm a human being, dammit.

So out of sheer desperation, I've decided to text my oneitis later and ask if she wants to meet up for a coffee or lunch this weekend.

I'm 99.9999% sure that she'll say "no" or make up an excuse as to why she can't meet me, but whatever. I don't care. I've got nothing to lose at this point.
This ought to be funny

Keep us posted OP, I’m rooting for you
 
You're not supposed to come here and wave successes in the face of failures.

I know but I haven't had any successes to wave around.

It's odd how escortcels are allowed to make long detailed posts describing their "successes" in graphic detail, but desiring to meet a female acquaintance for lunch is frowned upon.
 
It's odd how escortcels are allowed to make long detailed posts describing their "successes" in graphic detail, but desiring to meet a female acquaintance for lunch is frowned upon.

Escorts are contractually obligated to have sex with you if you pay them. But a woman choosing to spend time with you? That's her consent. She's consenting to spending time with you. It means she likes you on some level. A higher level than most of us.
 
Never even had a single friend to talk too
 
Update: I texted her a few hours ago. She hasn't replied yet. :cryfeels:
 
Shell ghost you or say no and you will come back here crying.
 
It's odd how escortcels are allowed to make long detailed posts describing their "successes" in graphic detail, but desiring to meet a female acquaintance for lunch is frowned upon.
Because what you're doing is retarded masochism.
 
Why? She doesn't see me as a potential romantic partner, so even if she agrees to meet me this weekend, it won't be a "date". I'll still remain an incel.

In the past, I have met her for lunches, dinners, coffees etc but we only hung out as friends and nothing more. :cryfeels:
nigga if youre in the friendzone like this you have some chance of ascending, theres some series of actions you can take that leads to you fucking her, this is where red pill applies not black pill
Most of us never even get a chance, 0x0%
 
nigga if youre in the friendzone like this you have some chance of ascending, theres some series of actions you can take that leads to you fucking her, this is where red pill applies not black pill
Most of us never even get a chance, 0x0%

In order for those actions to work, she has to see me as attractive. And there's nothing I can do to make that happen.
 
In order for those actions to work, she has to see me as attractive. And there's nothing I can do to make that happen.
Exactly, red pill doesn't work if your one of us.
 
Need update. But I think I already know what the result will be.

Also some future advice: Go in with the idea of her getting to know you, and you knowing her. If you already properly know each other, foids think meals alone are boring and too simple. Make it an activity, almost like a date. A proper date will be multiple activities in succession, or just one long one + meal. They still love eating out. And highly likely she'll just "want to stay friends"
 
At least you tried, there's no shame in that
 
Update: She replied saying she'll be busy the next couple of weeks.

(If I were Chad, she'd take time out of her busy schedule just to meet me. But since I'm an ugly subhuman, I'm not a priority and she's making me wait. I hate this life and I want to die.)

Without thinking, I replied saying "let me know whenever you're free to meet". And she replied with a "thumbs up" emoji.

But it hit me later that it was a bad idea. Because now she can just arbitrarily decide that she's not free to meet me and thus won't have to "let me know".

It's over. It never began. It will never begin. But my suffering will continue and will never end. :cryfeels:
 
Update: She replied saying she'll be busy the next couple of weeks.

(If I were Chad, she'd take time out of her busy schedule just to meet me. But since I'm an ugly subhuman, I'm not a priority and she's making me wait. I hate this life and I want to die.)

Without thinking, I replied saying "let me know whenever you're free to meet". And she replied with a "thumbs up" emoji.

But it hit me later that it was a bad idea. Because now she can just arbitrarily decide that she's not free to meet me and thus won't have to "let me know".

It's over. It never began. It will never begin. But my suffering will continue and will never end. :cryfeels:
You'll reach my level soon which is the level where they just leave you on read.
 
Update: She replied saying she'll be busy the next couple of weeks.

(If I were Chad, she'd take time out of her busy schedule just to meet me. But since I'm an ugly subhuman, I'm not a priority and she's making me wait. I hate this life and I want to die.)

Without thinking, I replied saying "let me know whenever you're free to meet". And she replied with a "thumbs up" emoji.

But it hit me later that it was a bad idea. Because now she can just arbitrarily decide that she's not free to meet me and thus won't have to "let me know".

It's over. It never began. It will never begin. But my suffering will continue and will never end. :cryfeels:
her text means "no", move on.
 
Mega Update.

She texted me yesterday out of the blue saying we should meet up sometime. When I saw her text, I almost cried. For a moment, I thought it was hallucinating.

I wanted to meet her that very instant. But I didn't want to sound desperate so I replied saying I'm busy this week and that we can meet next week. And she said that's fine with her!

Guys, I won't lie. I'm immensely happy. But I also feel great sadness knowing it will most probably just be a one time thing. There's no way I'll be meeting her on the regular, let alone ascend with her.

But then, even a one off meet up with her would means a lot to me. Because I have no other options.

Either way, I've decided I'm going to make a move and tell her I like her and see what happens. At this point, I'd rather hear a firm "No" and move on than live the rest of my pathetic life thinking about her.
 
Mega Update.

She texted me yesterday out of the blue saying we should meet up sometime. When I saw her text, I almost cried. For a moment, I thought it was hallucinating.

I wanted to meet her that very instant. But I didn't want to sound desperate so I replied saying I'm busy this week and that we can meet next week. And she said that's fine with her!

Guys, I won't lie. I'm immensely happy. But I also feel great sadness knowing it will most probably just be a one time thing. There's no way I'll be meeting her on the regular, let alone ascend with her.

But then, even a one off meet up with her would means a lot to me. Because I have no other options.

Either way, I've decided I'm going to make a move and tell her I like her and see what happens. At this point, I'd rather hear a firm "No" and move on than live the rest of my pathetic life thinking about her.
Chad :chad:
 
Why? She doesn't see me as a potential romantic partner, so even if she agrees to meet me this weekend, it won't be a "date". I'll still remain an incel.

In the past, I have met her for lunches, dinners, coffees etc but we only hung out as friends and nothing more. :cryfeels:
cuck, i hope you at least didnt pay for her
 
Mega Update.

She texted me yesterday out of the blue saying we should meet up sometime. When I saw her text, I almost cried. For a moment, I thought it was hallucinating.

I wanted to meet her that very instant. But I didn't want to sound desperate so I replied saying I'm busy this week and that we can meet next week. And she said that's fine with her!

Guys, I won't lie. I'm immensely happy. But I also feel great sadness knowing it will most probably just be a one time thing. There's no way I'll be meeting her on the regular, let alone ascend with her.

But then, even a one off meet up with her would means a lot to me. Because I have no other options.

Either way, I've decided I'm going to make a move and tell her I like her and see what happens. At this point, I'd rather hear a firm "No" and move on than live the rest of my pathetic life thinking about her.
Not wanna be a party pooper but while you have to go through all bullshit she probably fucked multiple Chads + girls dont see guys they are friends with as men, they see them as girls
 
Is it not already implied that it’s a date? Idk man. I think it’s good to ask though
 
Is it not already implied that it’s a date? Idk man. I think it’s good to ask though

It's not a "date" if you're just hanging out as friends.

Real dates, the ones Chads go on, almost always contain romantic or sexual elements, like hugging, kissing, and other intimate activities.
 
It's not a "date" if you're just hanging out as friends.

Real dates, the ones normies go on, almost always contain romantic or sexual elements, like hugging, kissing, and other intimate activities.
Are you already friends with her?
 
Yes. She just sees me as a friend and nothing more. :cryfeels:
Ic. Sorry dude :feelsbadman:. It makes sense that you can ask her out for coffee/lunch and it’d be just as friends. I thought you didn’t already know her, and in that case I think it may be seen as a date, but I’m not quite sure still since I have so little experience with that
 
Mega Update.

She texted me yesterday out of the blue saying we should meet up sometime. When I saw her text, I almost cried. For a moment, I thought it was hallucinating.

I wanted to meet her that very instant. But I didn't want to sound desperate so I replied saying I'm busy this week and that we can meet next week. And she said that's fine with her!

Guys, I won't lie. I'm immensely happy. But I also feel great sadness knowing it will most probably just be a one time thing. There's no way I'll be meeting her on the regular, let alone ascend with her.

But then, even a one off meet up with her would means a lot to me. Because I have no other options.

Either way, I've decided I'm going to make a move and tell her I like her and see what happens. At this point, I'd rather hear a firm "No" and move on than live the rest of my pathetic life thinking about her.
The chads she met before you didn't satisfied her so she'll settle for you instead
 

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