yeah but ultimately its a conformist mindset to give into hedonistic desire for pleasure and in doing so u forfeit being an involuntarily celibate. It would be ironic for any escortcel to complain about the state of society when they helped in perpetuating it even if its a small act such as giving money to a whore. And its not like you can even breed with the escorts u just get to feel some sensations, why sacrifice everything you lived against for some used up roast beef flaps. Escortceling should only be a last ditch effort type of thing and should still result in a forum ban because u would be considered a fakecel after. And beside not everyone can even escortcel they arent available everywhere, not like i can just download an app on my fucking phone and pay some escorts to come and fuck me, so when one person has access and another doesnt it become rich vs poor and that is indeed bragging and shouldn't be tolerated.
i've already explained about the difficulty of using the definition literally to categorize incel/volcel.
for the second point, can anyone entirely avoid perpetuating the state of society? for example, if you're not NEET, then you are contributing to the economy and paying taxes to subsidize abortion and welfare for single mothers. and you aren't getting anything in return for that, unlike escortceling. so wageslaving perpetuates it as well. there are probably a million other things that perpetuate the state of society more than paying one whore does. there's no morals of inceldom in that way.
in addition, prostitution is important because it puts a dollar value on sex with women, while women want the value of sex to be priceless. when one sees an escort, he can recover dignity by comparing the value of sex with a foid in the wild with the value of sex with a similar-looking escort, pin a dollar value on it, and so avoid simping, since he knows exactly how much value he is giving up by not simping. notice how in the US, where escortceling is illegal, there are the most simps who pay for onlyfans, camgirls, etc. that's because they don't have a clear barometer of how much sex with a foid is worth.
from the point of view of society, most are not in support of escorts. they think when a man sees an escort, it perpetuates "sex trafficking" and "exploitation of women" who are "forced" into the sex trade. these are hardly positive things from their point of view and certainly not a betrayal of common incel values. if everyone saw escorts, it would hurt the value of women, lessen their stranglehold on men, and overall improve society.
finally, i don't support bragging about sexual experiences, even with an escort.