Based-nearcel
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I live in a small city ( 50k-125k) in south america. Because there is no tinder here people met each other through social circle ( no clubs ) and a good amount of 18yo girls ( 50% - 60% ) are virgins.
Because of this and the fact that there aren't many chads around hypergamy is not too big of a problem although it is still over for sub 3s , I've seen many 4/10s ( like 20 ) have decent dating oportunities (and trust me, I don't have many friends).
So it's a paradise, right?
WRONG
Most of us here were bullied in school, didn't had any experiences with girls ( even friendships ) and are either autistic, depressed, anxious, angry or all at the same time.
I think the problem goes deeper than just "WesTern SocIetY"
I never got a childhood
I never rode a bike with my friends ( cuz i never got any )
I never leaved the house as a child
I was bullied
I never made friends in elementary school
I was never invited to child parties
I never got talked to the first 13 years of my life
and I know that my looks and the fact that I used to be really short had a lot to do with that. But I just think of all the guys that are similar in looks that got into a relationship.
Because of my particular situation I think that many of us would be in the exact same position even if society was different, in every group there is always an outcast. There is always a loser that no one wants to talk to.
Can't improve my social skills because everybody is related in some way
Can't go cold approach cuz there is no night life.
Eliminating degeneracy won't change the fact that you don't fit in.
SWALLOW THE SOCIALPILL
Because of this and the fact that there aren't many chads around hypergamy is not too big of a problem although it is still over for sub 3s , I've seen many 4/10s ( like 20 ) have decent dating oportunities (and trust me, I don't have many friends).
So it's a paradise, right?
WRONG
Most of us here were bullied in school, didn't had any experiences with girls ( even friendships ) and are either autistic, depressed, anxious, angry or all at the same time.
I think the problem goes deeper than just "WesTern SocIetY"
I never got a childhood
I never rode a bike with my friends ( cuz i never got any )
I never leaved the house as a child
I was bullied
I never made friends in elementary school
I was never invited to child parties
I never got talked to the first 13 years of my life
and I know that my looks and the fact that I used to be really short had a lot to do with that. But I just think of all the guys that are similar in looks that got into a relationship.
Because of my particular situation I think that many of us would be in the exact same position even if society was different, in every group there is always an outcast. There is always a loser that no one wants to talk to.
Can't improve my social skills because everybody is related in some way
Can't go cold approach cuz there is no night life.
Eliminating degeneracy won't change the fact that you don't fit in.
SWALLOW THE SOCIALPILL