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I run several alts on IG, including an account that is supposed to be a group/business but it is only run by me, and yet instagram thinks I'm a woman and recommends me horoscopes, relatable memes, and fashion shit. What's most frustrating though is that you get the posts fed to women (by other women, probably) on how to deal with "creeps". Because being ugly or awkward is creepy...the post was saying what (fake, spoof) phone numbers to give """creeps""" which ranges from "you're disrespecting women/making them feel unsafe/they're not into you" in other words, you're not Chad enough, to random Gay-Mur references and outdated memes. And this all counts as part of a "self-care" account. Self-care, really? You're going and protecting yourself, by being snarky (sassy maybe) and underhanded to people and lying to them instead of directly saying you're not hot enough?
I think women on average are scared if they tell a non-hot man that he's not hot enough, he will get mad and punch them. I bet if all women did this though, men wouldn't punch because we'd be used to it. Men have an ego to maintain, and because unlike women we have to fit a certain mould and don't have nearly the support that women do, that ego is much more fragile. But of course, you can't change female hypocrisy or biology or society's movements to a world where men can only be one thing, and women can be whatever they want to be.
Nothing hurts more than being told you'll never be good enough.
I think women on average are scared if they tell a non-hot man that he's not hot enough, he will get mad and punch them. I bet if all women did this though, men wouldn't punch because we'd be used to it. Men have an ego to maintain, and because unlike women we have to fit a certain mould and don't have nearly the support that women do, that ego is much more fragile. But of course, you can't change female hypocrisy or biology or society's movements to a world where men can only be one thing, and women can be whatever they want to be.
Nothing hurts more than being told you'll never be good enough.